You're her cyber boyfrind/friend...There in lies the folly.

Nothing is real until you meet and date in person.

Forget about the long distance relationships. Work on finding local dates.

Good luck.

She's going to be here for another 6 months and she cut off the relationship so she can think about her family?

I think there may be more to it than that. Like maybe she's not that into you and there may be another waiting in the wings...

Just something to look out for...

I'm glad you got that off your back. Now you can start to live again.

Call it superficial or call it shallow. Regardless of what one calls it, everyone does it to some degree. If one doesn't recognize it in themselves, then they are in denial.

I'm speaking in generalities here. Hopefully this sheds some light on the circumstances for those that are truely seeking a partner.

Allow me to reiterate, I wasn't bashing anyone.

I'd like to add...Bust a smile dude! Post a new photo!

Then order up your lady your way.

That was Burger Kings wasn't it?

You rang?

Fake pictures are just that...FAKE!

The way I see it, getting to know someone with a fake picture is a waste of time.

One invests a lot of time and emotion getting to know someone. What a drag it would be to find out you are not attracted to them physically.

Then you have to tell them that you're not interested after getting attached to their personality. Try that sometime. It's tough on you and the other person.

Some may say that my thoughts on this matter are those of a shallow man. Not so. They are thoughts of a realistic man.

If you're here to play in the forums, any picture will do.

If you're here to find a partner, I suggest using a recent photo of yourself. Sooner or later you will meet someone. It's best to look like your photo.

Just the facts mam!

I read your profile. It doesn't say much. How do you know that they are not reading your profile.

Or? Are you speaking hypothetically?

Most people need to satisfy their visual requirements in a potential mate before they invest time in getting to know someone.

Call it shallow if you will, but we all do it to some degree.

NEXT!

Hell yes. I'm there to please her. Just NO VIDEO!

2012...A birdie just told me.

Sounds to me like his girl friend or wife just put the BIG "P" block on you. Sorry...Maybe hire a detective next time. I'm available!

HB!

Not in 07. 08 is still an open book. I know she's out there! Just need to cross paths to find what we are both longing for.

You had better jump on that train before it leaves the station...Failure to act can leave you standing in the station with only your baggage.

Here's some unsolicited advice.

First thing you have to do is quit being so hard on yourself.

Give up on the pity threads because you wont get any pity from anyone.

You need to develop a positive attitude and get over your fears of inadequacy.

These forums should help you get over some of those fears. If someone posts something derogatorily towards you, ignore it. You are feeding the beast if you argue with others that have insulted you. By putting yourself out in front of people in a needy light, you open yourself up to negativity. So be positive in your out look. Things will get better if you approach life with a positive attitude.

Stop coming off negatively and quit attacking yourself. You need to build some self confidence if you are ever going to attract a lady.

Sometimes that's exactly what it means!

Now get off that computer and get that girl!


Go.....Go...I mean it GO!

I'v got 2 green lights watching me!