I do not understand the women on these dating sites. I email them whn i am interested in them and then get no response back. Am i like ugly or unattractive or something? All i want is a girlfriend and its so ridiculous that the women on ANY dating site completely ignores me. Im usually a nice sweet guy and will treat any girl with the highest respect. I just don't understand what i am doing wrong.

you seem like a nice guy to me

There fake!!!!!!!!!!!!

Random emailing scares me from people I havent talked to in the forums......ya Im a city girl and have a hard time trusting random freakshows!!!

Let people get to know you a bit before you email them.

YOUR on a dating site!






lol

To be real, it takes time for the ladies to see you and to feel they know your person.
Not many will respond to a random email.
Give your life time here to get involved with others before trying to judge your self or others.
Good luck here and just be YOU!

Didn't you ever read the disclaimer,



Hey if you see unread deleted don't be disappointed, some users (.01%) get 100 new emails a day if they have a great picture up. People like that don't have time to read your message even if they wanted to.

My advice...

Stop trying to look for a girlfriend online, and start enjoying being here. Hang in the forums, get to know ppl, and let them get to know u by contributing to threads.

Having a gf/bf isnt the only thing in life.

i totaly understand but men do the same as women if we are'nt half nude in our pics we get ignored lol good luck you are a little young for me but you are cute:)

Don't take it personally dude. Most people either find it easier to not respond than say thank you but not interested. Then there's the percentage of ppl that just think they're too damn good.
Just keep playing the percentages bud, for every woman I wind up dating, I get shot down by 5 or 6. If you don't take it personally and just keep being yerself, you'll catch someone's eye.
One other thing tho, since this is also a forum, you should get in and join the threads so people can get to know you somewhat BEFORE you just cruise the profiles and send messages of interest. But that's just my opinion

The truth of the matter is this. Some are interested, some are not. You just have to learn what to say and how to say it properly. I've only been on the sight a few days and I've already had an inbox full of messages saying 'what's up?' and nothing more. That doesn't make me want to reply. If you really want women to reply to you, say something worth replying to. And some of them still won't respond. Also, do some profile work if you must. Be meaningful and deep. I really dislike shallow men and nice guys aren't always enough. You have to be interesting and be someone a girl would want to talk to.

You have to remember, most girls are looking to start a friendship first and build their way up to a relationship. If you're just looking for a good time, perhaps you should hit the bars instead.

Be approachable, be meaningful and make as much of a good first impression as you can. I hate to say it, but girls are dreadfully shallow. If we don't like your profile from the start, chances are you aren't going to get a reply.

Hope that helped.

i dont understand women period...lol

you're a nice guy too

sorry

women on dating sites tease and while they play with you they have 90 others they have to deal with so,just pick a number and sit and pretend your waiting to get your sticker for your tag

True THAT!lol

look who is talking about being fake....

i think the chiks on these sights are pretty cool......... but i rarly get replys eather man. and i think it has alout to do with the fact that there are way way way more guys hear than chiks. i mean thay must get hundreds of letters from guys like us, im suprised if mine get red at all:) ..... have fun and good luck

IM real as it gets,

And i still can't get a date!!!

Well I hate to say it but it goes both ways, some of the men on dating sites take one look at me and I think they think that I'm a worth the shot at a good piece of ass ya know.

But your pictures on your profile are cute even though they are a little dark, and if you were a little older I would def be in line for a date!!!

They ages you put on for the women that you are looking for you have to admit that alot of women at the age of 18 - 23 are alittle lets say imature, think back to high school, how did they act back then?

Ignore them and they will come ace

Im here to just tease you and make you horny!!!