Topic: Someone else???
ColinMiller's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:46 PM
I have been talking with a girl for about three weeks and have been getting along perfectly with her but, yesterday I read one of her blogs and she said she is going to spend the weekend with her "Sweetie" and I'm thinking that it's not me due to the fact she's several states away from me and I haven't asked her about meeting yet. Someone please help me with this because I'm tired of getting jerked around to be ultimately let down in the end.

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Wed 12/03/08 05:47 PM
Don't read her blog....for starters....



maybe her sweety is her illegitimate child

ledi180's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:48 PM
Doesn't sound too good does it? Ask her, in a polite way, what 'sweetie' meant. Good luck flowerforyou

Moondark's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:48 PM
She is probably just viewing you as a friend. I know there were people I enjoyed talking with that no longer wanted to talk if I was interested in friendship not a relationship. It is annoying.

ledi180's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:48 PM
I thought blogs were to be read by others? Or is that snooping? Curious :smile:

Don't read her blog....for starters....



maybe her sweety is her illegitimate child

Etrain's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:49 PM
Are you and her dating??? Is she your girlfriend...if not, its not really any of your business what shes does...and if your reading her posts...stalking is bad...lolol...good luck dude:banana: :banana: :banana:

RKISIT's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:50 PM

I have been talking with a girl for about three weeks and have been getting along perfectly with her but, yesterday I read one of her blogs and she said she is going to spend the weekend with her "Sweetie" and I'm thinking that it's not me due to the fact she's several states away from me and I haven't asked her about meeting yet. Someone please help me with this because I'm tired of getting jerked around to be ultimately let down in the end.
ask her and see what she says..its also up to you to believe her story or not...when you do ask,don't be a RKISIT about it:smile:

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Wed 12/03/08 05:51 PM

He asked for help...I provided a practical solution....

If something you are doing is making you ill....stop doing it!!! Simple really


I thought blogs were to be read by others? Or is that snooping? Curious :smile:

Don't read her blog....for starters....



maybe her sweety is her illegitimate child


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Wed 12/03/08 05:52 PM
you may feel like you have been let down now, but continue reading the blogs, you may feel thankful :smile: :smile:

ledi180's photo
Wed 12/03/08 05:56 PM
Understood


He asked for help...I provided a practical solution....

If something you are doing is making you ill....stop doing it!!! Simple really


I thought blogs were to be read by others? Or is that snooping? Curious :smile:

Don't read her blog....for starters....



maybe her sweety is her illegitimate child



keepthehope's photo
Wed 12/03/08 10:10 PM
Blogs are out there to be read. If she didn't want him to see, then she shouldn't have put it there. Just be truthful, and tell her you saw the blog and was wondering what she was referring to. If she does have someone else out there, then she is not good enough for you anyway.

dutchman4u's photo
Wed 12/03/08 10:14 PM
You're her cyber boyfrind/friend...There in lies the folly.

Nothing is real until you meet and date in person.

Forget about the long distance relationships. Work on finding local dates.

Good luck.

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Wed 12/03/08 11:49 PM

You're her cyber boyfrind/friend...There in lies the folly.

Nothing is real until you meet and date in person.

Forget about the long distance relationships. Work on finding local dates.

Good luck.


What he said..

Adrenaline's photo
Thu 12/04/08 09:32 AM
Edited by Adrenaline on Thu 12/04/08 10:07 AM


You're her cyber boyfrind/friend...There in lies the folly.

Nothing is real until you meet and date in person.

Forget about the long distance relationships. Work on finding local dates.

Good luck.


What he said..


Yep, what they said. Although, if you really feel like pursuing it just come out and ask her straight up what it takes to get on her "sweetie" list. Who knows, she might just need a pulse and some gas money :). This will serve two purposes.

1. It will put it out in the open that your interested.

2. It will let you know if she is interested or not cause if she isn't she will either avoid the question or tell you "no chance". If she is, she will provide direction. (not to be confused with "erection").