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Mon 02/25/08 08:46 PM


I have been on here a long time & have never had a guy say aahh sorry your too fat!!!

The guys on here in general are nice caring guys & their personalities make them cute! :wink:

Thank goodness everybody has different taste. drinker


my experience...they dont say "your too fat" they say "I had a great time..I will call you later" and never do...even if you foLLow up with a "thanks for the night, had a great time"

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Mon 02/25/08 08:40 PM

oh how i love these threads.....

bbw or bigger girls whine about being treated differently. does it ever occur to them that its because they act differently or separate themselves?

i am a big girl...i love me, love who i am.

its how you present the package darlin...sexy is in the attitude. i have absolutely no problem in the man department. men are attracted to confidence, intelligence, etc.... i have dated men who NEVER dated a bigger woman before and never thought twice about asking me out because of who i was not what i was.

hold your heads high ladies, love yourself, be yourself...you are all beautiful! flowerforyou



flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou well said

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Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM

Hmmmmm...well...there is such a difference in self image today than even 15 yrs ago....when someone is a 'self proclaimed big-girl' what does that mean...personally I will say only a dog likes a bone. Yet I am not really attracted to someone who visits Omar the Tent Maker for their wardrobe...sry it's harsh...curvy friggin rocks...and if curvy means a bit more????shiot....my carrots to the left there like what was once called 'full figured woman'....


just have to say...your carrots are hilarious lol

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Mon 02/25/08 08:31 PM

well, lax, you are rare. I guess what it comes down to is confidence sometimes. It seems like the more confident a guy is, the less size matters to him in a female. Grant it, there has to be mutual attraction, but he is more likely to overlook it if she isn't height/weight proportionate as long as she has something about her that draws him to her, but it still takes a confident man to see that.


I think it also takes confidence on the womens part too.

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Mon 02/25/08 08:27 PM


oh really lax? and what planet do we find these guys on?


my planet when i was in HS i was 160 ilbs football player wrestler and lacrosse player and i dated a girl almost 70 ilbs bigger than me.... confidence is key.... i know fight MMA and when i am in the ring if i see a girl with a nice smile then as soon as i am done getting my ass kicked or kicking ass i talk to her no matter if she is 70 ilbs or 370 ilbs.



my hats off to you lax...for seeing us bbw as beautiful people

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Mon 02/25/08 08:25 PM

well,, do me a fav and speak of your own, not like you know every man on the planet, cause there are ones that are out there that you might not be right about.


i have to agree with thumper, even though i am having a hard time finding a "second date". We get along great online and than as if it is a shock to them when they see me. But I try not to bunch all guys in one stereo type and still have hope that I will find the one

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Mon 02/25/08 08:20 PM

I like chubby girls. I don't know if i'm considered "cute" tho.


i think you are cute... too young and far away for me but cute blushing

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Mon 02/25/08 08:15 PM
i know there are some out there someplace...my friend is size 22 and her hubby is prob a 28 waist. And she was like that when they met..he adores her.

I think there are maybe 1 or 2 per state sad

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Mon 02/25/08 09:00 AM
hmm he may be a bit controlling, Your not even dating, he should not expect you to not chat with others...heck, even if you were dating he should trust you to be able to chat with other guys.

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Mon 02/25/08 12:07 AM
awwww happy birthday from california flowerforyou drinker have another it is your b-day after all drinker

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Mon 02/25/08 12:04 AM

Farted

tmi

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Sun 02/24/08 10:02 PM


shake shake shake


I suddenly have a picture of the end of Betelguise in my head. (So not ask me to spell it, I just discovered I can't get close enough to even google it).


you were very close beatleguise

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Sun 02/24/08 10:00 PM
laugh laugh

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Sun 02/24/08 09:51 PM
laugh lmao

thanks for the laughs

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Sun 02/24/08 09:49 PM



all singles? no quarters? i want a gumball...


lol here ya go..change for the single 25c 25c 25c 25c
ah! thank you! that's 4 gumballs. who wants one? :]


your welcome... anyone else need some change... i never run out...it is as if I make my own laugh

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Sun 02/24/08 09:47 PM

all singles? no quarters? i want a gumball...


lol here ya go..change for the single 25c 25c 25c 25c

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Sun 02/24/08 09:05 PM
laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

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Sun 02/24/08 09:03 PM

ok that leaves me out

damn was gonna ask ya for the next dance too sad sad


i'll dance with ya ;)

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Sun 02/24/08 09:01 PM

Look at the bright side....you can drop a homeless dude off anywhere and he's home! BurgerKing is a great date for him too!



laugh now that's funny

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Sun 02/24/08 08:59 PM
ewwww gross