why the sadness? i'm sorry for that. i guess sometimes love is sad.

it used to be a happy thread, i think. but i think i bitched a lot in here too.

high and welcome to the neighborhood!

you're welcome. i have grown so much in the past year. i can't believe i wasted half of my life being sad. i am definitely ready for my good stuff. hope you find yours too.

yeah, i don't like the MILF term either. i regret putting it as the topic. but the other choice was OLDER.

Well, it was good while it lasted! LOL He came over Friday night. I told him that I had met someone my age that I might be interested in getting to know and seeing and all. I told him that I just wanted to shoot zombies and hang, nothing sexual. So he left Saturday...mad about no sex and hurt about somebody else. He left me voice messages telling me that he was really hurt and that he cared for me more than he let on. Um, well. Why'd ya do that? Why weren't you honest about your feelings? If you had been, I could have handled things differently, ya know? I never had any intention on hurting him. And now he's all hurt. He'll probably get over it again and come back to hang again. I hope so. I cherish him and his friendship.

Great note. That's what I like to hear. All that mushy stuff.

Yeah, I did that, huh? Well, I needed some time to think. Here's my note to someone:

I really hope we get to meet tomorrow. I'm feeling like I'm doing the school girl crush thing. And I like it. I think I'm going to be in awe of you. But maybe you'll be in awe of me too. Maybe we'll be in awe of each other. I would so dig that.

I started this thread almost three years ago! Holy crap!


The first page note reads:

I'm feeling all sappy these days. I often have mushy thoughts that I'd love to say to the object of my affection, but can't at that moment for whatever reason. I just wanted a place to put them all down.

So here's a thread to write love notes. Secret or not so secret, it makes no difference. Express the love in your heart in here!




So yeah. I always loved this thread because it was pretty positive.

Who's on YOUR mind? What would you like to say to them right now? Share with us here. Let the love flow. Friends, family, romantic partners, companions, whoever. Share the love!

Welcome to Mingle and to the thread, cowgirl.

Ok, good. So I'm not one of those. I think I'll just be me. And live a life that I enjoy. I know where I'm going. And I'll have fun until I get there. I've been sad for too many years. It's time for me to be happy. I made that choice and I'm sticking by it!

I think you're right. I was talking to a gentleman maybe late 40s early 50s in the bar a few weeks ago. I actually discussed this with him.

I go to the bar to have a few drinks. I like to shoot pool. Most people who like to shoot pool are younger men. I shoot pool with younger men. When shooting pool, it is sometimes necessary to bend over. Is it MY fault that these younger men want to check it out? The sexual innuendoes are sometimes begun by them, sometimes by me. But whatever. Got sidetracked. Point is...yep, it's the youthful attitude and nice butts!

Hi Susie...and welcome to Mingle.

No, not at all. Anyone is welcome to contribute whatever wherever, as far as I'm concerned. I haven't even been around. LOL

If someone wants to take it and run with it, go for it. I enjoy discussion and I do think it's an interesting topic.

I'm actually there too. I've had fun the past year. I'm hanging out with a 20yo still. We talk and watch movies and shoot zombies. We go out and explore nature and dig for rocks. He gets me. And we get along. And sometimes it gets sexual, but sometimes it doesn't. But we were able to define it at least. And when the time comes that one of us finds the real thing, we'll have no problem removing that sexual part of our relationship. And we'll still hang out.

I dunno. I know he's not going to stay around til the end with me. I wouldn't want that with him anyway. He annoys me after about five days, sometimes less. And he needs training on putting the lid back on the ice cream before returning it to the freezer. And yeah, closing things in general. Oh, and leaving a two chicken pieces out of a bag of 50. And that is all his boyishness. I know he's a boy. But I'm just a girl too. And he can ffff too. We have fun. So for now, it works for what it is. And if we remember that it just is what it is, neither of us is stressed about it and there's nothing heavy to it. It's actually quite sweet. He's coming to hang out tomorrow night. Last time he came to hang out, it was five days before he left. LOL

I don't know. I'm babbling tonight. I just think it's good if it works. It doesn't matter what it is.

Top 2 on my *F* List are a 41yo and a 20yo. Amazed by both of them. I think some can and some can't and maybe that doesn't completely have to do with age.

Dunno.

Not picky, huh? So essentially, if it fits, you're in it?

OMG, that is so true!

Like I said, I don't really think about the age thing. It's a matter of who I click with. Guys my age or older tend to not be able to handle me though. I'm not sure why.

That seems a bit extreme.