Well even if you did, that would be a noble thing considering you are taking care of them.....

Well that sounds like more like a friend.....

Never. It's a waste of time and I don't believe in playing with someone's feelings.

Awwwww, don't ya' hate those days.......damnit anyhow!

I agree, the poem rocks!......

Hello JAG....

I personally don't see a mean streak yet. I see a guy who was at the top of his game and thought he could have his cake and eat it too. Pretty typical scenario really, and we've seen it plenty of times before. The basic rules of morality don't seem to apply to superstars.

Yes
they
do.

This whole gravity thing need to be reevaluated.

Well the crap was getting deep ya' know....... A little redirect was in order. Plus I'm pissed off that a "real" guy I was chatting with has fallen off the face of the earth. I'm commiserating with the OP.....

Worth it indeed. Can be a bit overwhelming here at times.....but this too shall pass.

Sorry about your luck OP.......it is proving hard to sift out the "real" ones.

Hello to Cathy and Pat.....

Sorry I haven't been around much. There have been lots of Christmas related "things" lately with the kids and such.

I think I'll be glad to get the holiday over with maybe. It's an awful lot to do by yourself when you are a single parent. How many of you 40 somethings are single parents raising your children mostly on your own?

Welcome!! Thank you for making your first post here! Hope you enjoy the site.


Holly: You know you are welcome anytime!

It's cold here too......and sleeting....ick!

Welcome to everyone!! It's good to see faces both familiar and new. We have quite a good looking crowd here!

To MB...tenacity!!

Marshal......much better than orgy...

So we have 10 or 12 lovely ladies in the prime of their lives and so far 4 or 5 men.......they should like those odds...

When you find some woman's phone number all over your phone bill and you call it and well.......you get the picture.

HAHA..others have said the same thing as I was letting the dog out.....
Sorry to be a repeater!

From what I'm reading I am guessing that you and your parents have the kind of relationship where they are more involved in helping you to make decisions than some others may be. You respect them and you allow them to help guide you, even at 26 years old. There is nothing wrong with this, however since it has always been the pattern, it will be hard for them to deal with you doing something they don't approve of. Now will be the time you get to either go against the grain or continue to allow them to sway your decisions. There have been many times when my parents could have done an "I told you so" to me, but they didn't. I learned from my mistakes. That's sort of how we grow up. If you feel safe in living with this guy and sharing room and board, then it's now up to you to decide if it's worth it to take the stance on your own. Just remember that once you start it, you can't go backwards.

You can always say to your parents "I value your advise, but I've weighed the pros and cons and sharing expenses with my friend will allow me to keep my independence until I'm called for the military". This way, you don't leave the door open for more discussion about it. The less drama you create about the situation, the more respect they will give back to you.

That said, don't you have a girlfriend you can move in with?.... (spoken like a parent....hehe)

Good Luck!

Well you are looking good orgy! (That felt weird calling someone orgy) Welcome!

Well shoot Tanya....I guess this is just practice for the real thing eh? I always get so disappointed when it is a flop though. Then I find the next distraction..... How many do you have lined up to distract you??? Line 'em up, Shoot 'em down....Holler....NEXT!!

Glad to hear the update.....I hope the meds do their job. We got lucky and the first one we tried has worked well!

I can't believe that about the cop story....wow! I'm so sorry to hear this......wasn't what you needed to end your weekend. Goodness!

Hugs to you Nicole...keep up the good work!

Well hello all you 30 and 40 somethings!!

We get the best of both worlds eh? Old enough to know better, but yet young enough to still do it!.....