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Tue 04/01/08 05:42 AM
If it is something that you really want to do then more power to you but I personally couldn't do it. I know how attached I got to my daughter when I felt her start kicking and after feeling all of that, I don't think I could have ever handed her over to someone else. But good luck on whatever decesion you make!

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Tue 04/01/08 05:39 AM
Coconut Pie

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Tue 04/01/08 05:26 AM
Scared

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Mon 03/31/08 09:06 AM
Welcome!!

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Mon 03/31/08 09:01 AM
As long as it came from his heart, it wouldn't matter to me at all.:smile:

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Mon 03/31/08 06:04 AM
on a desert island and could only take one person and 3 things with you, who and what would they be and why?

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Fri 03/28/08 11:18 AM
laugh laugh

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Fri 03/28/08 11:03 AM
laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 03/28/08 11:01 AM
Ireland...Have always wanted to go..I heard its beautiful!

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Fri 03/28/08 07:33 AM

laugh Thank you thank you good morning to all!!!!


Wow, for being a new guy..your really sexy!!:tongue:

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Fri 03/28/08 06:38 AM

There is nothing like the feeling of a big hug. I'd rather hug and cuddle then make out. I quess I'm weird that way


Hey, I am the same way...I love feeling a man's arms around me, makes me feel protected and wanted.:smile:

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Fri 03/28/08 06:15 AM

Time for CPS & a judge meeting, PRONTO!!! Need to get a copy of the arrest info for both. flowerforyou Bless your hearts!!!!!

When I went to pick up Kate Lynn, the police officer she was with was so nice and he was talking to Kate Lynn when I got there, calming her down. And when I talked to him about what happened he handed me the report number and said I can get a copy of it at the county building and said that I can use that at court.

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Fri 03/28/08 05:58 AM
have read my recent posts, you know I have been wondering and worrying about why my ex hardly wants anything to do with his daughter anymore...Well I found out last night..I talked on the phone to him yesterday afternoon and he asked if he could have Kate Lynn over night and I told him the only way I would let him is if he actually kept her at his house instead of pawning her off on his mom, well he said okay. He picked her up about 6pm after he got off of work and she didn't call so I assumed everything was okay, then at 2am in the morning I get a phone call from the police and they tell me I need to come pick up my daughter because her father is going to jail for possession of a controlled substance..He had my daughter out with him at 2am buying drugs, what the hell was he thinking???mad mad It took me forever to get her to sleep last night because she was so scared. I don't know what to do?? My daughter cried half the night and i don't know how to explain to her what happened?? When he get's out, do I still trust him with our daughter?? Please Help me!!

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Thu 03/27/08 09:30 AM
laugh thats really cute!! lol

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Thu 03/27/08 08:18 AM

Josh Duhamel (fergies man grumble ) living

Elvis in the 1950's. dead


drinker


Oh yeah, Elvis was so hot when he was younger...

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Thu 03/27/08 08:03 AM

Usually court documents specifically indicate that companionship time must be spent with the designated parent. Check to see if yours does, and document what is going on.

Keep your documents in a safe place. It's helpful to print out monthly calendars and write the information in on the day it occurs, so it's already in time line fashion if and when you need it.




I will have to check into that..I will have to dig up the papers out of my cabinet and see what it says.

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Thu 03/27/08 08:00 AM
Yes and he is a great man!!!:smile:

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Thu 03/27/08 07:47 AM

Hmmm well I read your question the other day about your daughter not wanting to go with her dad. That she cried the whole time. My answer to that there was another problem there deeper that needed to be looked into. The more you post the more comes out no wonder the child don't want to go with him. He shucks his Responsibilities off on others instead.


Sounds like to me he needs to learn to be a Dad with his daughter and not expect everyone else to do his job for him.

Just my opinion, done been there done that and thank gawd my kids are grown now.


See and she never told me that this has happened before but according to his mom, he has done this more than once and she is pissed off..She said she didn't raise him like that. I don't know what is wrong with him, he was such a good dad at first

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Thu 03/27/08 07:41 AM

You cannot rationalize what is not rational. You will simply go crazy.
Just document it and move on.

Do not ever tell her that her daddy loves her the same, or loves her at all. You tell her you love her no matter what and let him speak for himself. If you put words in HIS mouth and he hurts her, she starts to distrust you, too. Just say you are sorry, you love her and you will always be there. Makes sense?

Yes it does but I just hate the fact that she thinks her daddy dosen't love her because I hope he does!!

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Thu 03/27/08 07:40 AM
go on a cruise