Jealousy has a way of creeping into these situations. It is best to leave your feelings about her current boyfriend out of the equation. You would most likely find *something* to disapprove of her current boyfriend or anyone if you want someone who is already attached. This is only human... but the response to that kind of criticism is to get defensive and resent you for it. That is also only human.

Leaving your "he's not good enough for you, I'm better" feelings aside, take a look at the relationship between you and your "friend" as it stands on its own. Would you be happy simply being friends for the rest of your time together? If so, it might not be worth it to risk revealing your extra feelings - she might receive them awkwardly and it might make things weird between you, especially because if she feels the same way, it will create a conflict for her because she already has a boyfriend. But, hey, you know her better than I possibly could. Maybe she can handle such things gracefully.

In the end, consider that her choice of boyfriends is also an indication of some part of her, and in the end is only changeable by her. Don't try to convince her under any circumstances to ditch her current man. Let her arrive at that decision herself, should she choose to.

If you want to reveal your feelings for her, and you don't think she'll take them as binding (binding = we HAVE to be together as more than friends or I don't want to hang out with you anymore) then go ahead. There's nothing to lose, there. How she handles your feelings will also be a key indicator for the future of your relationship, as friends or otherwise. And, in the end, regardless of what you read in this forum, the choice is yours.

It's up to her to decide who she wants to be with... if you're not careful, you may end up with no friendship at all or you may end up being the rebound guy.

they may not deserve them but you don't have the right to get in between a relationship like that.

not cool dont take a guys girl

lol! are you hiding in my bushes again?

not yet. still waitin on amy to come over and bring her camera.

there's a bender movie? how cool is that? i love futurama but i haven't watched it in a long time..
Becca

Dude I know how you feel. I put everything into my relationships as well. Just to have them runaway into a dark alley. Leaving me emotionally starved once again.

But fill your pockets back up, and dont stop believing.

One day, they will return the favor...

rumor is that their ending the contract to bring it backon fox and start producing new episodes. the bender movie is suppossed to be the start of it. but then agian,

you really can believe everything you read on the net.......