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Misunderstood
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Not only misunderstood but often judged as well. People need to stop jumping to conclusions, if they're thinking something but are unsure it never hurts to ask. Well if someone wants to put a personal rant online then it's going to get judged and taken apart. Especially when it comes to relationships because most people think they give the best advice because they feel like they look at all sides of the issue. Not always true. Some people just want to rant, let them rant. If they ask people what they think, then we have the justification to add our takes on what they would personally do. It sucks how much people just make every issue about them when it has nothing to do with them. I think when people up and rant they are just looking for comforting encouragement, not judgements. |
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Misunderstood
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Do you feel like you get misunderstood by people (online) when you pose a question or just feel like ranting on an issue? I think you can state an opinion without giving advice for help. Do you think that regardless of how much you don't want and didn't ask for advice people are just going to assume the issue happened to you personally (for people who ask questions) and offer it anyway? Like I get it, it's the internet, but I think it's obvious when people directly ask for opinions/advice to the people who just want to talk about the issue just to talk about it. Not everyone is asking for advice, there's a big difference in offering advice to answering a random thought. Hi Sugar Bean  ....Yeah, it happens cause it's natural for people to want to help...Here comes that unwanted advice, but I'm going to call it a thought ...Preface your OP with a short sentence telling peeps what you're going for...Be it advice, opin, or both....This is just a thought Audrey!!
I always say "sorry just ranting here" I think people would get the point, but they don't. It's just funny to me when they can't tell the difference. I feel like people always have a need to tell others how they should live their lives whether they want to hear advice or not. Sometimes people just want to be heard and to know that we exist in the world. I've seen it happen with friends often. |
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Differences
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Is there a difference between: feeling possessive to feeling jealous over someone? Sure. She can be "possessed" during our love making sessions. And she can jealous of my abilities during said love making sessions.
But DUDE, is she possessable? Cuz when a man gets past that, look out. 
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Misunderstood
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Do you feel like you get misunderstood by people (online) when you pose a question or just feel like ranting on an issue? I think you can state an opinion without giving advice for help.
Do you think that regardless of how much you don't want and didn't ask for advice people are just going to assume the issue happened to you personally (for people who ask questions) and offer it anyway? Like I get it, it's the internet, but I think it's obvious when people directly ask for opinions/advice to the people who just want to talk about the issue just to talk about it. Not everyone is asking for advice, there's a big difference in offering advice to answering a random thought. |
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Differences
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If neither are healthy in a relationship, then what happens when we fall in love?
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Differences
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Is there a difference between: feeling possessive to feeling jealous over someone?
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Missed opportunities...
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Doubt and fear keep the good ones away.
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Individuality.
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what annoying thing..
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I had an ex, who unfortunately, learned to talk, but never learned to shut up. . Literally, from the nanosecond her eyes opened in the morning, until she drifted off to sleep at night. . I've avoided hyper- kinetic personalities ever since. Oh...the wiring issue, maybe? Men and women express their taught and feelings in different ways. It can cause a misunderstanding. But when there is a will, there is also a way. Women sometimes speak too much because they are not satisfied with something. When the rant stops it usually means they gave up trying to deal with it, whatever it may be. Sometimes men do not hear or do not want to hear when they are asked (not) to do something in plain English. Some men simply do not listen, some act as if they do not understand and ask for an explanation. When they get an explanation, if they still stick to (for example) an annoying habit they have, women sometimes continue ranting, as if it will change anything. Once they realize it won't change a thing they become silent. That's not a good sign. Of course, I do not know anything about you or about your ex, so I am talking generally. Do not take it personally, please. Conclusion: both sexes can be equally annoying. |
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what annoying thing..
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Slept with another woman. That's hella annoying. Damn, I had that one too!! 
Hi (((((Audrey)))))...xoxoxo!  
Hey (((Leigh))) 
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Supernatural Layer
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Love is not real
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There is no such thing as love i don't believe in this so called love anymore, are there people on here who has been touched by so the so called love? I was touched by a hooker last night.....and oh it was heavenly! Was it extra? 
Best $200 I ever spent.
Did it come with an iPhone?
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what annoying thing..
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Slept with another woman. That's hella annoying.
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If you had to pick?
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I am encouraged to validate. If guys are encouraged to validate shouldn't y'all knock it out in bed?
Only when all ten inches are working. 
And man stamina mmk. 
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what u hate most and why
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I hate being able to tell a woman, "Hey! Nice t*ts!". I mean....when did that go out the window?
Around the same time we said: "Nice balls!" |
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If you had to pick?
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I am encouraged to validate. If guys are encouraged to validate shouldn't y'all knock it out in bed?
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They were born wrong. You have cooties. Not on any Jewish holidays. |
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If you had to pick?
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Wait! We gotta PAY for parking? That's how Los Angeles makes its money.
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If you had to pick?
Edited by
MariahsFantasy
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Wed 10/15/14 12:34 PM
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One is support in the journey, the other is praise in the result. Both are needed, but I value encouragement and support more than the validation. Yes I get you. I was warned by my Tutor to expect both joy and sadness when I pass my exams. The joy of going through the hardship and toil and frustration of learning but actually achieving something. But then the reality kicks in of what you've done and you kind of ask yourself, what next. Understandable I suppose. I've never been motivated by winning. Living is a constant journey that doesn't stop going on no matter how many times I lose. The times where I was encouraged and supported were better than being azz-kissed for something anybody else could do in their own way if they put their mind to it. |
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If you had to pick?
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One is support in the journey, the other is praise in the result.
Both are needed, but I value encouragement and support more than the validation. |
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