did your ex partner or lover..
.. do! that would drive you absolutely bonkers.... my ex used to snore like a truck driver. and she would leave gobs of toothpaste in the sink... drove me .. bonkers...lol

Mine was too lazy to get off the bed to use the bathroom.
So he peed into an empty litre bottle of Mountain Dew.
Until he could no longer get off the bed for all the bottles.

Hmm.. well after reading this..^^..
snoring and gobs of toothpaste..
Nooot.. so bad..

Ohhh... I'm not too sure about that..lol.. I am pretty sure... there are people out there.. that had partners way worse.. and I'm not going to turn this into a pissing contest... because I think soufie's... ex partner would win.. ..jk ....
. no but seriously... I am NOT going to comment... here on out.... let's hear what some of you had to deal with...
. it can help bring perspective.... it certainly has for me...

Snoring I think is forgivable as everyone does it,
and it cannot be helped...gobs of toothpaste smack
of lazy, which can be helped.

Perspective, eh?

You dated Howard Hughes!!???!!!!

Stories of ex's father doing the same thing. Feel for you.

OT:

annoying thing?
Lying about everything, and arguing. Arguing.....When I was always right. hahahahahaha

Gladly would have exchanged the two as Hughes was not a sociopath :-)

Sociopath! Well, that is serious!

(((( HUGS )))) Soufie

Awww ((Soufie))......I've dated one or two of those myself....Fortunately didn't get trapped into marrying one though...I'm sorry you did!

I had an ex, who unfortunately, learned to talk, but never learned to shut up.
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Literally, from the nanosecond her eyes opened in the morning, until she drifted off to sleep at night.
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I've avoided hyper- kinetic personalities ever since.

Thanks God you didn't!

I do not really hate anything or anyone, but my feelings for sociopaths are hard to describe with words. A deep disgust would be a mild description.

Yes, you have that down pat. Discust. Mildly. If you lived with it long term, you would recognize it right off the bat...errr cuff. Spotlighting comes to my mind now.

It sets alarms on. It is a normal reaction. And a good one too!

It's better to be too cautious than to fall into a trap of a sociopath. Or a psychopath!

Sick puppies!

((((MindGames))))...Thank you!

You are welcome.

Oh...the wiring issue, maybe?

Men and women express their taught and feelings in different ways. It can cause a misunderstanding. But when there is a will, there is also a way.

Women sometimes speak too much because they are not satisfied with something. When the rant stops it usually means they gave up trying to deal with it, whatever it may be.

Sometimes men do not hear or do not want to hear when they are asked (not) to do something in plain English. Some men simply do not listen, some act as if they do not understand and ask for an explanation.
When they get an explanation, if they still stick to (for example) an annoying habit they have, women sometimes continue ranting, as if it will change anything. Once they realize it won't change a thing they become silent. That's not a good sign.

Of course, I do not know anything about you or about your ex, so I am talking generally. Do not take it personally, please.

You've brought up valid points for normal situations, and I've taken nothing personally.
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However, she was that way to everyone, rather she was happy, sad, angry, or glad. It's just the way she was.

my ex was always beeching about my driving.on and off the track.witch is just crazy.us men no women dont no how to drive LOL. JK ladys