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finish my sentence - part 23
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sucking on a..
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finish my sentence - part 23
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blowing raspberries with...
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More power to ya!
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I'm a control freak in the sense that I don't like indecision...in myself or others so if 'he' doesn't take the lead. I'm quite happy to lead or follow.
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finish my sentence - part 23
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pull the legs off...
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truth be told...
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whatever floats your boat dude.
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truth be told...
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So, because you haven't experienced love, you think it must not be real? I have experienced commitment. I have experienced teamwork. I have experienced the desire to protect and care for another. I have experienced lust and infatuation. But, I haven't experienced love in the way I understand it's supposed to be. Maybe I'm simply wrong about how it feels, but it seems no knows how it feels because no one has been able to tell me. Saying it's different for everyone is a cop out. If it is a real human emotion then we'd all have similar experiences with it. If not, Why not? What you have had may have been love, you just didn't label it. Who know... IMO, love is subjective because it can mean different things to different people and I think that people's experience (of love), differs. I know that I have only had one truly, madly, deeply person in my life to date. I have been in love since but it has not been the same. cop out? maybe..but you know when it happens...when you experience it. |
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No I don't think that parents have an automatic right to invade their child's privacy. I am guilty of reading my son's text messages without his knowledge but I felt really bad about doing it that I won't ever do it again. I know my son and up to a point, I trust him..we have always had an open and honest relationship to know not to expect any surprises. Naive maybe but it's how I am. I like how you are, having a healthy trusting relationship with your son is wonderful. And I'm sure he is less likely to hide things from you :) Thanks. It's been bloody hard sometimes but me and his dad have got him to 18 without any major incidents so I can kinda pat myself on the back  .
Also having had a parent that invaded my privacy (and still would if I lived at home regardless of my age) probably has a lot to do with the type of parent (I like to think) I am. |
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To treat 'us' as a priority not as an afterthought.
By being honest, open, trustworthy and respectful. By not treating me like an idiot..unless I act like one 
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age diffrnces
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It does to me. I'm not interested in dating someone my dad's age or a kid who is in a completely different place in his life than I am. Either way, I'm not trying to babysit now or later. ^^ This |
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No I don't think that parents have an automatic right to invade their child's privacy.
I am guilty of reading my son's text messages without his knowledge but I felt really bad about doing it that I won't ever do it again. I know my son and up to a point, I trust him..we have always had an open and honest relationship to know not to expect any surprises. Naive maybe but it's how I am. |
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truth be told...
Edited by
42BlackBBW
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Sun 06/24/12 11:35 AM
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Love is a choice, not a feeling. That's why we say " I love You" and not " I feel like I love you".... I don't think love is a choice. I can choose to protect my heart and not act on my feelings but I don't choose who I fall in love with. everything is a choice the romantic ideal of falling 'in love' only describes a momentary or temporary excitement,,, truly LOVING , unconditionally and forever, is a choice,,, Gonna have to agree to diagree with ya MsH. No of the men that I have fallen in love with are who I would have chosen to fall in love with if I had a choice. The only choice I could have made was to decide not to pursue a relationship with any of them. You cannot love who you are not around Again, will have to agree to disagree with you. I have fallen in love with someone that I wasn't around. There are examples on here (Mingle), of people that are in long distance relationships. continuing to allow the circumstances in which love may flourish,, is a choice,,, I do believe that this though. |
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are you guilty????
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how many will admit to dating with a checklist?? you meet someone and from past experience immediately judge them. what happened to just going outand having fun?? getting to know them and seeing if the sparks fly....yes i am guilty too Through trial and error, I do have a checklist but like most things in my life, it's not set in stone. |
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truth be told...
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May for some, who feel that love is a choice, it's a control thing.
I know that I definitely like to control how emotionally involved I am with some people that I have relationships with but I know that this is a self defense/self preservation mechanism. |
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Bad Kisser = Bad in the Sack
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I can only speak for myself but I don't think I've ever had a situation where bad kissing has lead to good sex.
I've had situations where not bad kissing has led to good sex..good sex is a lot about good foreplay IMO and kissing is very much a part of foreplay. |
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truth be told...
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How can love not be a feeling?
For me the initial attraction may start with the way a person makes me feel but to fall and remain in love, definitely requires some form of reciprocation of my feelings. |
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truth be told...
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Love is a choice, not a feeling. That's why we say " I love You" and not " I feel like I love you"....
I don't think love is a choice. I can choose to protect my heart and not act on my feelings but I don't choose who I fall in love with. everything is a choice the romantic ideal of falling 'in love' only describes a momentary or temporary excitement,,, truly LOVING , unconditionally and forever, is a choice,,, Gonna have to agree to diagree with ya MsH. No of the men that I have fallen in love with are who I would have chosen to fall in love with if I had a choice. The only choice I could have made was to decide not to pursue a relationship with any of them. |
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Nice pic, good profile. Good luck in finding your "hot" single lady. Happy mingling.
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Times Up
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Break the clock, your watch and anything else that tell time
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Happpy belated bday doll
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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princess who found a pea under her...
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