Head down to Daytona for bike week that's were there at now...

oh how i love these threads.....

bbw or bigger girls whine about being treated differently. does it ever occur to them that its because they act differently or separate themselves?

i am a big girl...i love me, love who i am.

its how you present the package darlin...sexy is in the attitude. i have absolutely no problem in the man department. men are attracted to confidence, intelligence, etc.... i have dated men who NEVER dated a bigger woman before and never thought twice about asking me out because of who i was not what i was.

hold your heads high ladies, love yourself, be yourself...you are all beautiful!

1) "Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends?" - Why not? A real relationship is based on a lot of things, not the least of which is common ground. You may not like to do everything together, but every guy secretly wants a woman who'll make him forget his guy friends.

2) "God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth." - OK, so alter your search so that you meet men who aren't into hell on earth. You're apparently not taking responsibility for your half of what seems to be going on in relationships. That part about choosing the guy? Yeah... That one.

3) " let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...? " - This is not a unique request. I know plenty of men who like curvy women, or don't care about the slender thing. I know plenty of men who pamper and spoil their women. It's not easy to find, but they're out there.

I know how you feel, and you gotta vent sometimes, but don't ever let it get to you that much. I can assure you that if Mr. Right read this post he'd probably think "oh great, baggage" instead of "wow I really feel motivated to be with this lady"

Not trying to be rude or sarcastic at all... Just my irrelevant 2 cents.

Don't think I said any of that on my profile.

Noticed you peeped it.... Well did I?

A woman that enjoys the things I enjoy would be a nice match. It's not a requirement in my book. Some of us are just dreaming of our ideal mate.
So that's what we put in our profiles. We're looking for the best match to our current lives. Someone that we can share our dreams and aspirations with.

Men and women are wired differently and enjoy different things. A perfect match is one where the two involved can share and enjoy each other's interests. I'm always willing to learn and share new adventures.

When it's all said and done, the relationship will be one in which we both share most interests in life.

Of course there are things we will always do separately. You can't expect your mate to be into everything you are. Each needs their own space and time. That's what makes us individuals in a relationship.