Community > Posts By > Happyolegal

 
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Mon 10/01/18 07:04 AM
I liked it! I got a good sense of who you are however I do agree the first paragraph could be calmed down some:grinning:

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Mon 10/01/18 06:52 AM
They say love is putting another's happiness before your own. Unfortunately that seems to give one person a false sense of self importance. I think true compatibility is the real thing:two_hearts::two_hearts:

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Sun 09/30/18 03:20 PM
Welcome aboard, I hope you find what you are looking for:grin:

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Sun 09/30/18 01:14 PM
Parts of Canada already getting snow...the grass is green outside my window... Hope it stays that way lol

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Sun 09/30/18 09:58 AM

Okay....question time.

What are your views on "playing the field"?

For instance, you meet someone and get to know each other. Things are going well, but neither of you have committed to a relationship.

Do you feel it's okay to keep playing the field in that situation?

Or is it more likely to harm any potential for a relationship?

My mom said she didn't see a problem with it. When she was younger, she said she would date several guys at once.

I disagreed with her view.

I feel it's disrespectful to the other person, like you're leading s/he on with false signals. It generates confusion and misunderstanding, leaving a person not knowing where s/he stands. It's like using people as pawns, playing one against the other to see who's willing to do anything to come out on top. I've never felt it was right to toy with people like that.

Granted, maybe the person playing the field is exploring to find out what exactly s/he wants. But that doesn't mean they have to date multiple people concurrently, does it? The same can be done by dating people one at a time, right? At least, the latter is how I've always done it, unlike my mom.

So, I'm interested in reading what all of your opinions are. Is someone who "plays the field" a dealbreaker for you?


When I was younger I don't think I would care assuming of course I knew that I wasn't the only he was dating. As a senior it is more about a companionship then dating.

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Sun 09/30/18 09:47 AM

Okay....question time.

What are your views on "playing the field"?

For instance, you meet someone and get to know each other. Things are going well, but neither of you have committed to a relationship.

Do you feel it's okay to keep playing the field in that situation?

Or is it more likely to harm any potential for a relationship?

My mom said she didn't see a problem with it. When she was younger, she said she would date several guys at once.

I disagreed with her view.

I feel it's disrespectful to the other person, like you're leading s/he on with false signals. It generates confusion and misunderstanding, leaving a person not knowing where s/he stands. It's like using people as pawns, playing one against the other to see who's willing to do anything to come out on top. I've never felt it was right to toy with people like that.

Granted, maybe the person playing the field is exploring to find out what exactly s/he wants. But that doesn't mean they have to date multiple people concurrently, does it? The same can be done by dating people one at a time, right? At least, the latter is how I've always done it, unlike my mom.

So, I'm interested in reading what all of your opinions are. Is someone who "plays the field" a dealbreaker for you?

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Sun 09/30/18 07:30 AM
A big deal breaker for me is any person who does not respect my Celiac life style. Home alone I don't think about it I enjoy all kinds of delicious meals....out with others...one bite won't hurt you...you can order gluten free . I am happy to join someone when they want to grab a bite to eat, I am very happy when we just have a fun chat while they eat and I enjoy my coffee or adult beverage:two_hearts::two_hearts:

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Sun 09/30/18 06:23 AM

I think setving is putting your life on the line in the course of yoyr enlistment.
However, spouses and family members sacrifice a lot in dealing with tge absence of their loved one.
In being the support and caregiver, nurse etc in staying strong with each other in dealing with ptsd, amputees and other disability which occurs as a direct result of their loved one's time serving.
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Very good point!!!:two_hearts:

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Sun 09/30/18 06:15 AM

Your profile is fine but perhaps you could expand it by writing about what type of lady you're seeking.

I would change your main profile pic as we can't see your face too well. Your second pic would be good :blush:


Totally agree! Good luck to you!

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Sat 09/29/18 06:34 PM
A good ole belly laugh, my pup n not hearing ********:grinning:

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Sat 09/29/18 05:18 PM
Makes no difference

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Thu 09/27/18 07:25 PM
I really like The Big Bang Theory.., young Sheldon is well done:grinning:

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Wed 09/26/18 04:08 PM
Captain's Announcement

After a British Airways flight had reached its cruising altitude, the captain announced:
“Ladies and Gentleman, this is your Captain. Welcome to flight 293 non-stop from London Heathrow to Toronto the weather ahead is good, so we should have a smooth uneventful flight. So sit back, relax and… OH, MY GOD!”…………..A scream then silence followed.
Some moments later the captain came back on the intercom, “Ladies and gentlemen, I’m sorry if I scared you, while I was talking to you, a flight attendant accidentally spilled a cup of hot coffee in my lap. You should see the front of my pants!”.
One angry passenger yelled, “Oh for Pete’s sake, you should see the back of mine!!!”

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Wed 09/26/18 02:17 PM
:smile:

cruises are the best

Carnival has a " hump or jump" cruise. It is a one night cruise to nowhere.. literally nowhere as it never leaves the dock.

It is a night full of food, drink and laughs then you are led to a room and whatever walks in a few minutes later.. yep, you guessed it you have to hump.. if you refuse, you can either jump off the ship on your own into the water ( about 6 stories) or the deckhands will throw you over the railing. Either way you are getting wet.

Now there are tug boats out there that scoop you up so you don't die or anything like that.

Roll the dice.. take a chance.. ( could be a beautiful model walking the door.. or it could be one of those gals you see in Wal - Mart)

:wink: C:hushed::hushed::hushed:that's Carnival... Hump or Jump cruise

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Wed 09/26/18 01:28 PM
I very much enjoy travelling alone especially on road trips because I bring my dog with me. Lots of limitations travelling with a pet n tons of benefits:two_hearts::two_hearts:

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Wed 09/26/18 01:05 PM
:smile:

*raises right hand*

I Argo, being of sound mind and body do hereby solemnly
swear that I will not post or add meaningless emoji's to
this thread for a period not to exceed 1 year (9/25/2019)

there, i've done my part, now it's up to the rest
of you addicts to overcome your incessant urge to
keep posting in here...good luck with that

Seeya next year waving

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Tue 09/25/18 09:14 PM

Hey Richard, good luck and have fun but be safe... :thumbsup:
Hi. Richard I hope u find what u are looking for:grinning:

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Tue 09/25/18 02:50 PM

"Misery"

Kathy Bates
1990






ohhh that is one of my favs:two_hearts::two_hearts:

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Tue 09/25/18 11:35 AM
Wow your daughter is such a lil cutie. I'm thinking just keep spending time with her n the right lady will find you!

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Tue 09/25/18 10:04 AM


I don't like ice cream


Me either,.. well, it don't like me

I love yard sales, estate sales and flea markets

Just call me Second Hand Rose...love poking thru all the stuff to find my treasure:two_hearts::two_hearts: