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Aside from the obvious dealbreakers (like being a serial killer or rapist), what personality quirks do you consider a dealbreaker in a relationship?
I think most of us would agree on cheating, though I do know of some who carry on anyway. Not me. It would be game over. See ya. Sayanara. Get lost. But what others? For me, I'm not sure. I would know it when I see it. Or this thread might jog my memory. Generally, I'm pretty flexible, and can adapt. But that has taken years of work and practice. Maybe 20 years ago I would have drawn some very clear lines in the sand. Now I have a different mindset. So throw your dealbreakers out there. Let's have at it. |
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Edited by
GalaxyStarz
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Wed 09/26/18 02:17 PM
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dealbreakers:
liar bad table manners bad or missing teeth disrespectful reprobate no humor low IQ unrefined in a rocking chair big belly broke I'm sure I missed some. Will add if necessary. 
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DEALBRAKERS;
RUDENESS, ARROGANCE, EXTREMISM, MEANNESS, IGNORANCEPOOR HYGIENE, EATING WITH YOUR MOUTH OPEN, NOT TURNING OFF YOUR PHONE WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, LYING, OBESITY AND OF COURSE THE BIGGEST DEALBREAKER OF ALL - INFIDELITY ! |
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Arrogant
Bad hygiene No Morals Not generous No Class |
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DEALBRAKERS; RUDENESS, ARROGANCE, EXTREMISM, MEANNESS, IGNORANCEPOOR HYGIENE, EATING WITH YOUR MOUTH OPEN, NOT TURNING OFF YOUR PHONE WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, LYING, OBESITY AND OF COURSE THE BIGGEST DEALBREAKER OF ALL - INFIDELITY ! Screaming comes to mind as a dealbreaker. Not sure why   
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bad, yukkie and/or missing teeth ---> me running for the hills!
guy biting fingernails ---> gross! poor hygiene not using deodorant (too many around who don't, quite shocking) BO broke cheap & not generous belly moobs, such a total turn-off... Rude phone addict (even in the middle of conversation or being out together etc.) gaming addict unemployed not keen on mustaches & beards no class not a decent car (one met a bloke whose car was held together by ducttape, I kid you not!) Young children, not a flaw or quirk, but definite deal breaker |
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also..
serious health / physical problems... got approached by a man who'd had 4 strokes age 40. Very sorry, but not going there... Another who'd had 2 replacement hips, needed it done again soon... Not looking for someone who's future is bleak and/or needs me to push him around in a wheelchair in 1-2 years. |
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Meanness.
Uncaring/unkind.Self centredness. Abusive. Infidelity. STDs/STIs... Poor Hygiene/bad breath... Obesity..... Unreliability....irresponsible.... Am sure there are others-ones you rather not put up with when you notice or see/find out about them |
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Arrogance
Ignorance Abusive Bad hygiene Rudeness Irresponsible Stds I think a bad attitude is the worse ever. Can't stand the higher then tho attitudes some have. And if you aren't responsible enough to take care of yourself I'm not interested in taking care of you. If you get loud scream or hit I would probably take your knees out I'm not the one. |
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Edited by
actionlynx
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Wed 09/26/18 04:07 PM
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Great job, ladies!
As I've grown as a person, the lines have become a bit blurred for me Not because I'm confused or anything. It's just that I'm not the same person I used to be. For instance, I always figured if my partner became disabled or mentally ill, that would be the end of it for me. I wouldn't be able to handle it. So, I would leave for my own sake. Dealbreaker. But after my experiences of the past several years, I now know that would no longer be the case. I've learned how to handle those situations much better. So now I would stick around if she really meant that much to me. Now I tend to take it on a case-by-case basis instead. |
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not certain if it could be labeled "Flaw/quirk"... but he has to still be fully functional below the belt!
Just had this guy state in a quiz things below the belt were dusty. Wot?? Please PO! LOL. I ain't dead yet! I need someone who can still shake the snake, or rather, not shake it, as that means it's not... well... you know, hihi. But a man who cannot deliver the goods anymore --> next!!! |
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Well, if he can't get the ying up after seeing your face, I say you best find another man!
You're still a cutie! 
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deal breakers:
poor hygiene excessive smoking financial instability significantly overweight anti-sexual couch potatoe |
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Arrogance Ignorance Abusive Bad hygiene Rudeness Irresponsible Stds I think a bad attitude is the worse ever. Can't stand the higher then tho attitudes some have. And if you aren't responsible enough to take care of yourself I'm not interested in taking care of you. If you get loud scream or hit I would probably take your knees out I'm not the one. To add Drugs use of any kind Someone who has the need to correct others. Unless you are flawless it makes you look like an idiot. Someone with a God complex ugh no thanks. |
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can't draw a beer proper like and won't serve it wearing the beer wench outfit
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A bad temper is a deal breaker.
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Edited by
Charles1962150
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Wed 09/26/18 09:25 PM
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You guys cut the knees out from under just about everyone here. It's pretty safe to say that out of all the "Flaws" posted here, everybody has at least one of them.
I think it's pretty safe to say that most everyone that posts here has some flaw that may be a deal breaker for others. I know I do. I personally pay no attention to the outer size of a person. It's more about the size of there heart. I pay no attention to what a person drives. What I notice is what they bring with them when meeting me. Who and what they are. Flaws are like buttholes, everybody has one. At least one. And I've met a lot of buttholes. |
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Edited by
MK2
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Wed 09/26/18 09:30 PM
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deal breaker
drug users heavy drinkers bad kissers
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Can't make a decent sandwich.
Can't keep quiet when the game is on the telly. Oh, and nose pickers. I can't stand a serial nose picker. |
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Stops chasing me around the house and doesn't absolutely love kissing
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