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Sun 08/21/11 11:03 PM




I would like to have a outside perspective on what my profile portrays me like. Any advice would be appreciated thank you. :)
WOW,,,dude,,to be real with ya here,,ITS way to MUCH,,for a chick to want to read at first glance,,go through it and remove massive HALF of it,,and like others have said here the likes and dislikes should be real light,,
OK,,see this is it,,IF YOU WRITE YOUR LIFE AWAY in one page,,no-one will have anything to start conversations with you about?
IF its real LONG,,they will think your like me and very long winded and say HELL NO,,,lol,,so Keep it at about 1000 words or less and start it with something funny to draw them INTO reading it,,Some plow of a like and ,,,,so your checking me out huh,,,well I'm,,,,blaw blaw,,lol,Or So tell me,,,was it MY face that brought you here or my charm,,just kidding,,,
But some of YOUR funny at its start and that will have them at least reading it to learn you?
Everything else is fine man,,and reply here to many posts to be seen and your increase your odds to be a guy they might like to know? Good Luck and just be you man,,and honest,,your make some great friends here,,,,drinker :banana: :smile:

I have changed my layout of profile to short and very very long to this.. -_- ...
I leave the funny cocky thing to the messages
i pretty much just want to give a woman a view of what im looking for over something that looks like an essay for a job application that talks all about what I think i am like. Kinda wanna let the woman find out about who I am through conversation than display to everyone what im like. I am being fully honest in my profile. and communicating my views.
this profile is no where near my life story and only a few perceptions on how i view things not really anything about what music im into, or what i do for fun or my sense of humor and where i grew up theres much more to me than what little i did put on there...I dont really want a long distance thing, just someone in my area that i can eventually meet if things work out and a friendship starts then great :)

Hey man,,I'm NOT trying in ANYWAY to cut your words SHORT ABOUT YOU,,,its just MY TRUE HELP FOR YOU,,as a man who has been on here five years READING what others say (chicks) about dudes profiles,,and their own profiles,,Sorry if my short reply was to short to allow you to know i'm never a dude to put someone down intentionally,,,If you knew how many posts I've read,,it triple the posts I've replied to,,lol,,I'm no body on here but a member,,and I give the best advice I truly FEEL they need or ask for..
Your profile was great,,to know you and who your seeking,,,COOL,,
BUT,,,IF,,,you want my REAL advice for you,,THAT ABOVE WAS IT.
Anyone can compliment and go on,,I just TRY and be real with someones asking,,,Good luck with whatever you seek to find,,and TRULY HERE,,your words and profile ONLY NEED YOU,,TO LIKE THEM..
Anyone else can ONLY suggest,,the finished product comes from your mind and key strokes,,,drinker Have fun here...

well as this is all put in text its hard to convey my emotion Im not taking anything on personally and have no tone to it...how about ill just say im actually mentioning EVERYTHING in a calm manner...I have plenty of patience and dont take anything on from anything another person to heart, its why i want to see what people think of the person im trying looking like to others and how im being perceived as. I have made some changes to my profile shifted things and shortened things as best i could for now im still working on it... i will be checkin often for feedback as to how it looks and what people think :)

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Sun 08/21/11 08:24 PM
Edited by Cammi Ronni on Sun 08/21/11 08:25 PM


I would like to have a outside perspective on what my profile portrays me like. Any advice would be appreciated thank you. :)
WOW,,,dude,,to be real with ya here,,ITS way to MUCH,,for a chick to want to read at first glance,,go through it and remove massive HALF of it,,and like others have said here the likes and dislikes should be real light,,
OK,,see this is it,,IF YOU WRITE YOUR LIFE AWAY in one page,,no-one will have anything to start conversations with you about?
IF its real LONG,,they will think your like me and very long winded and say HELL NO,,,lol,,so Keep it at about 1000 words or less and start it with something funny to draw them INTO reading it,,Some plow of a like and ,,,,so your checking me out huh,,,well I'm,,,,blaw blaw,,lol,Or So tell me,,,was it MY face that brought you here or my charm,,just kidding,,,
But some of YOUR funny at its start and that will have them at least reading it to learn you?
Everything else is fine man,,and reply here to many posts to be seen and your increase your odds to be a guy they might like to know? Good Luck and just be you man,,and honest,,your make some great friends here,,,,drinker :banana: :smile:

I have changed my layout of profile to short and very very long to this.. -_- ...
I leave the funny cocky thing to the messages
i pretty much just want to give a woman a view of what im looking for over something that looks like an essay for a job application that talks all about what I think i am like. Kinda wanna let the woman find out about who I am through conversation than display to everyone what im like. I am being fully honest in my profile. and communicating my views.
this profile is no where near my life story and only a few perceptions on how i view things not really anything about what music im into, or what i do for fun or my sense of humor and where i grew up theres much more to me than what little i did put on there...I dont really want a long distance thing, just someone in my area that i can eventually meet if things work out and a friendship starts then great :)

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Sun 08/21/11 08:08 PM


well from mymost recent experience i have tried it with my ex and we became really close friends learned more about eachother ....then got back together ... it just ended up not working again..us now not being friends because we dont work together in a ralationship, and dont want to become involved again... We worked better when we were not togther and happier with our company in single status.. I dont understand how the relationship status would have made her act so different like a complete change but now know its not something for me. I cant just turn my emotions on and off get inolved back and forth. Moving on and has made me much happier and am even stronger within myself. maintaining a friendship through the drama was too much of a drain. Not to mention new intrests arent too impressed with the fact of still having an involvment with someone I was once intimate with. I know it was drama and baggage now but it helped me grow.I now know what works for me and what I dont want and how much compromise I have and where my boundries lie.

Plus there is nothing worse then dating a guy who still hangs out with his ex and he always talks about her. It is a turn off and a big red flag for a lot of women. I think you are making the right decision IF you had feelings for the girl.

Well there were feelings on my end. I didn't feel it as it was the first time we were a couple, and the changes in attitude was the same the second time round only when commitment became part of it...I now don't have any feelings residing or want of a friendship. the friendship can't work as when I was with other women she always would make it clear we were ex's and be inappropriate claiming we were good friends still. time has passed I am still getting random messages on various dating sites although blocked from various communication resources from this woman maybe its just her but its not a problem I want to revisit. I will be more open with my thoughts on this with my upcoming dates and so forth as things progress, im still learning my likes and dislikes in women and learning how to find red flags as you put it for myself too ... live and learn i suppose

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Sun 08/21/11 07:41 PM

LOL @ you wandering

I know I was quite bored at that point...o.0 im more of a chatter kind of person

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Sun 08/21/11 07:26 PM



Half of your profile is very negative. I can understand putting likes and dislikes, but don't make half of your profile full of negative things.


well Im not a negative person really I am told my many Im the most positive person they know -_- can you please explain more of what you mean because IM not exactly sure what it mean and I feel I am not understanding something being said. Will you help me make it be more positive?


I mainly meant the long list of dislikes.

Alright, thanks

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Sun 08/21/11 07:15 PM

Looks really good but you could use some editing for focus and organisation. You seem to ramble a bit and wind around and round. jmo.

You you tell me more of what organization pattern would be of benefit? please explain what you mean by the rambling part as I am unsure of how I am doing that and advice on a more direct way of description?

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Sun 08/21/11 07:12 PM

Half of your profile is very negative. I can understand putting likes and dislikes, but don't make half of your profile full of negative things.


well Im not a negative person really I am told my many Im the most positive person they know -_- can you please explain more of what you mean because IM not exactly sure what it mean and I feel I am not understanding something being said. Will you help me make it be more positive?

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Sat 08/20/11 02:27 PM
Edited by Cammi Ronni on Sat 08/20/11 02:29 PM
well from mymost recent experience i have tried it with my ex and we became really close friends learned more about eachother ....then got back together ... it just ended up not working again..us now not being friends because we dont work together in a ralationship, and dont want to become involved again... We worked better when we were not togther and happier with our company in single status.. I dont understand how the relationship status would have made her act so different like a complete change but now know its not something for me. I cant just turn my emotions on and off get inolved back and forth. Moving on and has made me much happier and am even stronger within myself. maintaining a friendship through the drama was too much of a drain. Not to mention new intrests arent too impressed with the fact of still having an involvment with someone I was once intimate with. I know it was drama and baggage now but it helped me grow.I now know what works for me and what I dont want and how much compromise I have and where my boundries lie.

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Sat 08/20/11 02:10 PM
I would like to have a outside perspective on what my profile portrays me like. Any advice would be appreciated thank you. :)

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Fri 08/05/11 11:46 AM
thats great lol

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Tue 01/25/11 10:46 PM
Ok well Im still in for the game. :)

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Wed 01/19/11 06:28 PM
well still a virgo so not really a big diff

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Wed 01/19/11 06:22 PM
Anyone in Edmonton wanna chat ?

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Mon 01/17/11 08:31 PM
ok well I wanna play ;)

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Mon 01/17/11 08:10 PM
any rules that should be followed??

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Sun 01/16/11 10:08 PM
I heard the new signs within a certain century is affected like 2000 onward Im not sure its really confusing. I feel that the "OLD' virgo/libra cusp personality suits me just fine and the horoscopes fit better too

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Sun 01/16/11 10:03 PM
Well Thanks for the insightfull postings, its always good to learn new views of things to add to ones life :)

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Sun 01/16/11 09:58 PM

why are there two of these threads?

I tried to change the spelling and it posted twice

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Sun 01/16/11 09:57 PM


After being in a relationship for awhile sometimes it ends and the one ending it just wants to be friends. Is this something that always happens or is it unusual? Do relationships end with no friendship remaining at all? Does anyone have any advice or information to shed some light on this topic?
Great if you want to be the person to fix all their problems.

dude was just a way to see how some of the people on here think maybe meet people with similar views...maybe get some people talking about things that all I was aiming to do.

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Wed 01/12/11 09:04 PM

I'm not sure how to explain it, I just did it.. We valued the friendship we had in the relationship b/c you have to be friends.. We respected one another and wanted to keep the friendship.. It doesn't mean you hang out every day necessarily... But you can hang out, you can be each others "wedding dates", etc.

So like an activity partner?