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Mon 05/07/12 07:54 PM

As far as me and my woman....age doesn't matter cause she is the part of my soul that I never thought I would have.

As far as me and the rest of the herd....I don't wanna young chick cause it is like training a puppy....they don't know what the hell they want...and they ain't that good at sex. MOST older gals come with too much baggage....mainly thier freak show families...but....they are freaking awesome in the sheets.

I ain't saying this in a bad way cause think about how screwed up I am....seriously....I am pretty sure that we can all agree that it would take a special woman of really bad taste to chose me. But, the sun shines on every dog's @$$ some day. And I got a woman who completes me as a man. I don't care how old she is. I don't ask.
Thanks for your input bro ,and yes once the 2 people are in love the age thing don't Exist or it just don't matter :) cheers :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 07:44 PM

For me it matters. But for others (as long as they are legal) then it's none of my concern.

I have a 21 y/o son and can't see myself dating anyone near that age. I prefer, at least, 5 years difference (give or take)
see thats ok my friend i understand if a person is young like your son you would feel strange :)i don't blame you feeling that way :) but say you didn't have a son would the age bother you as much? :)flowerforyou waving :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 07:40 PM




In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? :banana: waving :thumbsup:



I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE


some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially


other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,,


the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity

the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature'



I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally

heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,,
That is a Awesome answer my friend ....but also some could be living with their Mom looking after their Mom too and doing all that stuff for her out of love cause some moms may need help too and the 23 year olds living with their moms don't mean they not mature cause they can still be working and taking care of her cause shes needs the help so it really depends on a lot:)flowerforyou :banana: :thumbsup:


absolutely, living with a parent alone doesnt signify immaturity,, living with a parent that one is still DEPENDENT upon for simple things like eating and doing laundry,,,,,signifies a delayed development,,,,

IMHO,,,lol
well your 100% wrong cause i know a buddy of mine who takes care of his mom works and does the cooking and laundry and pays the bills and has no delayed development in fact does everything for his mom cause she has health problems , and does not want her in a old age home ,see you need to think of the facts before a statement but sometimes that is due to a delayed thinking ability or limited knowledge of a subject :) :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 07:24 PM

Age does not matter to me. Maturity does.
well i think that is really awesome but does it matter how far of a age gap? or from what age to what age with Maturity?:)flowerforyou waving :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 07:12 PM

That moment where everything clicks...where the past disappears? That moment where everything ahead is new and free?

I have.

Getting off the plane in Portland and soooooo nervous. Lost as hell and going the wrong way out from the airport. I was the only one out of 175 people that took a right in the terminal. Talking on the phone with my woman...not knowing where the hell I was going....Just listening to her voice as I told her "I am here"...she told me "I am here"...that went on a few minutes till I walked past her....she was in the wrong place too. Then..it all went silent....I turned my head....there she was. Love. (I am talking about you b!tch)

A perfect moment.

:)

No other feeling like it.

I have also had perfect moments in other ways but, that is a good one.
well bro i glad you have someone that you truly in love with they are very hard to fine a honest good lady cheers ! and sounds like almost as good as having a ice cold beer drinks on a hot sunny day lolll,when a person has great health lollllll laugh no but really you deserve a lady that can keep you out of trouble and keep you on your toes hahaha all the best to you both cheers! now you and her can cruise in your new car and try it out and see if you see the fireworks! in the car lolll just make sure the tops down you don't want to blow out the windows rofl:banana: :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 06:52 PM

Love is giving your actual phone number.
rofl biggrin :thumbsup: with a love letter too lollllllllll

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Mon 05/07/12 05:03 PM


In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? :banana: waving :thumbsup:


Generally speaking, I think it depends on the people.
Right on bro! i like your answer cheers :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 05:02 PM


In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? :banana: waving :thumbsup:



I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE


some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially


other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,,


the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity

the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature'



I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally

heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,,
That is a Awesome answer my friend ....but also some could be living with their Mom looking after their Mom too and doing all that stuff for her out of love cause some moms may need help too and the 23 year olds living with their moms don't mean they not mature cause they can still be working and taking care of her cause shes needs the help so it really depends on a lot:)flowerforyou :banana: :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 04:41 PM
In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? :banana: waving :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 04:16 PM


I don't answer ones from men out of my age range, and those are all I get. I really don't understand why a young guy in his 20's would e-mail me when I'm clearly old enough to be his grandmother, and especially when they're on a different continent. Even if they "just want to be friends." I mean, get real.


I get a lot out of my age range as well. Those are also the people who have told me they liked my profile. When I asked if they read the part about the age, they tell me "baby, age is just a number!" whoa
whoa simple fix your age category that you want your response from and then you won't get them, out of your age bracket lolll but age is just a number that is true :)when i was 23 i dated a 43year old lady that looked like 25 :) when i was 19 i dated a 31 year old lady that worked for Victoria Secret :) to me it depends on the 2 involved age hardly means that much as long as they are legal to think age matters so much thats negative thinking :)cheers

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Mon 05/07/12 04:02 PM




If someone takes the time to message me then I will take the time to reply...... But
you will get back what you put into it, I find it very easy to figure out how genuine
a person is by their response .


That's pretty much how I work as well. If I get a "hi" they will get a "hi" in return. If I get a well thought out message, I'll take the time to respond.
wooohoo its follow the leader lolll .....but myself if i get a hi i leave them a nice long message and say just a hi i got at the end of my long response back cause i am optimistic that there was a reason behind just hi :).... lolll i mean 2 negatives don't make a positive, its better to be optimistic about the hi, then having Pessimism view that you can only say hi back :) but then again some are not optimistic about things as others are :) cheers

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Mon 05/07/12 03:47 PM

I don't answer ones from men out of my age range, and those are all I get. I really don't understand why a young guy in his 20's would e-mail me when I'm clearly old enough to be his grandmother, and especially when they're on a different continent. Even if they "just want to be friends." I mean, get real.
well i guess they respond to you cause you have your settings letting them respond:) and some younger guys love older women and some older women love younger guys, i think if i were you, i would set your age settings ,to the age you want people to respond to you, and your problem is fixed you would not get guys in their 20s responding and also if you don't want someone from another Country to respond set them settings as well its simple cheers :) flowerforyou waving :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 03:36 PM



I get TONS of emails from men in their thousands. You try answering them and trying to keep up with a guy you're trying to have an email conversation with. Sooner or later, one of em will have to go looking elsewhere. I can't have three conversations at once. If i grab you're attention that you want me that badly, then please have patience. Otherwise it's bye bye from me. biggrin
woooohooooooo we have a winner:) thousands of of mail 1 min let me message you in mail so it will be thousands and 1 :wink: laugh flowerforyou biggrin :thumbsup: i guess the guess think your such a lovable good looking lady:) cheers



Thanks :) I appreciate your nice compliment. I just don't wanna come across like i'm bragging or anything. drinks
no your not bragging my friend i know exactly what you meant, some may try to twist it into a brag, cause some maybe don't get a lot of messages or they may be jealous of you lolll but i think its awesome that you do ,and your a good looking lady you should get tons of messages :) flowerforyou waving :thumbsup: cheers:)

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Mon 05/07/12 03:28 PM
well its great to be reliable, ambitious, hardworking, confident, honest,respectful,decent ,in a optimistic realistic way in life rather then have a figment of ones imagination in a pessimistic view of thinking negative all the time ,a great positive outlook in life even when your down can help to a degree, till reality sets in and then the mind starts to think and looks at facts and then boom , you can become negative then you need to think positive and over ride the facts and say maybe theres more facts out there that can help in a different way ,a optimistic way so you can be positive in life and never give up hope :)cheers all have a great day:):banana: biggrin :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 02:50 PM
well well looks like everyone is having a jolly ol day :)

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Mon 05/07/12 02:31 PM

I get TONS of emails from men in their thousands. You try answering them and trying to keep up with a guy you're trying to have an email conversation with. Sooner or later, one of em will have to go looking elsewhere. I can't have three conversations at once. If i grab you're attention that you want me that badly, then please have patience. Otherwise it's bye bye from me. biggrin
woooohooooooo we have a winner:) thousands of of mail 1 min let me message you in mail so it will be thousands and 1 :wink: laugh flowerforyou biggrin :thumbsup: i guess the guess think your such a lovable good looking lady:) cheers

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Mon 05/07/12 02:28 PM

Ah, so you were exaggerating quite a bit. :)
laugh why you check her messages? rofl tongue2

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Mon 05/07/12 02:26 PM

people get messages shocked
rofl shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked scared scared scared scared scared what are those lollllll that's what you saying ? thats to funny that shocked

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Mon 05/07/12 02:23 PM

I'm on more than one dating site. One thing they all have in common is the debate over un-answered messages. Well, Ladies & gentlemen here is your chance to tell people in general why you choose not to answer a message. Maybe for some people it will lay it to rest just to know why the message(s) they send don't get answered. Don't be mean. But do be honest. I know some answer every message they get. But a lot don't. This thread is to tell why you don't. What turns you off from answering a message.

By the way, This is not a pity thread. I've started threads like this in other places. This is only meant to be an eye opener for those that just don't understand why there messages either never get answered or very little. I guess you might call it a "help thread"
most of the time i answer all my messages some a little longer to answer then others when i get messages .....but you also got to remember dude ,some lady,s don't respond right away cause some only come on every few days or maybe just on the weekend too :) so if a response is slow she may not be online at the time :) and also some just get to many to respond to all or maybe they already found someone they like but never changed the profile ,theres lot's of reasons so be patient and keep trying and 1 day you may hit the jackpot lollllll laugh waving :thumbsup: cheers i got a few tickets in i still waiting to win too hahaha

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Sun 05/06/12 07:10 PM

Did you know......If a frog had wings, it wouldn't bump it's butt everytime it jumped
lolllllll just when it lands uh and takes off laugh drinks :thumbsup: