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In Generally Speaking
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As far as me and my woman....age doesn't matter cause she is the part of my soul that I never thought I would have. As far as me and the rest of the herd....I don't wanna young chick cause it is like training a puppy....they don't know what the hell they want...and they ain't that good at sex. MOST older gals come with too much baggage....mainly thier freak show families...but....they are freaking awesome in the sheets. I ain't saying this in a bad way cause think about how screwed up I am....seriously....I am pretty sure that we can all agree that it would take a special woman of really bad taste to chose me. But, the sun shines on every dog's @$$ some day. And I got a woman who completes me as a man. I don't care how old she is. I don't ask. |
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In Generally Speaking
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For me it matters. But for others (as long as they are legal) then it's none of my concern. I have a 21 y/o son and can't see myself dating anyone near that age. I prefer, at least, 5 years difference (give or take) |
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In Generally Speaking
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In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,, the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature' I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,, absolutely, living with a parent alone doesnt signify immaturity,, living with a parent that one is still DEPENDENT upon for simple things like eating and doing laundry,,,,,signifies a delayed development,,,, IMHO,,,lol |
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In Generally Speaking
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Age does not matter to me. Maturity does. |
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That moment where everything clicks...where the past disappears? That moment where everything ahead is new and free? I have. Getting off the plane in Portland and soooooo nervous. Lost as hell and going the wrong way out from the airport. I was the only one out of 175 people that took a right in the terminal. Talking on the phone with my woman...not knowing where the hell I was going....Just listening to her voice as I told her "I am here"...she told me "I am here"...that went on a few minutes till I walked past her....she was in the wrong place too. Then..it all went silent....I turned my head....there she was. Love. (I am talking about you b!tch) A perfect moment. :) No other feeling like it. I have also had perfect moments in other ways but, that is a good one. |
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What's 'LOVE'
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Love is giving your actual phone number. |
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In Generally Speaking
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In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? Generally speaking, I think it depends on the people. |
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In Generally Speaking
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In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,, the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature' I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,, |
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In Generally Speaking
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In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing?
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I don't answer ones from men out of my age range, and those are all I get. I really don't understand why a young guy in his 20's would e-mail me when I'm clearly old enough to be his grandmother, and especially when they're on a different continent. Even if they "just want to be friends." I mean, get real. I get a lot out of my age range as well. Those are also the people who have told me they liked my profile. When I asked if they read the part about the age, they tell me "baby, age is just a number!" |
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If someone takes the time to message me then I will take the time to reply...... But you will get back what you put into it, I find it very easy to figure out how genuine a person is by their response . That's pretty much how I work as well. If I get a "hi" they will get a "hi" in return. If I get a well thought out message, I'll take the time to respond. |
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I don't answer ones from men out of my age range, and those are all I get. I really don't understand why a young guy in his 20's would e-mail me when I'm clearly old enough to be his grandmother, and especially when they're on a different continent. Even if they "just want to be friends." I mean, get real. |
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I get TONS of emails from men in their thousands. You try answering them and trying to keep up with a guy you're trying to have an email conversation with. Sooner or later, one of em will have to go looking elsewhere. I can't have three conversations at once. If i grab you're attention that you want me that badly, then please have patience. Otherwise it's bye bye from me. Thanks :) I appreciate your nice compliment. I just don't wanna come across like i'm bragging or anything. |
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well its great to be reliable, ambitious, hardworking, confident, honest,respectful,decent ,in a optimistic realistic way in life rather then have a figment of ones imagination in a pessimistic view of thinking negative all the time ,a great positive outlook in life even when your down can help to a degree, till reality sets in and then the mind starts to think and looks at facts and then boom , you can become negative then you need to think positive and over ride the facts and say maybe theres more facts out there that can help in a different way ,a optimistic way so you can be positive in life and never give up hope :)cheers all have a great day:)
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well well looks like everyone is having a jolly ol day :)
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I get TONS of emails from men in their thousands. You try answering them and trying to keep up with a guy you're trying to have an email conversation with. Sooner or later, one of em will have to go looking elsewhere. I can't have three conversations at once. If i grab you're attention that you want me that badly, then please have patience. Otherwise it's bye bye from me. |
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Ah, so you were exaggerating quite a bit. :) |
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people get messages |
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I'm on more than one dating site. One thing they all have in common is the debate over un-answered messages. Well, Ladies & gentlemen here is your chance to tell people in general why you choose not to answer a message. Maybe for some people it will lay it to rest just to know why the message(s) they send don't get answered. Don't be mean. But do be honest. I know some answer every message they get. But a lot don't. This thread is to tell why you don't. What turns you off from answering a message. By the way, This is not a pity thread. I've started threads like this in other places. This is only meant to be an eye opener for those that just don't understand why there messages either never get answered or very little. I guess you might call it a "help thread" |
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Did You Know?
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Did you know......If a frog had wings, it wouldn't bump it's butt everytime it jumped |
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