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Tue 05/08/12 10:25 PM
amazing hand painting:):thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 10:04 PM
t Specially designed for Glacier travel, unbelievable traction,:thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 09:52 PM
laugh waving :thumbsup: they sure did a job on this car:)

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Tue 05/08/12 09:20 PM
Fountain in Fountain Hills Amazing!:thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 09:07 PM
just a 3d amazing drawing on the road:):thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 08:54 PM
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Tue 05/08/12 08:40 PM
Edited by Cheer_up on Tue 05/08/12 09:14 PM
illusions.... what do you think about them? and strange stuff people make and weird pictures too? i will put a few different things here :)to me its amazing how someone can create them :)feel free to leave some of your own too THANKS:) Cheers :banana: waving :thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 06:33 PM

An often asked question so maybe it deserves often answers. No limits in my book. The universe is so full of possibilities I would hate to be the one who shut the door only to miss out on an experience of love and companionship that might be brilliantly designed by the heavens.

We build our own walls, unfortunately sometimes we forget to put in windows.
and in some countries they forget to put in the doors too lolll laugh biggrin :thumbsup: cheers

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Tue 05/08/12 06:28 PM

Now talking about things in common, I could go off on that one. I have so much more in common with likened people than I do with others, and there is no age barriers or gaps. Artsy people have a way of spanding huge age spreads and are often color blind, culture blind, money blind and age blind. We have a hunger and respect for each others gifts and beauty both in and out. I think we even look at each other as art. Putting an age limit on feelings, knowledge and love would seem very weird to my crowd.
i agree 100% bro well said :thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 05:30 PM





Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me.
well everyone is different my friend some don't judge a person cause of a age before they even know them ,you may be surprised how in common people can be with different ages ,if you opened your horizon on different ages and gave them a chance , but its your choice ,its just a suggestion :):thumbsup:

I don't think she was so much judging them for their age as much as the different places in life at different times.
Most people do go in stages in their life at different ages. She just wants somebody on the same as herself. Whats wrong with that?

yes but a lot of people with different ages have the same things in common to, and her first line was ...Age does matter to me... so it is a judge ...shes judging people through their age, instead of getting to know the person in different age gaps ,i know you are saying people with her age she would have more in common with but you would never know until you tried other age groups right? and if you block other age groups, saying they have less in common ,then already you judged them by age before you even know them ,so yes it is a judge :) but she can do what she likes its up to her and nothing wrong with that ,all i said she may lose out in a lot of nice people that have things in common too at a different age:) laugh biggrin :thumbsup:

I am guessing that it has been her experience and thats why she said that, so obviously big age gaps have not worked out for her in the past so she feels its not right for her.

But you are right too as far as everybody is different and some people get along very well even with a huge age gap.
I myself prefer men younger than myself because most of them older than me are dead lol




lolllllllllll flowerforyou well its up to her but as for you my friend biggrin ,you don't look old my friend you look young yourself :):thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 05:24 PM



Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me.
well everyone is different my friend some don't judge a person cause of a age before they even know them ,you may be surprised how in common people can be with different ages ,if you opened your horizon on different ages and gave them a chance , but its your choice ,its just a suggestion :):thumbsup:


You asked a question about whether age matters. I answered for myself. I wasn't looking for advice, though. I've found what works well for me. What works for you may be different.
well whatever works well with you is awesome but i was not giving you advise lolll i was giving you a suggestion ....i will help you on the two different meanings my friend see .....To give advice means to offer resolution to a problem by way of action. ....and this is not a problem for you :) but ...A suggestion, on the other hand, is the introduction of a new idea of thinking :) :banana: biggrin biggrin

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Tue 05/08/12 04:56 PM




Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me.
well everyone is different my friend some don't judge a person cause of a age before they even know them ,you may be surprised how in common people can be with different ages ,if you opened your horizon on different ages and gave them a chance , but its your choice ,its just a suggestion :):thumbsup:

I don't think she was so much judging them for their age as much as the different places in life at different times.
Most people do go in stages in their life at different ages. She just wants somebody on the same as herself. Whats wrong with that?



I'm glad someone understood what I was trying to say!

It all comes down to preferences. Some women are ok with much bigger age gaps. Some are not. We all find what works best for us.
well alway up to the person :):thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 04:52 PM



Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me.
well everyone is different my friend some don't judge a person cause of a age before they even know them ,you may be surprised how in common people can be with different ages ,if you opened your horizon on different ages and gave them a chance , but its your choice ,its just a suggestion :):thumbsup:

I don't think she was so much judging them for their age as much as the different places in life at different times.
Most people do go in stages in their life at different ages. She just wants somebody on the same as herself. Whats wrong with that?

yes but a lot of people with different ages have the same things in common to, and her first line was ...Age does matter to me... so it is a judge ...shes judging people through their age, instead of getting to know the person in different age gaps ,i know you are saying people with her age she would have more in common with but you would never know until you tried other age groups right? and if you block other age groups, saying they have less in common ,then already you judged them by age before you even know them ,so yes it is a judge :) but she can do what she likes its up to her and nothing wrong with that ,all i said she may lose out in a lot of nice people that have things in common too at a different age:) laugh biggrin :thumbsup:

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Tue 05/08/12 04:24 PM
LOLLLLLLLLL i think thats just to stupid ,cause if you think about it ,thats just trying to control a person ,you got to have trust ,i mean my goodness if 2 people like each other and want a relationship they need to trust each other not by being a controlling a-hole, lolllll it makes me laugh when that happens, cause i had a girl tell me in the past, why are you looking over there at that girl ,lolllllllllll first i was looking at the bar to get a beer and thats the waitress, then next she says why was the waitress so friendly to you? i think she was flirting with you ,i mean i use to get this crap all the time , i just walking down a street and i get stuff like , that girl she was looking at you do you know her? finally i had to break up with this girl my goodness i could not breath ,i get a call why didn't you answer your phone is someone there at your place? , i say yes me and my bar of soap i was in the shower lolll,man she drove me nuts ,but i cared about her too , thats why i tried to give it a chance to work out ,but she was just to possessive and jealous over nothing , i say i going to a store it was like.... ok what time you coming back ? i will call you and i know how long it takes she says , rofl waving :thumbsup: so lose that person fast my friend hahaha before you have to go through what i did lolll flowerforyou :banana: :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 10:22 PM

Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me.
well everyone is different my friend some don't judge a person cause of a age before they even know them ,you may be surprised how in common people can be with different ages ,if you opened your horizon on different ages and gave them a chance , but its your choice ,its just a suggestion :):thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 10:12 PM



Age does not matter to me. Maturity does.
well i think that is really awesome but does it matter how far of a age gap? or from what age to what age with Maturity?:)flowerforyou waving :thumbsup:

Nope..as long as they are mature enough for my taste.
well i think that is soooooooo awesome my friend i wish there was more that was like you on that way of thinking :) that age is not that important flowerforyou :banana: :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 10:07 PM




I don't answer ones from men out of my age range, and those are all I get. I really don't understand why a young guy in his 20's would e-mail me when I'm clearly old enough to be his grandmother, and especially when they're on a different continent. Even if they "just want to be friends." I mean, get real.


I get a lot out of my age range as well. Those are also the people who have told me they liked my profile. When I asked if they read the part about the age, they tell me "baby, age is just a number!" whoa
whoa simple fix your age category that you want your response from and then you won't get them, out of your age bracket lolll but age is just a number that is true :)when i was 23 i dated a 43year old lady that looked like 25 :) when i was 19 i dated a 31 year old lady that worked for Victoria Secret :) to me it depends on the 2 involved age hardly means that much as long as they are legal to think age matters so much thats negative thinking :)cheers


No, I'm not going to set filters, as I chat with all kinds of people from the forums. Many don't fit the specific age range I prefer for dating.
well then so if they want to be friends and not from the forum ,you don't talk? if not in age group? curious?:thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 10:03 PM






If someone takes the time to message me then I will take the time to reply...... But
you will get back what you put into it, I find it very easy to figure out how genuine
a person is by their response .


That's pretty much how I work as well. If I get a "hi" they will get a "hi" in return. If I get a well thought out message, I'll take the time to respond.
wooohoo its follow the leader lolll .....but myself if i get a hi i leave them a nice long message and say just a hi i got at the end of my long response back cause i am optimistic that there was a reason behind just hi :).... lolll i mean 2 negatives don't make a positive, its better to be optimistic about the hi, then having Pessimism view that you can only say hi back :) but then again some are not optimistic about things as others are :) cheers


Well, I've noticed that those who just send emails that say "hi" and that's it tend not to have much in their profile. So sending them a long message isn't going to work well when there is nothing to go on. I'm not quite sure how responding would be pessimistic, though. I'm giving them a chance to start a conversation. Not responding could be considered pessimistic, I guess.
so after they only say hi and nothing else you go and read their profile? biggrin

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Mon 05/07/12 08:39 PM



I get paid to get dirty, so it doesn't take me long to get ready for work. When I'm off, I just either stay in bed or if I do go out, I don't have many "play" clothes, so it doesn't take too long to figure out what to wear.

Ugh, I need new clothes, but need a female friend to help me. I can't shop for clothes on my own.
well why can't you shop on your own bro? people wear almost anything nowadays biggrin :banana: :thumbsup:


It takes me like six hours just to pick out a plain white t, that I regret buying as soon as I get to the parking lot.
come on bro you serious? just a t-shirt you that fussy ? ,well i look around too for certain t-shirts too but soon as i see them i buy them , oh curious you think a lady can pick you better clothes then your guy friends? :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/07/12 08:27 PM

Little simple things are so BEAUTIFUL than all the money in the world.
well you mean true love? flowerforyou biggrin :thumbsup:

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