Topic: MEETING SOMEONE NEW
smileyy19's photo
Tue 05/08/12 10:47 AM
Ok, people what is it that you just barely meet someone. So, they tell you ' oh' your not allow to talk to another man or woman!!!!!!!!

HeadnHeart's photo
Tue 05/08/12 10:51 AM
Thats someone with huge insecurities, probably controlling and clingy to the point of strangulation. Run Fast...

soufiehere's photo
Tue 05/08/12 10:55 AM
Jealousy is an insidious monster.
It can come early or late in a relationship.

All I can say is, I like someone who is
their own person.
This means they have friends they have
known far longer than me.
And hopefully, they will make new ones
along the way too.
That we both will know.

Trust is everything.

laughsandgiggles's photo
Tue 05/08/12 11:11 AM
I have huge problems with someone telling me what to do. Im an adult and i expect to be treated as one. If someone who i have just started talking to and barely know tells me to not talk to anyone else im going to stop talking to that particular person. This will happen after i tell them what i think of their "order" aaaaannndd that probably explains alot of why im still single lol

No but honestly- that sounds like a person with alot of trust issues and massive insecurity. If you like them talk to them and tell them that the request is unreasonable and if they persist... well maybe you need to walk away. Listen to that little voice in your head- it will never lead you astray

Good Luck!!

jemare's photo
Tue 05/08/12 11:25 AM
I'm here with Soufie on this one. If they have kept their friends for a long time... they're worth keeping. But if they don't want you to keep YOUR friends... well then they're the one not worth keeping. If that's the case...run, run quickly.

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 05/08/12 11:32 AM
Edited by oldhippie1952 on Tue 05/08/12 11:32 AM
Sounds like you're meeting someone you've met before, else why would they want to control you.

Do as the ladies say. RUN!!

Edit: Oh, and headandheart says as well...

burgundybry's photo
Tue 05/08/12 12:14 PM
Can't add to what's already been said.

pyxxie13's photo
Tue 05/08/12 01:39 PM
Two words...

RUN AWAY!

no photo
Tue 05/08/12 01:42 PM

Thats someone with huge insecurities, probably controlling and clingy to the point of strangulation. Run Fast...


This and every other post on this thread.

no photo
Tue 05/08/12 02:17 PM
two more words

bye bye!

machug's photo
Tue 05/08/12 02:51 PM
Someone telling me I can't talk to another person of the opposite sex??? LOL, oh no babe...don't let the door hit you in the keister on the way out!!!

Even if we were in a relationship, I will talk to anyone I please.
Nobody has the right to TELL me I can't.

Cheer_up's photo
Tue 05/08/12 04:24 PM
LOLLLLLLLLL i think thats just to stupid ,cause if you think about it ,thats just trying to control a person ,you got to have trust ,i mean my goodness if 2 people like each other and want a relationship they need to trust each other not by being a controlling a-hole, lolllll it makes me laugh when that happens, cause i had a girl tell me in the past, why are you looking over there at that girl ,lolllllllllll first i was looking at the bar to get a beer and thats the waitress, then next she says why was the waitress so friendly to you? i think she was flirting with you ,i mean i use to get this crap all the time , i just walking down a street and i get stuff like , that girl she was looking at you do you know her? finally i had to break up with this girl my goodness i could not breath ,i get a call why didn't you answer your phone is someone there at your place? , i say yes me and my bar of soap i was in the shower lolll,man she drove me nuts ,but i cared about her too , thats why i tried to give it a chance to work out ,but she was just to possessive and jealous over nothing , i say i going to a store it was like.... ok what time you coming back ? i will call you and i know how long it takes she says , rofl waving :thumbsup: so lose that person fast my friend hahaha before you have to go through what i did lolll flowerforyou :banana: :thumbsup:

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 05/09/12 08:47 PM

Ok, people what is it that you just barely meet someone. So, they tell you ' oh' your not allow to talk to another man or woman!!!!!!!!



Warning! Warning! Danger ahead!

josie68's photo
Thu 05/10/12 01:09 AM
RUN..
There is never a reason not to talk to other people.

Constance1255's photo
Fri 05/11/12 12:57 AM
Some would say its holding up to what you hav.. I will say.... Don't even giv it a try .surprised