As above

hello, could someone take a look at my profile and tell me if there's anything I should add as I'm not getting a ton of interaction...even though its only been a couple days.

You're right on here for a while, but I just became active recently. Thank you for your thoughts. :)

Some women r just mean to me. I don't get it. I am a nice guy and a good one. Not perfect. But gez I get horribly treated like trash. Cause I have no money or a car, or some big fancy house. Get over it. Middle class is middle class. I at least have all my Bill's paid. Which is $1300 in all. K not cheap. I have a roof over my head. A mom who cares and a family who cares. I may not have a good looking wife. But one day I will.

What's the question? Or am I being uncouth?

Older women are bitter and angry.

is it okay to be married and have explicit sexual conversation and adressing them as babe with someone else is that cheating

Your cut and paste skills should make you irresistible..

I hate people, because they are asshats ... or come to close to me when I am cycling. But never because of their sexual orientation. And I think, most people here think like me.

Participating in conversations in a normal fashion might help. All I've seen you do so far is seek attention for being a gay man.
And that's okay, I mean, you're not offending anyone. But it won't get you friendship or more either.

Trust is a big issue these days, it always has been.
There was a time when I would be trusting of people until they proved otherwise.
I think that with the advent of the internet and the security issues inherent in online information, banking, shopping or for that matter dating.

We have perhaps become more xenophobic as a self protection measure.
The path to trust has become longer and longer. And the distance between people greater as a result. And not just online. All someone has to do is make off with that little book that you keep all your nonsensical passwords in and you are ruined.

Does anyone else hate having to be this way? But what else can you do?

I think habitual xenophobia is undermining community spirit to a degree. It's not so good when it comes to dating either :)

Any thoughts?

Hi Firefiy, glad to see another Nebraskan here willing to post!
I have seen a lot of what you're talking about. Myself I have one child only, a 15 y/o daughter so that doesn't seem to spook women

I'm a single mom of 2 girls. I love it when a guy already has kids. I unfortunately had to have a hysterectomy so I can't have any more but I love children and I usually run when they don't have any because they might want some and leave me later on. I actually am more likely to date someone that has kids, they understand that my kids are the priority until they are grown. That doesn't mean that the man in my life would not be important or special.

I have a 10 and 11 yr old at home still and I always have the same drama. The men that contact me dont want the kids involved. sorry, it's a package deal.

I'm starting to believe the women I meet tend to be shallow minded when the find out I have my eleven year old son. Do they think I wouldn't have time for them? Even women with children would rather have a man who does not have custody of their children. In my experience I find that women with multiple children find dates way easier than men with children.

I do however realize women my age have children already grown and do not want young children around anymore. Only my friends know I have a loving child and anyone I meet never really get to know my child, that seems sad but thats how it is these days.

Three years with having my child on my own has taught me to not trust women. I wonder what the next three years will teach me?

Oh my goodness!

I can see that there are some people that don't even own a car, so you can't expect them to travel any distance.