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Hey peeps...
Kinda dating a guy on here in Tex, he seem kinda nice all honest and stuffs, but he seem too busy and its putting me off, not even a single e-mail for days now, phone off, and am feeling like am in the dark about something, what can i do?? |
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It could be many things. He could be very busy. He could be having computer and phone issues. He could be hiding something.
Only he can answer this, but only you can decide if the answer is ok. I would say (this is what I would do) just go on with your life. If he contacts you, then ask him. I wouldn't sweat it until then. Good luck to you |
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keep yourself buisy during your free time. This usually helps me ceep my mined at eas.
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Or maybe he just doesn't care - not about you, but about continuously telling you (or anyone else) “he's there”.
Often happens with us introverts, who are good guys most times. |
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i,m not sure but if you feel somethings not right then you are probably correct.if i had to bet i would say that he is no longer interested in pursuing a relationship and not man enough to be honest with you,hope i,m wrong,good luck.
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That's the prob w/ LDR's you KNOW if someone comes there way that lives near them they are going to take it.
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Hey peeps... Kinda dating a guy on here in Tex, he seem kinda nice all honest and stuffs, but he seem too busy and its putting me off, not even a single e-mail for days now, phone off, and am feeling like am in the dark about something, what can i do?? Well, Madden 11 is out......and dudes go AWOL when a new Madden game comes out. |
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Hey peeps... Kinda dating a guy on here in Tex, he seem kinda nice all honest and stuffs, but he seem too busy and its putting me off, not even a single e-mail for days now, phone off, and am feeling like am in the dark about something, what can i do?? Has he been single for a a long time or do you know any info on his previous relationships? |
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This is only off handed advice from a single guy but the saying goes "the one that cares least in a relationship holds the most power" Not sure how true it is... I just heard it somewhere...
Good luck |
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Just step away. If there's a good excuse (like Madden) he'll contact you and let you know. If not . . . . oh well.
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Edited by
eileena9
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Sat 09/04/10 08:35 PM
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That's the prob w/ LDR's you KNOW if someone comes there way that lives near them they are going to take it. Not always true....I've been in one for the past three years and I wouldn't be stupid enough to cheat and he wouldn't even think about it either. How can I be so sure? My 17 year old daughter moved in with him and his daughter after she had boyfriend trouble and wanted a fresh start. She would know if he was cheating on me. To the OP....Yes, step away...sounds like he has something else going on. |
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Just step away. If there's a good excuse (like Madden) he'll contact you and let you know. If not . . . . oh well. A video game is a good excuse now for ladies? |
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Just step away. If there's a good excuse (like Madden) he'll contact you and let you know. If not . . . . oh well. A video game is a good excuse now for ladies? I think she meant "If he has ANY kind of a decent excuse, he will call and tell her. If he doesn't want to give her an excuse, he probably lost interest and won't call." |
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Just step away. If there's a good excuse (like Madden) he'll contact you and let you know. If not . . . . oh well. A video game is a good excuse now for ladies? Sir....Madden is addictive. I am sure Physician's nationwide will confirm this. As will most married women. |
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walk away from the guy. if he wants to act like he is 12, then treat him like he is 7. And I can honestly say I dont know a single male that would rather play video games then enjoying someones company.
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