Topic: He is too busy
live4others777's photo
Sat 09/04/10 02:31 AM
Hey peeps...
Kinda dating a guy on here in Tex, he seem kinda nice all honest and stuffs, but he seem too busy and its putting me off, not even a single e-mail for days now, phone off, and am feeling like am in the dark about something, what can i do??

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 09/04/10 02:42 AM
It could be many things. He could be very busy. He could be having computer and phone issues. He could be hiding something.

Only he can answer this, but only you can decide if the answer is ok.

I would say (this is what I would do) just go on with your life. If he contacts you, then ask him. I wouldn't sweat it until then.

Good luck to you

flawlessmeans's photo
Sat 09/04/10 02:50 AM
keep yourself buisy during your free time. This usually helps me ceep my mined at eas.
happy

darthwiz's photo
Sat 09/04/10 02:56 AM
Or maybe he just doesn't care - not about you, but about continuously telling you (or anyone else) “he's there”.

Often happens with us introverts, who are good guys most times.

bigojockey's photo
Sat 09/04/10 05:34 AM
i,m not sure but if you feel somethings not right then you are probably correct.if i had to bet i would say that he is no longer interested in pursuing a relationship and not man enough to be honest with you,hope i,m wrong,good luck.

JamieRawxx's photo
Sat 09/04/10 07:28 AM
That's the prob w/ LDR's you KNOW if someone comes there way that lives near them they are going to take it.

Goofball73's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:12 PM

Hey peeps...
Kinda dating a guy on here in Tex, he seem kinda nice all honest and stuffs, but he seem too busy and its putting me off, not even a single e-mail for days now, phone off, and am feeling like am in the dark about something, what can i do??


Well, Madden 11 is out......and dudes go AWOL when a new Madden game comes out.:tongue:

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:16 PM

Hey peeps...
Kinda dating a guy on here in Tex, he seem kinda nice all honest and stuffs, but he seem too busy and its putting me off, not even a single e-mail for days now, phone off, and am feeling like am in the dark about something, what can i do??


Has he been single for a a long time or do you know any info on his previous relationships?

AllenAqua's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:21 PM
This is only off handed advice from a single guy but the saying goes "the one that cares least in a relationship holds the most power" Not sure how true it is... I just heard it somewhere...

Good luckflowerforyou

Loy822's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:28 PM
Just step away. If there's a good excuse (like Madden) he'll contact you and let you know. If not . . . . oh well.

eileena9's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:34 PM
Edited by eileena9 on Sat 09/04/10 08:35 PM

That's the prob w/ LDR's you KNOW if someone comes there way that lives near them they are going to take it.


Not always true....I've been in one for the past three years and I wouldn't be stupid enough to cheat and he wouldn't even think about it either. How can I be so sure? My 17 year old daughter moved in with him and his daughter after she had boyfriend trouble and wanted a fresh start. She would know if he was cheating on me.

flowerforyou flowerforyou

To the OP....Yes, step away...sounds like he has something else going on.ohwell

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:35 PM

Just step away. If there's a good excuse (like Madden) he'll contact you and let you know. If not . . . . oh well.


A video game is a good excuse now for ladies? noway

eileena9's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:39 PM


Just step away. If there's a good excuse (like Madden) he'll contact you and let you know. If not . . . . oh well.


A video game is a good excuse now for ladies? noway


I think she meant "If he has ANY kind of a decent excuse, he will call and tell her. If he doesn't want to give her an excuse, he probably lost interest and won't call."

Goofball73's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:40 PM


Just step away. If there's a good excuse (like Madden) he'll contact you and let you know. If not . . . . oh well.


A video game is a good excuse now for ladies? noway


Sir....Madden is addictive. I am sure Physician's nationwide will confirm this. As will most married women.laugh

eklectek's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:41 PM
walk away from the guy. if he wants to act like he is 12, then treat him like he is 7. And I can honestly say I dont know a single male that would rather play video games then enjoying someones company.