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Sat 03/22/08 02:53 PM


My heart. I should have not allowed myself to fall for a person so quickly. Love hurts. I understand people use/abuse the word Love. Most use it in generic ways. When I used Love, or My Love for her as in how she made me feel. We could talk about anything. So many same interests. I loved her smile, her mind, spirit, looks. I don't hardly put myself out on the line as I did. But after all the times we talked on the phone and it was a lot, I let my guard down for something I guess what not on the other end. She express all the same feels towards me, but I guess love was not what she was feeling inside, and that is what I felt inside.

That is what I mean by I hurt myself.
I have one thing to say...if you like older women, Ilive in Missouri also. Maybe you can come to the Missouri JSH party



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Sat 03/22/08 02:29 PM

I guess I was lucky and in a way doomed at the same time. But I enjoy this site a lot and the community. I don't think there is a better website out there that offers a free service and such nice people to chat with.:smile:


Yep, if you want online friends, jsh is the place for you. :)

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Sat 03/22/08 02:17 PM
Ask what? If you have their permission to do a background check or if the person is a rapist? For some reason, I don't see the average person saying yes to either of those questions.

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Sat 03/22/08 02:16 PM

I never got an explanation.. we stopped being friends soon after.. good riddance was all i could say.. last time i saw she was meeting people off the net and having sex on the first meeting and then they never talked to her again laugh laugh


Ew, it's good you aren't with her then, she might have given you an STD. Gross!

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Sat 03/22/08 02:05 PM
Innocent of what? Oh yeah, I get it, cause she did a background check. Well, it's not really private if she found it online, is it? :wink:

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Sat 03/22/08 02:03 PM
Good way to look at it. I met a guy off the net and realized we weren't going to work out after the second date. It was only 2 weeks into the "relationship" so it wasn't too bad. And I was polite enough to explain to him why. No idea why people can't be considerate. *shakes head*

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Sat 03/22/08 02:00 PM

Yea. it sucks no matter how long you wait. it hurts though after a couple of years.. you think the attachments there.. then she just doesn't feel it like you do


People can be very cruel. She should have known what she wanted before 2 years went by.

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Sat 03/22/08 01:30 PM
Oh, well it won't be too hard afterwards then. It's bad when you have to see the person daily.

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Sat 03/22/08 12:54 PM
I think you have your answer. Besides, it really isn't a good idea to date people you work with. Very awkward whether it works out or not. It's good you found out in time. Whew!

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Sat 03/22/08 12:46 PM
That really sucks. Sorry it happened to you, I know exactly how you feel. That's happened to me, more than once, although i never went to meet them, thank god. It'd be nice if people would have the integrity and consideration of others to just stay out of the "dating pool" whether online or in "the real world," until they're ready. It's not fair to the other person. Once you fall for someone it's pretty hard to erase those feelings.

I used to talk to a guy online and he claimed he was over this girl he was into- she was never into him, but he refused to take no for answer- so I let myself fall for him. He claimed he really liked me, wanted to meet me, blah blah, you know the drill. Well, one day he informs me, via email, that he has decided he owes it to himself, and to her- who is not remotely interested in him at all, mind you, she even has a live-in bf of 3 years- to try to have a relationship with her. He hoped me and him could be friends, unless it was too "wounding" for me to handle, in which case he was sorry. Needless to say, we're no longer friends.

If you decide to continue internet dating, I hope it works for you, it's never worked for me, so I don't even try anymore. Best of luck. :)flowerforyou

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Sat 03/22/08 12:03 AM
Sounds like a stalker. Block him.

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Fri 03/21/08 11:09 PM
Easy. Delete the emails, lol

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Fri 03/21/08 10:44 PM
Or pink hair, or blue hair. I tried to dye my hair blue when I was a teenager. It didn't take though. :(

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Fri 03/21/08 10:20 PM
Dove milk chocolate= heaven!!!! :heart:

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Fri 03/21/08 04:03 PM

Welcome to JustSayHi... Check out the forums, have fun, and notice we aren't so serious. flowerforyou

I think there are some men wildly checking out your profile.:wink:


Heck, I'm not even into girls, and I just checked out her profile. LOL Have fun, new person. :)

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Fri 03/21/08 03:47 PM
Welcome back. Cute doggie.

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Fri 03/21/08 03:46 PM

Probably more often than we know and you can bet your sweet azz I will never go on a blind date again eithernoway noway


LOL, never been on one and after that story, I'm never going on one. :)

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Fri 03/21/08 03:39 PM

Yep he called me and asked me why I ran that way ------->

I laughed at himlaugh and said you have to be kidding right. He didn't get itnoway


LOL, should have told him, I learn from my mistakes. That's really a weird coincidence. I wonder how often that happens. :)

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Fri 03/21/08 03:37 PM
Welcome to jsh. I'll say with some certainty, you shouldn't have any problems finding a date here. :)

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Fri 03/21/08 03:33 PM

Date from Helllaugh laugh

Blind date, turned out to be ex husbandnoway noway

Ran that way ----------> as fast as I could


omg, that must have been scary! lol did he ever contact you after you ran away?

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