Community > Posts By > katydid34

 
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Tue 12/11/07 10:48 AM
Just say hi to a guy you think is interesting, if you are his type he'll answer and if he has the balls, he'll agree to meet you. Good luck. :)

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Tue 12/11/07 09:29 AM

Some things in life requires sacrifices, this Army stint could a temp thing or a career...

Do yourself a favor...enjoy VA Beach, great place, great history, sometimes when you least expect something it happens...They used to encourage uniforms of base, not sure if that is the case anymore.... but you can still pick out the grunts, squids and flyboys LOLlaugh laugh laugh laugh Dad was no dummy.......:tongue: laugh

I've talked to lots of military men who told me their gf/wife cheated on them because she was lonely.

Well that goes more in line with the character of the person and that is why it is important you find qualities that are good prior to marriage....it is sooooooo lame "I cheated because you were away" - it's a choice... on the other hand I have seen where GI's take advantage of that poor thang, be supportive, nail her and back up to the barracks they go...






LOL, well I think most of them were just horny! But yeah, you need to investigate the character of the person before you marry them. I think so many people rush into things and forget that.

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Tue 12/11/07 09:24 AM




Eh, to each his own, I just think those kind of relationships are all about sex, which is okay I guess if that's all you want.

you are soooo wrong, maybe most are about sex, but there are a lot of us "older" women that want all that a good relationship has to offer along with the sex.


I meant from the younger guy's point of view. I know older women want relationships, but from what I've seen, the younger guys aren't interested. They've heard that older women are "experienced" and "in their prime" and "can teach them a thing or two" so that's what it's about. Usually. If both parties are in it strictly for the sex, more power to them, but it's sad when one person wants more than the other is willing- or is capable- to give. If you've seen or experienced something better than this, and actually had a real relationship with a younger guy, congrats to you.


thats the thing that i'm worried about, i may not be capable to give her everything that she wants right now, b/c i'm still in college and everything, and college wrestling takes a lot of time to, but then again, i dont know what all she wants. I'm would not be in it just for the sex, she iw as wonderful person, and i would love to have a relationship with her, and her 2 kids!


Well, that's awesome then. If I were you, I'd talk to her about what she wants. When people are honest and upfront about things, it makes it so much easier.

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Tue 12/11/07 09:09 AM

huh huh huh 18????huh huh huh
Heck... I'm "older"... Damn.:cry:

Whipper snappers... :cry: ... and their labels.



<--------------is off to play canasta. Anyone seen my walker?frown


I want in on that canasta game. And oh sorry, I borrowed your walker. Here, I'm returning it. :)

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Tue 12/11/07 12:40 AM


Eh, to each his own, I just think those kind of relationships are all about sex, which is okay I guess if that's all you want.

you are soooo wrong, maybe most are about sex, but there are a lot of us "older" women that want all that a good relationship has to offer along with the sex.


I meant from the younger guy's point of view. I know older women want relationships, but from what I've seen, the younger guys aren't interested. They've heard that older women are "experienced" and "in their prime" and "can teach them a thing or two" so that's what it's about. Usually. If both parties are in it strictly for the sex, more power to them, but it's sad when one person wants more than the other is willing- or is capable- to give. If you've seen or experienced something better than this, and actually had a real relationship with a younger guy, congrats to you.

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Mon 12/10/07 11:23 PM
That's why you should wait til the guy says it first...

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Mon 12/10/07 11:21 PM
Well, not everyone can deal with their significant other being away for a long time. I've talked to lots of military men who told me their gf/wife cheated on them because she was lonely. Personally, I'm the type who could wait forever because I'm a loyal person and don't have to be babysat 24 hours a day, but obviously not everyone is like that. You just have to find the right one. Good luck.

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Mon 12/10/07 11:09 PM
Good luck in finding what you want.

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Mon 12/10/07 11:02 PM
Well, I don't date guys with kids, for one thing. But good luck to you!

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Mon 12/10/07 09:24 PM

Thanks, yep, I'm honest. I tell all my friends, if you ask me if you look fat in those pants, and you do, I'll tell you. embarassed


LOL

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Mon 12/10/07 09:18 PM
Eh, to each his own, I just think those kind of relationships are all about sex, which is okay I guess if that's all you want.

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Mon 12/10/07 08:44 PM
Good luck with that. However, if I had ever considered saving myself for marriage I'd end up a dead virgin. :)

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Mon 12/10/07 12:26 PM


GUYS ARE VISUALLY STIMULATED AND GIRLS ARE MENTALLY STIMULATED. ITS THAT SIMPLE

Bullcrap. Women (not "girls") are just as visually stimulated. The difference is, women have been historically conditioned to not admit it.


I agree. We're called shallow if we say that.

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Mon 12/10/07 12:14 PM

Good answer!!!!

to be honest ... what are you trully wanting man??


Sex.

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Mon 12/10/07 12:09 AM

i am too mature for most women my age so i'm looking for an older lady. any older ladies out there, if you're interested please dont hesistate to let me know. i'm only posting this because i know some women are shy


Btw, if you're really looking for milf's you need to change your mail prefs, 'cause they can't message you. Good luck.

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Mon 12/10/07 12:07 AM
OMG, 18 is just wrong. Sorry, I only talk to kids when I work daycare, no offense.

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Mon 12/10/07 12:06 AM

we are done talking. I asked her if it was ok to talk. I mentioned to her how I asked her to be my girlfriend a couple weeks ago and she said no because she didn't know anything about me. So I just asked her again, and she said she has considered me a boyfriend already. She told me she talks to her mom about me, she thinks about me at work. She told me that she likes me more and more every day. I am so freaken happy right now.


I'm very happy for you. Nice to know you got what you wanted. :)

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Mon 12/10/07 12:01 AM

katydid, youre the coolest, i just read your profile.
good person too.


Well, thank you. :)

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Sun 12/09/07 11:58 PM

Well......I like men....

I don't take them all home either. Chemistry is much more important to me than age. If there is no attraction, it doesn't make any difference what their age, however if the attraction is there; who cares as long as they are legal!!!drinker bigsmile blushing


Too much of a an age difference causes too many problems for me.

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Sun 12/09/07 11:52 PM
Great now I miss the 80s, LOL