I dont think it was a cop-out as the problems didnt happen until he was laid off. He always gave me the upmost respect.

okay I have been dating a guy for about 6 weeks, great connection, very respectful and treats me well, about 3 weeks ago he got laid off and things changed a lot. he was less attentive, the romance went down the toilet and he was just guarded. I told him I would be more then willing to be understanding and going out and not doing things would not bother me.
Things have just not got any better, I told him I needed him to step things up a little and he said he could not promise me anything, he said lets give it a few weeks and then see, I told him I didnt think it was fair to make me wait like that. I told him I would not call him anymore but he had my number if he thinks he could change in that area during his rough time,
My question to the men is..... If you loose your job does things really change in a relationship that is faily new?

Only you can make a life for yourself! Make some calls to some shelters and get back on your feet. Only you can do it with some determination. It isnt always fun but drive gets you far. Good luck

I live in AZ and work in the social service field. There is soooooooooo much out here in the Phx area to help you get back on your feet. Call the local shelters and a places called Save the family Foundation. Do you have kids?

Bas habits are "Hard" to break lmao~

Wow it has been a long time, how are you both?

There are always other nights, and it will just be that much more fun!

Yes fox but I would not change it for anything! Just look at all my grey hairs! :O)

I got rid of the piercings but I do like my tatts and them on others.

Good, I am enjoying a quiet night, I had plans but something came up, so I am just playing around tonight online.

Tatts! Got to love Tatts and Coffee~

Hello Pat, how are you tonight darlin?

Hello True, how are you? I am not on much as you all can see. But I am still around at times~ Boy we all had some fun way back then.

French V~ from QT nice and easy!!

Damn So if it is Monday I have to go back to work sooner then I thought, I just changed work Schedules and trying to get use to it. :O)

Hello~ it has been a long time so I wanted to say hello to all the Jello Heads from day one! OKay Okay Hello to all the great new people as well! I hope you all are having a nice Monday night!

Good fly thank you! Now work tomorrow so I am wanting to stay up late and enjoy my time off~ What kind of coffee are you drinking?

Yes, it is Sunday night and I am enjoying a nice cup of coffee! How is everyone tonight?

I think it comes from your own insecurity.

Come back and tell us that in the dead of summer lol Welcome though