I think it is denial, whatever the source. They deny what once was in the face of what really is now. But I think it only diminishes the sayer of those words. Not the receiver, those words alone would make it easier to move on. But the sayer of the words, no sympathy, it only makes them look incompetent. Just because it is over does NOT mean it never happened. I think I can be denial - if you never cared for the person you never would have become involved with them in the first place. Relationships change, & I can understand how people can grow apart & fall "out of love" with someone or stop liking or loving them. But to say to someone that you never loved them is just an immature attempt to hurt the other person. |
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Topic:
dating after abuse
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On-line is not the best place to find genuine men! Be outgoing and meet in person, faster way to see the real man! I agree with Toddy -Online I think is the worst place to be after an abusive relationship. There are alot of scammers out there & your best to meet men in person so that you can get their vibe. Sorry for you past relationship & good for you for putting yourself out there again! |
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Robert Palmer - "She Makes My Day" a nice romantic ballad I believe it's on the album Riptide I like that ...good choice... thanks ... and wow ... you look great for your age ... Isn't that a great song?! I love Robert Palmer - he died much too young. Thanks! |
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Robert Palmer - "She Makes My Day" a nice romantic ballad I believe it's on the album Riptide
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Topic:
cute or boring?
Edited by
chris2460
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Fri 10/20/17 02:00 PM
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Have to say boring I'm afraid as you don't have a lot written in your profile. Wishing you all the best though not to be fresh, but what's he's looking for is an intimate encounter, so maybe he doesn't have to write too much!: laugh: |
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Topic:
What don't you have
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I'd have to say good health
but I'd settle for " a full house and a rock & roll band. Pens that don't run out of ink, cool quiet and time to think - and passionate kisses! |
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Topic:
Iets 100% free?
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Ihave a match but how can I talk to Her? Why do I have to pay to find out who it is? you don't have to pay to see their profile - you can search by user name, view their profile & message them for free - without upgrading. |
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Hi dear Hi babe Hi sexy Works every time🕺 The 'hi' is all important. Oh please don't encourage the newbes in the "hi" game joe. It's annoying enough as is. Ps: Awesome new pic Joe! YUM!!!! I agree - I like your new picture - you look very dapper! |
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Easy this one. If a woman spent even half the time deciding where to go, as she does deciding what to wear, you'd get nowhere. |
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As a man believe it or not..I agree.... Slow down Guys... Show love and respect in a controlled sort of way... Sex truly is not a priority... Its a rewarding gift that comes from a bond between two people.... I really like your response - it sounds like you know what it takes to make a healthy relationship. I like to take things slow & see what develops first. Sometimes if you jump into bed too soon, the relationship just stays sexual in nature. I'm all for waiting awhile, but of course you can talk about it before hand -I think it's all in the timing. |
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Topic:
Battle of the sexes .....
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Men can be grumpy .. grumpy men do not get laid Dang I knew there was a reason... |
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Topic:
be honest.....rate me.
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The name alone gives you a negative 10. I agree! |
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Topic:
Rate my profile please ?
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I agree with delightful - use a picture of yourself that's in focus & write more about yourself. It gives you & the other person something to talk about. Good luck.
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Topic:
Sexiest
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Robert Palmer - Come Cver (on Double Fun)
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Topic:
What kind of cars?
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this day and age educated women see big cars as a turn off because of all the toxic emissions they emit. You want to impress a woman, buy a Tesla :-) want to impress her more, buy her the Tesla.. There you go - great advice! lol ( I really don't care what a man drives as long as it's comfortable for my back & I can get in it - but I wouldn't be adverse to a man buying me a car - no cost oor obligation that is!) |
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Topic:
Reincarnation
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That's true - it was onlu after the council of Nicea that the RC church stopped it's teaching on reincarnation. I guess thy figured there'd be no motivation to be good in this life if you knew you were going to get another chance at it!
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Topic:
Hello
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i can't you snitched all the cue cards and the laser pointer come on - you guys can't ad- lib? |
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Topic:
ANOTHER NEW ONE!
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Where did you lose yourself? maybe you can retrace your steps!
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Topic:
I want best girl friend
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you guys are terrible!
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Topic:
Chat
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now that's what I call a real conversation
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