Okay, I'm bad, but I did not see if there are kids involved. I talk to my ex mostly every day....ABOUT OUR SON. We are still friends and try really hard to get along and do what is best for the Monster.

If there are no kids involved, relationship is over, little to no contact is what it should be in my opinion.

Ohhhh, ideas for Lex while he heals?

Pound head against wall. It will feel better when you stop.

If you were a drinker, I would recommend drinking heavily. Alas you are not. Maybe it is time to start?

Or write, Young Man. Redo my profile while you are at it. That's it. Rewrite all our profiles!!

M

Wow...so happy people are playing along.

(((Shutter))) Miss you, Girl. Email soon? Lots to catch up on.

With my actual FWB thing with my ex, it was discussed and we made the rules as we went along.

Tameka-I agree with the thought of intimate moments with friends. Especially if there is affection there, but maybe the knowledge that a relationship would not work. Have you discussed it with those involved?

Those of you who know me, know I want to talk everything to death. And my big mouth has been known to get me in trouble.

So true.

As John Shaft asked in the Shaft remake..."Do you want the LD or do you want to be held?" The response he got was, "Maybe I want the LD then I want to be held."

Such a shame life is not like the movies!!!

Too lazy to read all the responses...

In my personal history, it means I want to break up with you, but I don't know how. Maybe if I ask for space, you will do the breaking up.

Happened to me in January. Knew in my gut it was going to happen, there was someone else, he made excuses, I called him on it, and then we were over.

As a good friend said to me, if someone says "I don't know what I want"...this means "I don't know what I want, but I know it is not YOU!" In hindsight I can see she is right.

Let us know what happens? M

Moderators, apologies in advance if this should be in the sex threads....

Anyone involved in a friends with benefits situation? How is that working for you?

Have been involved in one? How did it end?

I'll start. Did it ages ago with an ex-boyfriend. Ended because feelings were still involved and I knew we would not end up back together. Still very good friends though.

Share with me, people! The boy is in bed and I'm tired of the tv.

M

Will to, will to, will to! I already have her dress (my niece's) which is the same as mine. We are going to re-wrap them to make the bow go in back!!!

Met people from here and other sites. Went on a beach weekend with a select few. So much fun!

Storm, you better be making a road trip to Charlotte!

M

Russian bride, Comrade?

Really though, I hate it for you, Lex. Find me if you need an ear. Anything else I might say would just be a cliche.

M

Jumping in to smack Purple on the bum and send hugs to everyone else. So going to bed. Missing you all.

I answer "Ya Mon" in a Jamaican accent to piss my ex off at times.

And my fave line is..."Is that the pot calling the kettle, Mother F-er." Unless in the company of minors, then it is..."Isn't that the pot calling the kettle, dirty bottom."

Also at times I will use reponses from John Hughes movies of the 80's.

Of course, if they were everything I wanted in a person/mate size would not matter. My ex was at 320 lbs when we split and his weight had nothing to do with our split.

Nicely said, Wanttachat.

Breaking out the butt bow dress!

<<<Dancing around the living room.

Thrilled for you both! M

Isn't attacking you and loving you on in the same?

And she WILL make the drive!

If Suz is there, I will most like be, too!

Gypsy, you are a dirty girl! They are so not going to let you be in the Junior League!

Fresh...just leave for the day.

If you are in an apartment, getting him to fix something might not work since there is maintenance on site (usually). However, you can tell him you are afraid of heights and get him to change a lightbulb.

Then hit him over the head and put him in the cage! Or offer to feed him.

M

Yes, I am.

Attractive pic, Gypsy. Such the lady you are.

Warming up yet by you?

Thanks, TwoTall and Gyps...knew it was those pesky mirrors.

And there is never such a thing as too tall!!!

Dear Diary,

I am so glad Monday is over. I want donuts. Do these jeans make my bum look big?

Missed you all. What's been doing?

M