Thank you All

Overcoming is the word sister, I suppose all of us have had relationships that have either gone bad or were not good from the beginning. I think however, it is important for us to find good in them, for our own sake.
I think sometimes if we could learn to respond rather than react to situations in our lives we would be allot better off.
Our loved ones around us would be too, I am sure.
I suppose I am learning to respond to my conflicts, if I allow: it may be that my Father will use this to remove old attitudes and/or selfish motives from me... etc:: Just maybe, If I were willing to learn, a negative relationship to help bring positive change.
I have noticed allot what happens is an old hurt had surfaced having nothing to do with the present person involved, and then because of the situation we were able to realize the needed change and have a healing.
I think if I really do trust my Lord; than some pain is gain, sort of speak. I sure don't want to marry someone that is still stuck in their past hurts, I don't want to have to pay for their Ex’s sins, and nor should they have to pay for my ex’s sins. How can you find true peace when you’re walking around on eggshells being hurt/angry over another person’s past that you are now being punished for?
So I suppose What I am suggesting, is to forgive and use this as an opportunity to grow and learn how to love and be loved for who you are today. So our Lord can truly bless you with a wonderful tomorrow.
Don't get in a hurry, trust the God you believe in when you’re "both" ready to be in "unity" Than things will happen. If we get in a hurry we will more than likely really mess thing s up for us... The really sad part about that is the innocent hearts that are tagging along behind you, usually pay the higher price.
Here are some important key points that were once shared with .and really helped me.
Forgive, this does not mean to pretend that no wrong was done it means to turn loose of, send away the offence, it is not necessary to trust them again either, you‘ve counted the cost, you acknowledge the wrong, and you choose to release them through the grace given unto you through Christ. Recognize that The Holy Spirit will allow some people in our lives only for a season; they were never meant to be a permanent .The things we dislike in others may be a picture of our own soul that we haven't yet come to terms with. Negative relationships can become positive ones when we grow, adjust, and make changes in how we treat others; the person closest to us is often the most neglected make sure family is loved and cared for. This one is really important don’t do the blame game....This is a sign of immaturity so rise above accusations and a critical spirit it never helps anyone. And try to remember to understand the freedom of being delivered from people, so that you may be sent to people in purity and love.

Sorry to go on so long, but anyway..Hugs and love,
In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus the Christ

I believe that the Church will go through the Great Tribulation, I believe it is really important to be prayed up and ready dont think it will be an easy time at all it truly be a time of testing, in a way one comes to a better understanding of choose you this day whom ye will serve..." Joshua 24.15.
In the long run I kinda sorta of think it can be a time of great victory for our Lords children,so I also pray for a great end–time harvest.

I am from Tn transplanted to Fla,,
I am a Christian, and just checking things out round here, Have A good Day
God bless

hello Everyone ,

I don't think it is a bad thing to be alone I have been for years we all know there are lonly days but for the most part,it is good .