all good christian men say they want a good holdsome women but when it comes down to it they change thier mind. This goes for women too.

Maybe because to be a Christian is to acknowledge that we are capable of so much sin? I DUNNO!!!

You just have not found the right one.. The heartpounding, wavecrashing, tableshaking, sweepyou offyour feet... one yet...
Love will find you! Gods timing is perfect!... but I myself wish he would hurry!

I've heard a lot of "talk", but after spending some time with them, I wasn't seeing the "walk".....

I've gotten to a point in the past year and a half of realizing just how much God has been trying to get it thru this thick skull that HE has to be first.....

So..His timing isn't the same as mine...and I've requested that if and when He does have someone in mind for me to please drop her in my lap, because I'm not going to be paying a lot of attention and worrying about such things...

nothing is ever perfect! Ever. Like...EVER EVER.

It is indeed horrible being alone but I certainly believe that you will find the one. Just remember that it is hard because nothing is ever certain. Not only that, people change their mind often. As long as you find someone you trust and they trust you; that is all you need. In the meantime please be thankful of the loved ones you have in your life at the moment. It's a heck of alot better than being alone.

Welcome here sisnikki.

A lot of good advice here.

A very good thought from bluesummers23, one we can all
do with remembering at various times in our life.

We are certainly blessed when we have family, friends, and
the people that the Lord blesses us with in our lives.

*G* I heartily concur!

The last two (supposedly) Christian men I almost dated turned out to be complete sleaze--one was arrested a year later for going to meet up with a 13 year old to have sex with her and he was 29. xp

I would like to know the same question why? I am a Christian, and I would like to meet a Nice Christian Guy, but i don't someone that is only a christian in church and not out, let me see the walk and talk.

But for me right now I have met someone that is a christian from day light to sun down, and he is a tru gentleman, he is kind, he is loving, he patient, he is not like some christian guy that i have meet before all they want is to touch and I don't like people touching me, if am not into you..

By their fruits you will know them.
Matthew 7 [15] Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.
[16] Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?
[17] Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit.
[18] A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.
[19] Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire.
[20] Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.

What's in your heart always comes out.
Matthew 12 [33] Either make the tree good, and his fruit good; or else make the tree corrupt, and his fruit corrupt: for the tree is known by his fruit.
[34] O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
[35] A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things.
[36] But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
[37] For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.


Just a few things to look for in a GODLY man. Will he be perfect...no...only One is perfect our Lord Jesus Christ, but HE WILL seek to do His will DAILY and set himself apart from this world...for we are in this world NOT OF IT!

EVER EVER?

Hi all; I have been divorced now for 10 years. I have yet to meet a good Christian man of whom to wed. However, I have tried and failed, I will continue on. And in doing so, I have gone to scripture to capture the "essence of a Christian man". One verse comes to my mind and here it is;

2 Cor. 6:14-18--"Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial (Satan)? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement has the Temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said, "I will dwell in them, and walk among them. I will be their God, and they shall be My people." Therefore, come out from among them and be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, and I will receive you. I will be a Father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty." Amen

To Outdoors, was on another site yesterday, going thru the forums. One question caught my attention: what do women expect from a man. My reply was simple...that God was first in his life. Could not believe the repost that if God was first in my life and my mates life, then that made me an adultress and asked how God felt about that. Tried to explain that for true Christians God is always first. I am glad to hear that there are still men out there that feel the same way I believe. Thank you.

This is what I have been asking. I am new to the dating scene after an 18 year abusive marriage. I have been on this site and others which are Christian and the profiles read seeking Christian female who truly loves the Lord and when you reply they sometimes don't respond Godly. If a Christian man is looking for a "christian" in name only then he may pass on me. I write how I speak, which makes many references to God and the Word, but many men don't seem to like that. Its odd, they ask for it but turn around and think you are Bible thumping. But I won't change who I am or stop talking about God, I prefer to find a REAL Christian man who is like-minded who enjoy talking about God and the Bible. Maybe one day he will come. I am waiting on God this time and not "choosing" on my own.

Probably because this site is plastered with pornographic images of beautiful women advertising Adult Friend Finder, etc. Men see those images and start thinking stupid. Trust me, I'm a guy!:)

Do you only date black men since you are black??

WONDERFUL POST!!

Becuz all the christians got Raptured

there really is a shortage of christian singles groups.



some churches seem to have them for 20 somethings (young adult

groups, actually) but few have anything for those 30 and up,

divorced-widowed-never married.

Greetings to all christian in the house especially to those whose desires and reason for joining the house is to meet christian singles who are god fearing,faithful,kind and loving.we are waiting for god time the best