kahlei: Oh, no. I have 2 cats! But I don't like one of them. So can I
say I have only 1???

uk1971: Your cat defecates in mid-air?

I think that is called an animal hoarder

Sure. But you know, on some dating sites, guys make it quite clear they
want someone attractive ("thin"). Now, I am a woman, so I am not
checking out the ladies' profiles. Maybe they say the same thing. Did
you hear about that dating site you have to audition for? You have to
send in a photo, and they accept you or reject you based on whether or
not you are good looking enough to be on their premiere site. Nasty.

I just think they are flakey.

Bug off. I got something going here. JUST KIDDING!

Aw, he is saving you from the bugs! Good kitty!

aredrosebaby: Or, three strikes and you're out!

Evidently, I was born to be underwhelmed.

I do not have a huge fish head on top of my body. Down, boy!

Like there is an intruder in the house, or a murderer ready to leap at
me from behind. I love cats, but they can drive you nuts.

Write me! Let's see what ya got! (This was a bigger hook than you
though!)

Well, did anyone ever write you? Was it lame?

Now that I have the men's attention, lol! Guys, what gets your attention
when a girl e-mails you for the first time, to introduce herself. I feel
like if you write too much, frankly it is a waste of time, because
sooooooooooooooo many people will not reply (this has been my experience
on match.com, local newspaper personal ads, myspace--yes!!! I am leaving
no stone unturned! ) I try to be brief, a sentence or two about
something in the person's profile. I just don't know if that is weird or
not.

Wolfspirit, most people disagreed with me, but that is not what you are
seeing. I don't truly believe it when people say stuff just "happened"
in their marriage. I thing *they* believe what they are saying, but I
think the problem that broke them up, it was there all along and no one
wanted to face it until it got so bad it couldn't be ignored any more. I
feel like people just shrug it off, "something happened," instead of
admitting they married in poor judgement.

It might sound like I don't believe in marriage, but I really do, and I
take it so seriously that I am not willing to take another chance on
watching another marriage down the drain. I think once you are older,
and once you both have had your kids, what is the point in getting
married? Just agree to keep what you go into the relationship with. .
.for sure, no one is getting his hands on my house!

I kept getting cavities between teeth. Fillings *were* $40 a piece, now
they are probably $140. You better believe I floss every
morning!

It's not *bad*. I am just a very, very quiet person who lives a very,
very quiet life. Some people might think that is boring, but I don't
think it is.

So, damnitscloudy, you returning to work soaking wet is not an unusual
situation? That is different!

I am beginning to think I am a little too different,