Okay, just checkin', I'm going to bed. Night.

You should wait until you're really sure you love the person, are not
just "in love," have seen their good and bad sides, have had fights and
made up. If you have sex too soon, the other aspects of your
relationship might not have time to develop as deeply as they would
have, had you not just gone for the physical.

They tried. We slaughtered them.

millsdd: I saw you looked at my profile. YOu want me, don't you.

Absolutely! It's one of the great joys in life. LIve a little!

Right before 9/11, Bush was gonna open the borders.

What decade are you living in? I am in the year 2007. Biracial? Try
triracial, quadriracial. And why don't these people fit into either
world? Because of the bigots. These bigots will understand we will not
allow their hatred to keep us from living our lives and bringing
children into families out of love.

"Bi-racial children often don't fit into either
world."

The haves are so afraid the have-nots are going to get something. The
have-nots wish!

Let me tell you, millsdd, I worked in an ER for 3 years. Never saw an
illegal mexican immigrant come in and screw the system for health care
(and we have a lot of legal and illegals here in MO, with the
agricultural crops). Saw lots and lots of lazy white americans come in
for colds, broken toenails, their car was broken so they called an
ambulance even tho' it wasn't an emergency. That's who is taking your
healthcare dollars, your neighbor. Don't kid yourself.

It's like iam4u said, tell him to kiss your big virgin ass! You don't
need that. Look at it this way--the universe is trying to clear a path
for you, to lead you to the right man, by getting these jerks out of the
way. Hon, I am 46, and if I guy broke up with me because I wasn't ready
to have sex with him, I would laugh so hard, I don't know what.

Vague, like, what do you think of women who act in porn movies. Bibby
knows.

That's okay, bibby doesn't like me, either. This editorial was a
thinly veiled effort to rouse racism against Mexicans. That's all it is
and all it is good for. It stinks.

Sounds like you had a conflict in your relationship that both of you
could not come to terms with, whether it was a mental, physical,
personal problem. I don't think it is fair for her to blame you, that
there is something wrong with you because you couldn't handle it. That's
your limit. You know that. That's good that you know your limit and get
out before either of you suffer any more. Just because it is a problem
she may not have control over doesn't mean you have to accept it and
live with it.

I don't think you need to pick on people because they don't speak
English. Who was it in your family who first came to this country? Did
they speak fluent English? My family spoke german, romanian, and
spanish. And you know, it doesn't have to be an all or nothing proposal,
open borders or slammed shut. That is the fault in your argument.
There's nothing in there that allows for moderation. In the time it took
the author to write that "editorial," maybe she could have actually done
some good in this world instead of rallying people one side against the
other. That doesn't help anyone.

I would like to see people working to include everyone, not get worked
up and self-rightious about excluding people. And who was it again who
invited us to this country to begin with?

And I think this belongs on the politics board, not general discussion.

I have to disagree, seeing that half the population in the US is
functionally illiterate. I'm serious. I had to call the manager at
Wal-Mart about a disagreement, and she seemed to me to be a middle class
caucasian woman, and even she could not say one sentence that was
gramatically correct. Not to mention the misspellings and punctuation
errors you see where ever you go, and the internet, forget it. My
ex-husband made over $65,000/year and could not write a sentence that
had correct grammar, spelling, and punctuation. I think people need to
spend more time looking at themselves instead of pointing their fingers
and saying, "No, *you* learn English!" Why don't they learn it first
themselves?

Free massages for everyone! Except the guy who said nothing hurts.

Geez, do they have to be lactating or something?

"I like it hot sweet and milky. Just like a woman"

Besides my will to live? My neck and wrists.