What do I miss? Hmmm...


dirty clothes all over the floor

empty beer cans everywhere, stacked up by the bed

overflowing ashtrays

worrying about paying the bills

what else, mmm...

trying to figure out why he's pissed off at me, when I should be pissed
off at him

cooking dinners that don't get eaten

getting *****ed at when I don't cook

getting blamed for everything, when something breaks or wears out, when
anything goes wrong




Nope, don't miss any of it. I do miss the man he used to be, the friend
that he was, the support he used to be when I needed him. It all changed
so gradually, it was like it happened when I wasn't looking, one day I
woke up and was living with a stranger. I hope he finds happiness, but I
couldn't give it to him, he didn't want it. The only reason he wanted me
around is cause misery loves company. I got tired of being miserable.

It can't happen. You can have sex with more than one person, but not an
intimate relationship with more. Intimacy means sharing all of yourself
with aonther, and you can't give your all if there's more than one
you're giving to.

I musta missed something too, cause I thought we were all getting along
pretty well. I've posted to a bunch of threads with oldtimers and made
to feel welcome, only once or twice have I been ignored, and that's
gonna happen anywhere, however long you've been there, so it doesn't
bother me any.

If anyone feels pushed aside, sorry, just jump right in, that's the only
way to get to know new people. I mean, isn't that why we're here?


Cheers!

Welcome to the new sandbox Rob. Hi!

Ah c'mon Suzy, we can make it a triple date!

No, it doesn't scare me, but I don't wanna hear it unless you mean it,
and I don't say it unless I mean it.

When I say I love you, it means I accept you unconditionally, and love
you for everything you are. And I really can't say that to everybody.

I've met a few, then met my love, so I would say it's worked out really
good for me!

I've met lots of good friends too, that's why I'm still here. Ya can
never have too many friends!

Talk, email, communicate as much as you can. Be yourself, be honest,
then when you do meet it'll just be an extension of what you're already
doing.

Just my opinion, but I wouldn't wanna hear a lot of I love you talk
before you even meet. That would've scared me to death! As is was, we
fell in love as soon as we met, cause we already knew each other pretty
well, but till you actually meet in person, you can't really know if
it's really love or just infatuation.

Just my experience with it, and I'm just me, not everyone's the same.
Good luck!

You were just more mature than them Lex, and some boys never grow up, ya
know what I mean.

Trying to get the caffiene buzz to wear off, I was about to fall asleep
at work. One more oughta do it!

I lost my first bf in 5th grade because I started wearing glasses. He
was an sob anyway, I just didn't know that term back then.

Since then I've never had any complaints! Put up a pic with my glasses
on so y'all could see em.

Ya do now Evad, mix me one with OJ.

Are ya kidding me, my daughter's not even a child of the 80's. I was
dancing disco with permed hair before you were even thought of!


What the heck am I laughing about??

Awww, good night Eileena, sorry you missed me

Just made it home from work. Let's get the party started!

Ya scared me Stef, I thought you'd passed out before I even made it to
the party.

I've got some catching up to do it seems. Gimme a triple!


Oops, that's 6, ok, that'll work!

Well hey Angel, we're fine, how're you? Welcome to JSH. Hi!

Welcome Pommer and Guera, not sure what you mean by spam someone. If you
mean send them an unsolicited message, that's ok, I mean that's kinda
what this place is for! If they want to talk they'll write back, if not,
don't take it personally, ya can't catch every fish you cast at. Anyway,
hi!

Welcome, this is a great place to meet friends. Hi!

Welcome jbean, it that doesn't stand for jelly bean, well it does now!
Hi!