i thought you left?



i give up...

gonna retire to most haunted and maybe, hopefully get a good nights
sleep...

HEH!

Okaaayyyy...

DARE!

Make my rebel mind change.... MUUhaahahahahahaaaa

LOL!

all set for Friday night woman stroll? omg

oh, reeeaaallllyyyy?

heh heh heh... is this a DARE situation? Hmmmm?

Was just funny to see when i came in thread...

reminds me of the drawn faces you and lisa did awhile back...

there's no need for that kind of meanness..OP.

but, yeah, people can be nasty, and ignorant...

I've seen fighting...lol.

But,not here. Maybe some back and forth stuff, but nothing like
fighting.. it happens...

Maybe I'm fighting blind?

Luis!

holy friggin hell, you!

I lost you here somewhere. sorry

good to see ya, hon.

kim, LMAO! was funny. yeah, i can do the cartoon thing in psp...

I must have fallen, or something... I haven't seen fighting?

but... I'm a rebel...

I would love to have a mac!

would have to learn another system, but yup... would love one...

I also love my laptop... pc, heh.

eeeh heememm...

kim. aren't the mustache and shades old school disguise?

LMAO!

oh!

I don't stay there...

I just get a new chance to stumble my ass around every day.

hiya you!

you got it.

I see it all the time, too.

I have zero tolerance for folks whom do this, too.

I was very fortunate to have things taken care of, and him not fighting
in court. He was told some things by the judge he didn't want to hear...
so, he was very hard to deal with afterwards At least until he got his
mind off us and into his new marraige, lol.

Terrible as it is, they both effectively got rid of both kids...

I still think they deserve to know him. if it isn't the ideal, that's ok
too. they're old enough to make choices... and, I remember having none
as a child, so I wouldn't do that to them.

Now, that doesn't mean I don't feel like kicking his ass at times...

<<<fool's gold here, LMAO!

all fumbling...

who has it all together?

you're luck, pucks...

far as my situation goes, there is no getting along. he's nowhere near
adult, or responsible... and when crossed violent.

I will not fight with him. And, he as temper tantrums when he doesn't
get his way...

there came a day when he was violent a few years back, and I caught
myself telling the kids (17 and 13) at the time... "I duuno. Dad is not
okay right now, and he is having problems..." when they cried, and asked
why Dad was being so mean...

I then saw they SEE how I allowed him to be that way, and explained it
away...

How could they feel okay in an atmosphere like that when the only person
they could turn to was Me, and I made excuses for his violence.

Wake up call.

I still did try and do all the right thngs.

It doesn't always work.

evening...and, mornin' to some...

Babs, and Lene! YAY!

well, was having a girls night 'til the bf called. Thin I'm getting used
to being ditched.

Rainy and so raw here... have my Most Haunted discs out, smiling with
glee trying to choose which, or ALL to watch...heh.

make a god night, everyone...

and,

I see the donut tease has been here AGAIN! {=oD

that's what I did for both mine...

it's also important to have family help, too. But, when the child gets
thier own outlet... parents must remember they cannot know what is being
said. So, the child can be reassured that anything they say, or vent is
left with the counsilor. the parent has no rights to it at all. as it
should be.

I did find the counsilors i worked with to be good. individual, and
combined...

If I recall, there were contracts made through court, too.

I agree. there's a time for coddling, and a time for raw truth...

Eileena,

Just be ready to tkae on even the social worker, if you feel the need
to. It can be done.

I know how draining it all is, and the last thing you want to do is have
to explain all things...

But, if you want proper help, could ya detail a bit more? I would
appreciate that.

Had to fight the system with my daughter when some folks tok it upon
themselves to make her "a cause". I damned near lost her due to the
corrupt system here...

But, it can be done.

Also, I know how had it is to see your babies become unrecognisable.
breaks your heart.

You can't do anything about her Dad... this I am dealing with first hand
right now. Understanding the pain a child has when they feel unwanted...

Sorry I come off as a bit harsh. It's nothing personal, just they way I
deal with things...