a carrot, nusalor?
omg LMAO!

OP

since I don't know you, I dunno why the need to post about how unfit, or
not, the mother is.

Sorta puts the sand in the craw, so to speak.

My first thought is, AWWWW! gotta raise your kids? damned shame ain't
it?

Second thought, is... so your looking for someone to take care of them
for free... like a cow?

Third thought... ok, maybe you're lonely, and it's hard to date with
kids...

Tell truth, I am still having a hard time with the third, more tolerant
thought.

think it's about time the rest of society went to bed together... hell,
why just a few select?

what if, huh?

and, I can't knit

guns?

f*ck that.
lets go back and back.

give a guy a big stick, and his brain.

then let them go for it, I say. guns.. cheating crap.

so true!

hehehehe

I wrote something down, too.

So write it. then demand he bow to your very presence. Be thankful to
you for allowing him to be inside your space and love it.

Because he's diggin' a deep one, there.

Oh hell, he and I would not get along, LMAO!

heh

I don't consider myself boxed by anything... am a citizen of he
earth...so, no matter where I go, I am...

no cliche intended

I just go off on one... LMAO!

course that applies to rambling, and talking to myself, too...

I haven't tried this one. But, it has filters and add ons... like gimp.

Also, you can find plugins... for gimp at deviant art. there's alot of
options for ya.

http://photofiltre.free.fr/utilitaires/photofiltre_en.htm

have fun creating!

woop

another, lol.

http://www.freeserifsoftware.com/

http://graphicssoft.about.com/cs/imageediting/tp/freephotoedw.htm

a list of free photo editors...

I will check, but my first one was actually a program used for anime
art.

I began painting in the program as an alternative to offline.

My kids are both artists too, so I couldn't afford anything for me,
LOL!.

http://services.snipshot.com

http://www.wiredness.com/

luck to ya, and have fun!

there are a number of free online photo editors, and graphics sites.
I found and used them before I got psp...

http://www.picnik.com/

http://www.myimager.com/

others, too...

gimp is great.

Dana,

hope your thoughts are lighter, hon.

Joanie!

so god to see you!

one thing I have learned is when to be honest with myself vs. my ideas
of what I think should be...this is a hard one, but the world being
built upon crumbly ideals,and reality being the opposite, yes?

I am who I am...damage, scars, and nuts and all... offline..the same. I
refuse to put on the face of social accpetance any longer... so this
narrows my feild. it's a truth, and I have accepted it.
Stop me from dreams? hell no!
But does help put things in a better prospective. No expectations...

light to ya!

LMAO!

one day... I will moped my way... wizzzz! through the streets, and
leave them in the dust, omg, LOLOL!

msteddybear,

nice to see ya... and, yes, it can be difficult.

I have the fibro as a nasty aside...consequences of holding myself
wrong, or stiff because of the lupus and rheumatoid pain... lovely cycle
it all is...

One of the most difficult things for me was admitting my body could not
do the things I had done before...so, I fought it. Worked through the
pain, fatigue, rashes...

Was bad news. And, I did this for years. My family was abusive,and my ex
made me do things even when I was in a ball crying...
So, I did damage.
Part of my pride was so very false. Brainwashing into believing the crap
drilled into my brain.
Then, finally I pushed too far. And, had to do some serious thinking to
myself, and be truthful...

I'm glad you spoke up=o)

be well...

scouser, damn. using the fibro thread to hit on folks. ohhhhh! the
shame

well hope you're getting help for suicidal thoughts...

for the thread topic... yeah. I have to make myself come out...
sometimes too soon, and little patience for things, lol. too much input,
too soon...

dana,

just remember it takes time. you are all you need... then, go for the
wants, heh.

hey you...

Going through the long process of ptsd now..and, I hide, LOL!

Don't worry if noone sees you. What you see counts most.

=0)

hell, its blown so far out of proportion it's rediculous, LMAO!

common sense. wow, a new concept, or what?

on the sarcastic side, glad we know where all the pervs are at home, eh?
The rest of the world must be safe, then?

man, sounds awful!

I just go by the advice I was given here in NH... Of course there was no
paternity involved. Sorry.

I was granted full custody when the ex abandoned us...

I went to womens' crisis and was advised to file first. Court look upon
it more favorably when the parent takes care of things in a timely
manner, and done to the best of thier ability.

It doesn't matter that she has the kids now. If he decides to make
things hard, he can.

Cover your ass, get the child taken care, of, and make it all legal.