My boyfriend has recently stated that women should be silent and obey
the man, when in a relationship. We have been together for going on 8
months and have lived together four months of that time. This is a new
attidude for him. He said it is written somewhere that this how things
should be. Can anyone tell me where it is written and how to deal with
this change in him???Beside just leaving??

Make him go to counseling or leave his azzzzzzzzzzz

sounds like s&m to me...

i think that is what it is called..... anyhow like when
the guy is the master...

when ya get a colar for xmas or your bday then id worry

my ex did the same thing once we got married and it caused constant
arguement till the divorce.
I would tell him relationships are based on mutual respect and
communication and that you are looking for an adult relationship not a
father.
If he persists in his attitude get out because it only gets worse.

SOunds like someones been watching "Divorce Court"


Yall see it? On fox? Yep....good stuff I tell ya.

huh?

<-------Scratching head?

Don't know your boyfriend but uh....

Can you say Jackass

Sorry

Never will understand that one

i watch tv upsidedown everthing is different now

I couldn't, in good conscience, advise you in this, but to leave him.

Maybe it is written in some old scripture and he is interpreting it to
his convenience.

Maybe he has taken to reading or meeting with people of different
believes. I suggest that you talk to him, and see where is he coming
from, and how strongly he wants to enforce this. Now, you are not his
wife, although living with him as a concubine.

By not ascerting your rights as a proper wife, he cannot ascert his
rights a a husband, thus, he cannot demand from you silence and blind
obedience. In any case, it is for you to decide how you want to live.
Maybe you can find the part were it says that he has to be faithful and
honor his one and only woman, that respects and obeys him.

See how he likes to go to work and come back home to worship a silent,
obedient woman. And no friends, or boys night out.

Just my very humble opinion. Wish you luck.

seen it..i've lived it

Look up ancient marriage vows, you might find it there

according to the bible back in the day the man was the head and his wife
was to honor and obey him


however that was of cource back in the day ..

today .. we are consider equals pretty much and a relationship isnt
about what you can gain or get its about what you can give

thanx inviz - I actually did that yesterday and the only religion that
has those words in marriage vows is muslium and he is catholic

Yes but he was also supposed to treat her like a church too!
which means to worship and treat her well...

Yes but he was also supposed to treat her like a church too!
which means to worship and treat her well...

Control issues. You're not a dog on a leash so don't let anyone treat
you that way.

catholic does too but you can leave it out.but since you are his
girlfriend tell him to go pound sand

if he is so churchy anyway why is he living in sin? i mean u said he was
your boyfriend.. and after only 4 months of dating you moved in with
him...after u live with someone the realness comes out and trust me if
its like that it will get worse!!! u choose to live with it... or not to
live with it... gl

amen buttons.tell loverboy to go piss up a rope.