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Hello?
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I never understand Mr. Scorpio's threads
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Sight unseen
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? You can fall in love without having physically met them and be wrong once you get to be face to face as you can fall in love when you meet physically and then see you were wrong after you talked to them. Love is a feeling not a physical thing someones brain and ideas can be all you need to fall in love, the physical part is only for sensation touching sex and so on and some will only base their feeling on those aspect others will try the whole package while some only care if they think alike. So to each is own but yes you can fall in love even if you never met in person. I disagree. How can you truly know someone, when, IMO, love is of the mind, body, & soul? You are loving the "idea" of love. We all feel that at some point. But is is not lasting. How can it be? It is an "idea", brought on by perceptions and not based in reality. It is like saying, I love George Clooney. It is your "belief" that you love him, but that is an illusion. You may lust after him, base on your perception of who his is, but perceptions change all the time, based on more information. The physical is not only about sex, it is about the connection through sight, touch, and all of your senses. To define the physical based only on sex is one dimensional, and naive. I think I'm with my bootilicious buddy Buttah...if you haven't yet met, how might "pheromones" be allowed to work between you? 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pheromones (scroll down to "Human" please, unless you want to be compared to a sow, sea urchin, or Japanese beetles!) 
There's even a song which had been written about pheromones, likely before such a phenomena had even been suggested: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNC0kIzM1Fo 
thank you baby  
btw, I am really a Leatherback turtle |
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Sight unseen
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Yes it is though Buttah What you are saying...is you need to see someone for "love" to be legit? That would bring up all kinds of things Like saying blind people cant fall in love. But on THAT note I'm going to watch football Bye Buttah 
No no no, reread my previous post about all the senses. It is the connection when meeting. |
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Sight unseen
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I dont understand the question.. are you implying that in order to love someone you must have physically met in person? How long have you been talking to said individual? this is actually not about me, although I am very curious. Of course I am implying that you have to physically meet someone to be IN love with them. Oh I see, thank you. Well in my experience I have fallen in love with someone who lived in another country, had a long distance relationship, and married them. yes I believe it is possible.. do I reccomend allowing yourself this.. Big fat NO. So, how long did the long distance relationship go one before you married them? Did you meet them once and say, lets get married? How long did the married last? Sorry if too personal, I am just curious about this. |
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Sight unseen
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Eh I getcha... But, tell ya what Buttah? I think, maybe what Alzhiemer and I are getting at is this: and sorry Alzhiemer if I am wrong LOVE? Well love is soooooo hard to find, since it really isn't "real" anyways.... If you wanna talk to someone far away, via typing or chatting or calling or whatever.....Go for it...Cuz being happy is what matters Love? I mean, seriously...Love is like a rubix cube. Its impossible to figure out and if you do...nobody would believe you anyways I'm not saying that chatting and believing you are in love is a bad thing. I am saying it is not based in reality. I think if you believe you love someone from chatting, then do what you think is right. I don't care what a person does, actually. It is just a topic for discussion or feedback and reflection, that is all. Now, call me so we can get that lovin feelin from phone sex
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Sight unseen
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Ya but Buttah How can you say your love for a "person" is true just because you have met them? You mean you justify that bc you say by meeting someone you "know who they are"? I don't understand what you're getting at Let me explain. It is not that you will love the person when you meet them, but it is the only way, IMO, that you will know whether you do or don't. You cannot know by chatting or phone calls. |
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Sight unseen
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? You can fall in love without having physically met them and be wrong once you get to be face to face as you can fall in love when you meet physically and then see you were wrong after you talked to them. Love is a feeling not a physical thing someones brain and ideas can be all you need to fall in love, the physical part is only for sensation touching sex and so on and some will only base their feeling on those aspect others will try the whole package while some only care if they think alike. So to each is own but yes you can fall in love even if you never met in person. I disagree. How can you truly know someone, when, IMO, love is of the mind, body, & soul? You are loving the "idea" of love. We all feel that at some point. But is is not lasting. How can it be? It is an "idea", brought on by perceptions and not based in reality. It is like saying, I love George Clooney. It is your "belief" that you love him, but that is an illusion. You may lust after him, base on your perception of who his is, but perceptions change all the time, based on more information. The physical is not only about sex, it is about the connection through sight, touch, and all of your senses. To define the physical based only on sex is one dimensional, and naive. |
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Sight unseen
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I dont understand the question.. are you implying that in order to love someone you must have physically met in person? How long have you been talking to said individual? this is actually not about me, although I am very curious. Of course I am implying that you have to physically meet someone to be IN love with them. |
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Sight unseen
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them? Buttah
 
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Sight unseen
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I have chatted with someone for a while and really liked him. Then I talked with him and, well, I felt the opposite. So, I wonder, if you are chatting and calling someone, then finally meet them, would that change everything? If it changes from chat to talk, does it change from talk to meet? hmmm Ohhhh yeah it can change for sure... Not always but most of the time it does.. Or when you meet them and they're not who or what they had portrayed.. I've seen that a lot online.... So, I guess Cambo said it best...Faux-love....it is an illusion created through hope and desire, which I believe as well. |
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finding that right one.
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They're better than all the rest. Everything is easy and comfortable. they mayy annoy you from time to time, but you have to get used to that. They aren't going to change. So, are you saying I annoy you? Was it the chicken?? 
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finding that right one.
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How do you know if you have found the right person? the one thing I know is that if you ask the question, they are not the right person. |
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Sight unseen
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I have chatted with someone for a while and really liked him. Then I talked with him and, well, I felt the opposite. So, I wonder, if you are chatting and calling someone, then finally meet them, would that change everything? If it changes from chat to talk, does it change from talk to meet? hmmm
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Sight unseen
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I believe that you can "believe" it but you won't know until you meet them.. Meeting changes things.... I agree |
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Sight unseen
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yes, I do believe you can really? do tell How? You fall in love with your perception of who you believe this person to be? |
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Sight unseen
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Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them?
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Completely Orgasmic
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Sushi, I could eat it everyday
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Sometimes...
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Sometimes I get really depressed, and I don't really know why. I mean, I know that I have bills to pay, that the next debt is just around the corner, but that's not it, well at least not all of it. I have 3 jobs, one of them I love, but I only work a couple of days a week, if that, one that I hate, and it's my full time, I'm more at work there then anywhere else. And the third I haven't started yet, so I don't know how that will pan out. I don't have many friends. I'm new in my area, the one friend I have, I'm afraid I'm smothering him. I enjoy hanging out with him, and I feel like when something important in my life happens, I have to share it with him, but I'm thinking that he doesn't feel the same way, he's probably annoyed by me. I don't mean to be annoying, I just have no one else to talk to, and I know that's not fair for him, I just don't know how to make friends on my own. I literally grew up with all of my friends,or met them in college, which is the easiest way to make friends, but they are thousands of miles away. He's a great friend though. Helps me out with so much, and he's very intelligent. But there's a tension going on lately, there was a misunderstanding with a common "friend", and now I feel like I'm walking on a tight rope that is 5 miles long, and I'm about to fall any minute. I want to make things right, but don't know how. I could move back to my original home in MI, but that would accomplish nothing, and I have a career here, even though I hate it. I'm doing well for the first time in my life, I'm responsible, have my own place, etc... But I feel like there is something missing. I don't think it's a man, whenever I think about dating, I think it's too much hassle. This is my rant, thank you for listening. We all go through stages in our lives, and this may be one of yours. You are "growing up". You do need someone to talk to that will make the transition easier. Maybe even talking to a counselor to get your feelings out, and that will help your friendship as well. Good luck to you hun. I think you will come out of this just fine.
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What is the one thing...
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...That a person could say to you to make you lose interest and stop talkin to them? "move in with me" 
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Compatible Astrology Signs
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SCORPIO can merge swimmingly with other Water signs Cancer and Pisces. But Scorpio will need to learn true emotional revelation to win the heart of either of these two sensitive souls. The Scorpio-Taurus match creates a duo with the power to build an empire. The Scorpio-Scorpio couple has to fight (literally) to keep from imploding, but they can work out most things in the bedroom.
any woman scorpios around? Taurus? 
Scorpio. We would kill each other!!
buttah he's a little hottie too... 
He is delicious!! Being a Scorpio, I have met male Scorpio's and it is like someone threw gasoline and lit it up!! I think, literally, we would die, but what a way to go!!!
I find I am very compatible with Aries men, for some reason. :) |
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