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Topic: Sight unseen
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Sat 09/12/09 06:33 PM
Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them?

ledi180's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:34 PM
My answer is NOPE,I don't think that's possible flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:34 PM
yes, I do believe you can

Cambolaya65's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:35 PM
Faux-love....it is an illusion created through hope and desire.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:35 PM
I believe that you can "believe" it but you won't know until you meet them.. Meeting changes things....

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Sat 09/12/09 06:36 PM

yes, I do believe you can


really? do tell

How? You fall in love with your perception of who you believe this person to be?

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Sat 09/12/09 06:36 PM

I believe that you can "believe" it but you won't know until you meet them.. Meeting changes things....


I agree

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:37 PM


yes, I do believe you can


really? do tell

How? You fall in love with your perception of who you believe this person to be?


I'll email ya...slaphead

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Sat 09/12/09 06:38 PM

Faux-love....it is an illusion created through hope and desire.


Indeed. Now loving someone as a friend...sure you can do that. But being IN LOVE no way. You need real time experience to determine that.

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:39 PM
I don't think you can truly love someone until you meet them and actually spend time with them.

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Sat 09/12/09 06:40 PM
I have chatted with someone for a while and really liked him. Then I talked with him and, well, I felt the opposite. So, I wonder, if you are chatting and calling someone, then finally meet them, would that change everything? If it changes from chat to talk, does it change from talk to meet? hmmm

LewisW123's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:41 PM

Faux-love....it is an illusion created through hope and desire.


I agree.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:48 PM

I have chatted with someone for a while and really liked him. Then I talked with him and, well, I felt the opposite. So, I wonder, if you are chatting and calling someone, then finally meet them, would that change everything? If it changes from chat to talk, does it change from talk to meet? hmmm


Ohhhh yeah it can change for sure... Not always but most of the time it does.. Or when you meet them and they're not who or what they had portrayed.. I've seen that a lot online....

jessehodgejr's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:49 PM
what do you mean some one you never even talked 2 or never seen in person

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Sat 09/12/09 06:50 PM


I have chatted with someone for a while and really liked him. Then I talked with him and, well, I felt the opposite. So, I wonder, if you are chatting and calling someone, then finally meet them, would that change everything? If it changes from chat to talk, does it change from talk to meet? hmmm


Ohhhh yeah it can change for sure... Not always but most of the time it does.. Or when you meet them and they're not who or what they had portrayed.. I've seen that a lot online....


So, I guess Cambo said it best...Faux-love....it is an illusion created through hope and desire, which I believe as well.

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:54 PM
You fall in love with who you think they are.

cityblues21's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:56 PM


I have chatted with someone for a while and really liked him. Then I talked with him and, well, I felt the opposite. So, I wonder, if you are chatting and calling someone, then finally meet them, would that change everything? If it changes from chat to talk, does it change from talk to meet? hmmm


Ohhhh yeah it can change for sure... Not always but most of the time it does.. Or when you meet them and they're not who or what they had portrayed.. I've seen that a lot online....


Well, suppose they ARE who they said they were, and they were exactly as they had portrayed themselves, even more so ... and you had feelings before the meeting... because of the chats, the phone calls, the connection, etc.? This only emphasizes one's feelings even more to find out they are what you had originally believed and thought to begin with. Not everyone is into embellishing themselves or their profiles... thank goodness...flowerforyou

Cambolaya65's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:57 PM
Be it love or faux-love just get some for cryin' out loud.


(more of a typical Cambo response)

laugh

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 09/12/09 06:59 PM

Be it love or faux-love just get some for cryin' out loud.


(more of a typical Cambo response)

laugh


yeah, probably right..just get it over with

whoa :laughing:

burgundybry's photo
Sat 09/12/09 07:00 PM

Do you believe you can love someone you've never met? Is this even possible? If so, how? Have you chatted with someone and believed that you loved them?


I'm sure she's out there....somewhere....perhaps not in this lifetime though...(sigh), ever onward, ever upward..who knows what tomorrow will bring?flowerforyou

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