I don't expect squat.

Don't know, haven't met anyone yet. But I would expect them to be nice and a little nervous, like me.

1. I expect they will not show up.
2. If they say they don't drink, they will be sloshed.
3. Their description can be expected to be somewhat *inaccurate*.
4. They will bring their computer.
5. They will text and chat online and drink coffee instead of
having a conversation.
6. They will think the date went GREAT.
7. You can ignore 2-6 because they didn't show up.
8. They will email you tomorrow.

and you will always have my full respect, and admiration, with friendship....thankyou!

Well, so far I have been on mingle for a while now but I have yet to actually meet anyone. What surprises me even more is that I have yet to really get past the luke warm emails or even worst scammers. Now I am really curious, Am I total bastard or what?

I am curious! Now I know I am not advocating driving around squashing little animals or trying to form a group of Manson like nutbags, I am not a cultist or religiously affiliated especially to the extreme where "I love Jesus" or even more extreme a Zealot. I sure have not been spitting on people. I know I am an EOO (Equal Opportunity Offender, I piss everyone off at some time or another without regard to race creed sex etc.).

So what is it going to take to actually begin to meet women here? Wrap myself in $100 bills and tell everyone I am Bill Gates? God for as rich as he is he is still a total CHOAD! I'd rather be poor and have a good personality and get along with people!

So WTF! What exactly am I doing wrong? Who the heck did I piss off?










This has been my morning rant. Thank you for your patronage. IN advance I also thank those of you for playing your tiny violins for me. All sympathy appreciated. All snide comments even more appreciated!

well, i can't do that, for i'm taken, but i'd gladly and humbly accept your friendship with high honor! (bows respectively)

In your profile:

you may want to tell people a little more than that, for it may leave the wrong impression that you might be lazy in a relationship, and don't want to write very much. take the time to do it anyway, for it is a reflection back on you, and don't you want to attract like minds? you are constantly learning on this site, and finding out more what you want from a person, don't you want them to realize it? i think so, for you are trying to find out.... but you already know you can do it.....don't you.... you like reading more, rather than less about the people that you see on here, for it entices you....well, entice them, and give something for them to think about.

check out some of the people with higher posting numbers and check out their profiles, and see what they're doing, then use your own creativity to make one that is truly uniquely you. you want what's best for you, so show them that you are the best in return. learn from everyone here, and wisdom will come in great gulps, instead of little sips......good luck on here

How to get ladies interested:

everything matters, what he says, what he does, if he's respectful, how he carries himself, how confident he is, how his hygiene is, and smells good. what effort he makes to look the best he can. mystery does play a role into it, but not games. always tell the truth, and don't suck up, but be a friend, be strong, be romantic, but not sappy, and keep things interesting always, but appropriate for the occasion, not too many suprizes, and relax, be easy-going, and be the best of who you can be without ego problems, and always work on being comfortable with who you are.... not advice by any means, but a fraction of humbling life experience, if one may.......good luck! it takes a lifetime to perfect, and by the time you're ready, you're too old!!! have fun!!!

I can see two reasons I'd have to leave you living alone.
1. You are almost young enough to be my Granddaughter.
2. You live in another country.

You'll do fine, young lady. Just figgure out why you attract and/or are attracted to the type of men you eventually have prblems with.

When you do that, you can avoid the attraction.

A lot of girls are here looking for compliments on their looks... as guys we are just confused. Not making any excuses... just saying. And 9 times out of 10 all they have is a pic to go from... so that is what they compliment.

We are not all shallow because we think a girl is attractive.

I have a major problem when it comes to other people - and I think it stops me getting into relationships a lot...I hate shallow people.

People always seem to have something to say about how I look - either they think I am "hot" or not good enough or I have even had people saying my piercings are stupid looking or make me look gross etc.

But few people ever really comment on my personality. I have a lot of interests and strong opinions. I could write a whole book, but I will just get a comment about how I look from the majority of people. If someone seems interested in my personality they are usually twice my age.

As soon as someone comments on how I look the first time I talk to them, I just tend to ignore them after that.

Am I the only one with this problem? Do you think it is wrong that I feel this way?

Well, I'm living in a town where I don't know anybody, and I have no transportation to go anywhere else. Since my car accident in February, I've basically been abandoned by everyone I knew in real life. I have no options for meeting anyone in real life. Ergo, no one to ask on a date.

Maybe if it was Billie Piper....

That's the way I remember him! (((Vince)))

no, it's just me. so are the other pics. just depends on what mood i'm in is to. but this one is in a vampire tour brochure from new orleans, but i dress similar while i'm there. it's not unheard of for me to be in cargo pants and a tank-top, but never a stereotype. there is no make-up in the pic, and i'm not trying to be the obvious, but i didn't plan on being on the brochure either, i was inbetween the crypts, and terrified the camera man unintentionally, and felt terrible afterwards.......the gentle monster that i am, lol.