i know it may seem like there is no point in going on
ive been there done that

but there is chris
trust me
it may come in small doses but there is hope, there is love
dont give up

my daughter is 4, and not yet potty trained
i have tried several tactics
i took the diapers away, she wet the underwear
i have bribed her with new toys, but shes not a very materialistic child, there is nothing she wants

i beg her to sit on the potty
she cries and cries and acts like she is scared
but i cant figure out why
im afraid to physiclaly hold her there as it might traumatize her more

but she is 4 and is being held out of preschool because she wont go potty
i have no ideas left to try

it may not be fair
but in all honesty is does work sometimes

and if you get the right woman it will work in reverse
or maybe thats just me

somebody's horny i take it

tahts not on the list

sounds like something you want said to you

but i think the ghost sounds good for starters

im not much for vodka, ever since i got sick off of it
and some of that stuff i have no idea what it is

i like sweet drinks
you pick some

i could use a drink
a nice stiff one
anyone willing to oblige?

its a smallll town
only 1 bar
ive tried that scene, doesnt work the guys go for all the really pretty girls

im not from here originally, so i dont know that many people
most of the people i meet thru work are much older, like senior citizens

how does one get find other single people?

im great at typing away to someome on here but bored of spending every friday and sat night at home with computer
how do i meet real people in a small town?

i wanna hug you
no one should have to go thru that ever

this sounds like a personal experience
is it?

why do men pee in the shower?

youre welcome
you have a gift
its wonderfully gracious of you to share it with us

SLUT
They call her a slut, in the cliques uptown
She's torn between two lovers
And getting thrown around
She's screaming inside
And no one understands
No one will listen
She's gotta choose her man

It's hard to be detahced
When you're so close to see the whole
It's hard not to fall
When youre pushed to the full

No one takes her hand
Or wants to understand
No one even tries
To ease the pain in her eyes
She's screaming inside
And no one understands
And nobody listens
She's gotta choose her man.

And dear God how's she to choose?
Love's supposed to come easy
In packages of twos
Either way, she's gonna lose.

Put down the dice, and pick up the cards
But the only one she sees
Is the three of hearts
She's dying inside
And no one understands
Her heart is breaking
And she's gotta choose her man

We took each other out of the rain
And covered each other with what we thought was love
Keeping each other from going insane
We went thorough all the motions
We sang our silent song to keep each other warm
And I danced to the melody with the rhythm of the ocean
And time went by
As we grew older
We pick each other up-down from the ground
And prided each other with what we thought was love
And to keep you from falling down
I proved to be a pillar
But I broke
To the bitter end I thought it was true
The only one
The only one
Gave me a rose - left in the dirt
To go on with your life
Another girl another name
But your silent tears wont go unheard
I would never do anything to hurt you
You - I'd die for you
To the bitter end I thought it was true
The only one
The only one
And the ax came down
With what we thought was love
And the end came - left in the dirt
But I was the only one who would ever get hurt
Your silent tears wont go unheard
Die for you - ax came down
The bitter end was true
only one
The only one

i am the friend tom posted this for
as for what advice i want - how do i get beyond this, overcome this, not be defined by these things anymore

here is my war
im torn bwteen the philosophies of forget and forgive and the oppsite
anyone a star trek fan?
remmber sybock in 4, how he helped everyone overcome thier deepest pain and when it was Kirk's turn he refused
he said i dont wnat to know i should have turned left when i turned right my pain makes me who I am

i cannot forget what happend to me, i am who i am because of it
and i cant quite bring myself to forgive either
but i dont wnat to be that person anymore, the one who defines her self worth based on what others think

i guess it all comes down to how does one develop self esteem
how can i make all those thoughts of "your fat your ugly" and "im differnt now everhtyning is different now" go away
how can i get beyond all this to be the person i wnat to be, the person i dream of

that is what i want advice on

why that *****
some people

now this ia good one for iowa
lots of pigs here

i like this one the best

and what would that date include?