1. Mountain Breeze
2. Rivers
3. 1 Bottle of cold beer

Beautiful Perspective.

My 2nd Take
(because I have given 1 before in a previous thread)

Business Relationship:
Even in business relationship,
it is important that all sides are happy.
Management & Employees understands each other well.

The happier, the more it is productive.
More profit.

Man-Woman Relationship
Woman- Woman Relationship
Man-Man Relationship

Both parties should have money.
Both parties should know how to earn their own bread.

For a man/woman to say love me, choose me because I have money
and can give you good future - is downright insulting to men/women
who made it through life, without anyone feeding them.
We are already in a progressive society.

where is the pride?

Can you really accept a lifetime partner that only wants what you can give and provide?
What if by some unfortunate incident, you lost your precious money?
Would you be sure that man/woman will be there for you, through tough times?
Live with you?Take care of you? Work for you?
Find ways for both of you to survive?
Find ways for the family not to disintegrate?

In the first place he/ she choose you because of what you can give
and provide.
Not because he/ she loves you,.
Not becasue he/she really needs you and others wont do. Only you.
Not because he/she accepts you despite your being you.

Money is a need for anyone to survive and live through life.
But to prioritize it as more important than Love in a
healthy relationship is for me is a big mistake.

Just my take, it might be different with other Minglers.

Note to Self:

While there will always be good-natured people
who see you through the adjustment period
here in Mingle-

what will define yourself is your decision,
on how to react on every post you read.

what will define your being you,
is how you choose your words,
and how you present it to others.

You have to get along with people,
but you also have to recognize that the strength of a team
is different people,
with different perspectives
and different personalities.
-Steve Case

We are all equal in the fact that we are all different.
We are all the same in the fact that we will never be the same.
We are united by the reality that all colors and all cultures are distinct & individual.
We are harmonious in the reality that
we are all held to this earth by the same gravity.
We don't share blood,
but we share the air that keeps us alive.

I will not blind myself and say that my black brother is not different from me.
I will not blind myself and say that my brown sister is not different from me.
But my black brother is he as much as I am me.
But my brown sister is she as much as I am me.

-C. JoyBell C.

Noted.
I can learn from this^^^^

Moving On..

3 Things I am grateful today:

(Inside Mingle)

1. I am grateful someone is confident & upfront enough to
point out something to me to improve myself.

2. Different perspectives and ideas to learn from.

3. Adjustment period in Mingle is almost over.
I can almost see it around the bend.

Ahahaha that is a relief.
I will try to re read op carefully next time
you have my word.
Sometimes when I see a thread I like to respond
I just automatically type.
What I just remembered is cream chip beef for dinner in your list lol
so I just type the last food I have eaten that I am grateful.

It did not occur to me, to just list it as one.
But I will be more aware next time hahaha

Looking forward to that thread u have mentioned earlier,
it will be inspiring and interesting.

Again thank you for your patience
I appreciate it.

Feeling foolish.. thank you Sir for pointing out.

Awwwww,

I just automatically wrote what I have last eaten that I am grateful about.

SassyEuro2 pardon, I dont mean to disrespect.
I should have just wrote Kfc takeout.
Pardon.

? Baffled.
Am I not on the same page again with everyone?

I think it will be interesting and inspiring to have that kind of thread Sassyeuro2.

Sir?
May I know why you are frustrated with what I am grateful about?

Sir? You know u always rocks
& waayyy cool than the others hahaha

I admitted to u who my previous Mingle crush right?
I will tell you too, who my new crush is if you want to know

Start checking women nearer the race track.
You will be happier.
I am quite positive, you will meet someone who rocks like you hahaha

Stop checking women waaaayy far from the race track,
if I may say so, focus on someone accessible and not
halfway across the world
so you can change the story of your life

Rock on Sir
I'm a fan but u know u are not my crush..lol

Advice i can give to my 20 years ago self?

1. Do not lose communication with your parents.
Everyone make mistakes, but hurting your parents
are just mistakes that is harder for yourself to forgive.

2. Work Harder to finish college- get a degree.
It will be easier for you to get the promotion.

3. Save. Always save for the rainy days.

4. Do not buy the latest gadget.Chances are the next latest will
just be few months from when you have purchased your gadget.

5. Learn to ride a bike. No one will teach you.
I still don't know how.

Crossroads of Twilight - Robert Jordan
(Book 10- The Wheel of Time)

1. Monthly Key Performance Incentive Report is finally done
(work related)

2. Lower Electricity bill for this month than last month:)
(yeah i know, but just compared the bills hahahaha)

3. Kfc Twister , Kfc Brownie, Bottled Water

Godless - not recognizing or obeying God.
Or Pansytilly.
I wanted to type it in capitals, but apparently I found out
it means shouting, I dont mean to be ruder than I have been.
I do not know how to make it in bold letters yet, but

or, or Pansytilly.

I told you I am always aware that there is God.
I recognize him.
I choose to not obey God.

Choose not to obey.
Choose not to serve.

Example:
I recognize there is someone who likes me.
Aware that he likes me.
I choose to not like him, because I know
he deserves someone better,
someone who is more like him
in many ways.
Not like me.

Choose not to like him.
Choose not to interact with him.

I respect your God so much that I do not want to give Him a halfbake faith.
If I will choose to have faith in Him. I will do so with all my heart and soul and serve others, not myself.

I cant. I am selfish. I choose to serve myself.

Yikes!
Uhm, Sir, I watch Magic Mike and Step Up Movies.
If you want to flaunt what you have feel free hahaha.
There can always be said about confident guys.

And I cannot speak for all women, but there are women
who checks buff guys, even if we will never date them hahahaha
Either we drool, we smirk or we move on

So for me, it is not bad as long as:
1. you are posting your genuine picture (i mean it is really u)
In my more than 60 days here in Mingle, I have found it in a hard way that, that is not always the case.Some are women who have those masculine pictures.

2. you do not mind that your picture could be on another website you never visited or registered into. Or can be used by someone who thinks it is hilarious to use your picture and loves to be always mistaken as someone else.

I even care what other people thinks,
even if other people doesnt like me,
how much more if it is God?

I choose to not have faith.
I choose to not serve Him.
I choose to not ask Him to take care of me.
I choose to not ask Him to be benevolent of me.
I choose to manage on my own, because I do not have
the heart (my heart) to give Him Lordship over my life.

This is a bit

Atheism - is the absence of belief in the existence of gods.
I cannot give a take on this Pansytilly.
I have always known that there is God.

Godless - not recognizing or obeying God.

I would like to give my take
as one of those people who choose to be Godless.

Faith -strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion,
based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof.

20 years ago, i always think of the Bible as
too many campfire stories with few onsite confirmations.
As a fan of ancient history, it always makes me skeptical.

Then I met someone who is strict but openminded.
Uncompromising but compassionate.
I fell in love with him.

He has a God.
He have solid faith.
He patiently told me, taught me,showed me
what is faith.
and what it means to have one.

I walked away Pansytilly.
I loved him and respect his faith so much
that I could not bring myself to lie
to him and pretend , that I can kneel and
accept Jesus as my Lord and savior
and give him Lordship to my life.

I cannot and will never mock a God.
Total Lordship or no Lordship at all.

I am too selfish Pansytilly.
I do not have the faith to say,
bring it on God,
I trust you to make it right for me.
I do not have the faith,
that I can give to a God
for Romans 8:28 or Philippians 4:13.
I cant just give Him the Lordship
that your God deserved.

I am aware of the emptiness,
yes very much.
Same as in love, same as in faith.
But I'd rather live alone & Godless
than to say UNWORTHY BUT HIS
but never been His in the firsplace.

There are just people,
who cannot do it halfway Pansytilly.
Either in love or in faith.
You have to give your all or not at all.

I like this very much

what if both me and my soulmate have both broken hearts?
Would our 2 broken hearts be enough to mend
heartbeat to heartbeat to give life to our love?

What if the one who makes me feel alive does not have a whole heart?
But like me, have been broken too?

Can I still try to mend his heart
even if mine is still mending?
I honestly wanted to try:)