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Depends on the reason for the relationship.

Some people get into relationships just so they can feel a love high, actualization of selfish emotional gratification.

Some people get into relationships because the relationship is supportive of both individuals dreams and goals and purpose in life.

Some people get into relationships as a means to acquire a trophy.

Some people get into relationships because it offers companionship and security.


What's important for the relationship depends on the people in the relationship, what they value, and what they want.

One is not "better" than the other assuming everyone understands the reason for the relationship and what the other gets out of it.

That's true what Ciretom has said.

For me it has to be love or nothing.
Money comes and goes.
That doesn't mean we have to be stupid with it.

love

but it all depends on the person really
<shrug>

Well depends what type of relationship we are talkig about.
Business relationship Money all the way...

Relationship of friendship, lovers, etc.

Love all the way..
I can make my own money I don't need theirs
but I need and want the love that comes from those relationships

i've
quit
more
jobs
because the owner or employer was an ***...

i have never quit a relationship
because
of
her
***...

I don't know. But it's hard to find someone who doesn't prioritize money.

Beautiful Perspective.

My 2nd Take
(because I have given 1 before in a previous thread)

Business Relationship:
Even in business relationship,
it is important that all sides are happy.
Management & Employees understands each other well.

The happier, the more it is productive.
More profit.

Man-Woman Relationship
Woman- Woman Relationship
Man-Man Relationship

Both parties should have money.
Both parties should know how to earn their own bread.

For a man/woman to say love me, choose me because I have money
and can give you good future - is downright insulting to men/women
who made it through life, without anyone feeding them.
We are already in a progressive society.

where is the pride?

Can you really accept a lifetime partner that only wants what you can give and provide?
What if by some unfortunate incident, you lost your precious money?
Would you be sure that man/woman will be there for you, through tough times?
Live with you?Take care of you? Work for you?
Find ways for both of you to survive?
Find ways for the family not to disintegrate?

In the first place he/ she choose you because of what you can give
and provide.
Not because he/ she loves you,.
Not becasue he/she really needs you and others wont do. Only you.
Not because he/she accepts you despite your being you.

Money is a need for anyone to survive and live through life.
But to prioritize it as more important than Love in a
healthy relationship is for me is a big mistake.

Just my take, it might be different with other Minglers.

great

but i asked many girls thatbi am poor will u marry:me and she replied with no

brother girls want just money not honey

I think you are right.

Then it's not love

Have to agree!!

I have moved and taken different jobs because of money.

I was married for 17 years to the same woman, and neither of us was rich when we met. In fact we were not rich when we divorced, but together we lived a comfortable and simple life. We both worked equally to make a comfortable life. My opinion is that with love, loyalty, and support you have a better chance for happiness.