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Sun 05/31/09 08:33 PM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sun 05/31/09 08:34 PM

Maybe a 36 year old Russian bride?


A retired 59 year old transexual showgirl?


huh
Why isn't a 31 year old American male enough for you to be convinced?

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Sun 05/31/09 08:32 PM


I remember seeing them in the form of collectible trading cards when I was a kid. Wish I kept some of them.

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Sun 05/31/09 08:28 PM

You're really a 63 year old Indian woman living in Mumbai, aren't you Thoughtlessthug?huh
Why such an absurd accusation? Have I offended you?

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Sun 05/31/09 08:24 PM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sun 05/31/09 08:35 PM






Every Craigslist ad is fake, and if you look at Men seeking women, all the guys are offering money to hang out. lol I wish i could afford a girlfriend


That's not true. The first person that I met online was from Craig's List. I answered his ad. We dated for 5 months. We're still friends.

Is he your boyfriend? or just simply a "friend?"


He was my bf for 5 months over a year and a half ago.
Well pat yourself on the back for your noble sense of character. Not a lot of relationship end on the notice of friendship. Mine pretty much end badly.


There's nothing noble about it. lol

He's a good guy. We just weren't meant to be together forever.
I'm the one that quit seeing him.
But you did say that the relationship ended good? So that constitute as having the ability to end the relationship by still being on good terms with the person you wish to no longer want to have a romantic feelings for. To me, I classify that action as a noble way of having an understanding of other people's feelings of love when the feeling of love you have is not reciprocated for them. Character is all about the power of doing the best on how to be good in unpleasant circumstances.

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Sun 05/31/09 08:08 PM

ahhh yes!!!!
the insecure have to validate themselves over the new guy..........
don't worry about that. It is a common thing when a new person enter the stage in any forums.

It goes to show how "common" some people are. ;)

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Sun 05/31/09 08:01 PM
Is it odd to you that many of the topics is out of place in the philosophy and science category?

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Sun 05/31/09 07:59 PM
not really. But it did for whoever was the moderator that moved the thread to its appropriate place. :)

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Sun 05/31/09 07:56 PM




Every Craigslist ad is fake, and if you look at Men seeking women, all the guys are offering money to hang out. lol I wish i could afford a girlfriend


That's not true. The first person that I met online was from Craig's List. I answered his ad. We dated for 5 months. We're still friends.

Is he your boyfriend? or just simply a "friend?"


He was my bf for 5 months over a year and a half ago.
Well pat yourself on the back for your noble sense of character. Not a lot of relationship end on the notice of friendship. Mine pretty much end badly.

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Sun 05/31/09 07:45 PM
Jokes & Funny Stories is not the appropriate place for this thread?

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Sun 05/31/09 07:41 PM
Did it result later of you having a physical confrontation with the guy? or was it just a shouting match?

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Sun 05/31/09 07:39 PM
Unless you think the odds are that there are less psychos who are global.

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Sun 05/31/09 07:28 PM

thoughtful: no im NOT going back into a cage. NEVER again
Well well... it look like you have had free yourself from your encaged mindset. Good luck. :)

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Sun 05/31/09 07:24 PM

i got alot hits on craigslist,

but it's the same old cycle.

there interested...

but the spark isn't there ohwell
What is a spark for you?

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Sun 05/31/09 07:18 PM


You had low self esteem around him because of his good looks and felt unworthy, and because he knows he is good looking he is wondering how you could not want to be with a hunk of man like himself.


heh..pretty much on the spot..


i always feel unworthy in my relationships..

its a self esteem thing..that im trying really hard to fix :(

it sucks...
I can safely say that you are not ready for a relationship right now. I suggest you go on a hiatus and find something to cultivate for to foster a new and better way on how to percieve yourself as a well worthy individual to whomever will be your new lucky guy in the future.

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Sun 05/31/09 07:04 PM


Every Craigslist ad is fake, and if you look at Men seeking women, all the guys are offering money to hang out. lol I wish i could afford a girlfriend


That's not true. The first person that I met online was from Craig's List. I answered his ad. We dated for 5 months. We're still friends.

Is he your boyfriend? or just simply a "friend?"

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Sun 05/31/09 06:57 PM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Sun 05/31/09 07:00 PM

did i just break up? no been divorced for over a year,
So you are a pretty bird who had come out of the cage to seek yet again to encage yourself into a better cage?

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Sun 05/31/09 06:55 PM

I keep my house fairly neat and clean most of the time anyway so there's no rushing around trying to impress. But I'd probably have to sweep up the hair balls from my big hairy beast. And I'd burn some scented candles. I might even have some dinner ready if he's been working long and hard and doesn't feel like going out.

At all times, I try to keep my house clean. That's just how I like it. Friends can drop by and I'm never embarrassed to have them come in and "set a spell". My minivan is always clean and ready for a road trip as well. Likewise, I try to keep myself clean and ready for company. I fix my hair and put on my makeup each morning, before I do anything else. I've always been this way. So when I date, there is no pretense. What he sees is what he gets--today and a year from now.
Is that why you named yourself the "TazmanianDevil"(as in the cartoon character)? Always spinning around and cleaning like a tornado?

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Sun 05/31/09 06:52 PM
So here is the brutal honesty question... Did you just broke-up from a relationship?

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Sun 05/31/09 06:46 PM

Dating a guy just because she doesn't want to be alone, rather than taking the time to find someone she truly cares about and is compatible with.
Did you mean that you prefer to take the "time" to find someone you will later care about; or something of taking the time to see if you will care enough about the guy and then later find yourself being compatible to him instead of some women seeking out men because they don't want to be alone?

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Sun 05/31/09 06:26 PM

1. Your house plants are alive, and you can’t smoke any of them.
2. Having sex in a twin bed is out of the question.
3. You keep more food than beer in the fridge.
4. 6:00AM is when you get up, not when you go to bed.
5. You hear your favorite song in an elevator.
6. You watch the Weather Channel.
7. Your friends marry and divorce instead of “hook up” and “break up.”
8. You go from 130 days of vacation time to 14.
9. Jeans and a sweater no longer qualify as “dressed up.”
10. You’re the one calling the police because those %&@# kids next door won’t turn down the stereo.
11. Older relatives feel comfortable telling sex jokes around you.
12. You don’t know what time Taco Bell closes anymore.
13. Your car insurance goes down, and your car payments go up.
14. You feed your dog Science Diet, instead of McDonald’s leftovers.
15. Sleeping on the couch makes your back hurt.
16. You take naps sometimes between noon and 6 PM.
17. Dinner and a movie is the whole date instead of the beginning of one.
18. Eating a basket of chicken wings at 3 AM would severely upset, rather than settle, your stomach.
19. If you’re female, you go to the drug store for ibuprofen and antacid, not condoms and pregnancy tests.
20. A $4.00 bottle of wine is no longer “pretty good stuff.”
21. You actually eat breakfast food at breakfast time.
22. “I just can’t drink the way I used to” replaces “I’m never going to drink that much again.”
23. 90% of the time you spend in front of a computer is for real work.
24. You drink at home to save money before going to a bar.
25. You read this entire list,looking desperately for one sign that doesn’t apply to you and can’t find one to save your sorry OLD butt.
Self-deprecation isn't by any way is going to let you get closer to your goal - I presume you are single and want to find someone.

I know that being at a certain age where one can find humor of the predicament of not being young anymore, but why subject oneself to the stereotype of being "old" when in fact it is only of the body, not mindset?

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