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Fri 05/29/09 10:18 AM

I just want a guy who doesn't answer the door naked on the fourth date.
What if he is a nudist? Not that I am into that lifestyle. LOL

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Fri 05/29/09 10:16 AM


One thing I dislike about other people's pet is that when one time I went out on a date, I had to go and pick her up at her house. And surprise! She answered the door with a bright smile on her face and then motioned me to come in. Suddenly her dog comes to the scene and then all of the sudden the conversation consist of the name of the dog, how the dog is people friendly, and other crap that I don't care to remember. It seems to me that when someone has a dog, distractions occur either momentarily, or quite frequently where I can't even have a one to one moment with the chick.

I guess I was jealous of the dog. A big cockblocker if you ask me. LOL


Sounds like you need to date people without pets.
Not necessarily. I don't mind women having pets. It is just that sometimes they can be annoying as the same as having a dinner conversation with someone and then it get interrupted by the other answering the celluar phone every couple of minutes or so.




yup dogs are an excellent way of sorting out the seedy from the genuine! lol
Lol

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Fri 05/29/09 10:08 AM
One thing I dislike about other people's pet is that when one time I went out on a date, I had to go and pick her up at her house. And surprise! She answered the door with a bright smile on her face and then motioned me to come in. Suddenly her dog comes to the scene and then all of the sudden the conversation consist of the name of the dog, how the dog is people friendly, and other crap that I don't care to remember. It seems to me that when someone has a dog, distractions occur either momentarily, or quite frequently where I can't even have a one to one moment with the chick.

I guess I was jealous of the dog. A big cockblocker if you ask me. LOL

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Fri 05/29/09 09:59 AM


Context is an interesting thing. Let's say that a person says, "he is too picky." Now, to me when an utterence like that occur, one must look into how it can be used to express very different propositions, depending upon the circumstances in which they are used.

For example:

1. He is picky - Meaning he is shallow
2. He is picky - Being meticulous in detail
3. He is picky - Knows what he wants
4. etc...


Most of the time, when it's directed towards me, it's clear that the implication is #1 -- "shallow." Many of them will even use that term (or "superficial"). For whatever reason, a lot of people have a sort of knee-jerk, offended reaction when I indicate that I'm really not interested in certain types of people. Of course, the ones who choose to be offended are always the ones who fall into those types, as if I had created my standards and preferences solely for the purpose of demeaning them personally.


You do realize that we live in a society that consist of people who think that everyone is equal, and ought to be treated lightly on the basis of their sentimentality? Can't please everyone as the common expression goes.

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Fri 05/29/09 09:52 AM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Fri 05/29/09 09:54 AM


I don't own a pet. Did own a cat and a dog while I was a kid.

Strange to me in our society it is ok to eat certain animals and not eat others. I feel like a foreigner.


Why do you feel like a foreigner? Are you trying to tell us that you like eating cats and dogs? laugh
I don't know. If someone would offer me a fine prepared meal of cats and dogs, and dare me to eat it, then I probably would do it without any remorse.

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Fri 05/29/09 09:50 AM
I think I am just downright addicted to forums in general. Yes, I am in a Single's site, but it is only for the purpose of seeking out people who are in the sense having the same affliction: that is being single and wanting to end the lonely predicament. In my case - just recently broke up with a chick.

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Fri 05/29/09 09:45 AM
I don't own a pet. Did own a cat and a dog while I was a kid.

Strange to me in our society it is ok to eat certain animals and not eat others. I feel like a foreigner.

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Fri 05/29/09 09:42 AM


Picky and selective seems to me that they are two words having the same meaning. I guess using the word "picky" can denote as somebody who is careful and precise on what it is that the person want out of someone. Nit-picky is a phrase that is common to use too. Thus, I find that if one who want to be clear on how to express your likings as to be a picky person, then I assume picky can be the most accurate way of expressing your desire to have whatever specific requirements that you prefer to be the utmost important. Selective, however, seems to be just a way of being equivocal only on the reason that "picky", by convention, is usually something that has a negative connotation to it.


I think it's in the tone being used -- people tell me I'm "too picky," as if this is some kind of sin; nobody ever says I'm "too selective."

Do they mean the same thing? Yeah, pretty much, I think they do. It's just that one comes across as being less of a criticism, at least insofar as the people who have used "picky" on me.


Context is an interesting thing. Let's say that a person says, "he is too picky." Now, to me when an utterence like that occur, one must look into how it can be used to express very different propositions, depending upon the circumstances in which they are used.

For example:

1. He is picky - Meaning he is shallow
2. He is picky - Being meticulous in detail
3. He is picky - Knows what he wants
4. etc...

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Fri 05/29/09 09:29 AM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Fri 05/29/09 09:31 AM
Picky and selective seems to me that they are two words having the same meaning. I guess using the word "picky" can denote as somebody who is careful and precise on what it is that the person want out of someone. Nit-picky is a phrase that is common to use too. Thus, I find that if one who want to be clear on how to express one's likings as to be a picky person, then I assume picky can be the most accurate way of expressing your desire to have whatever specific requirements that you prefer to be the utmost important. Selective, however, seems to be just a way of being equivocal only on the reason that "picky", by convention, is usually something that has a negative connotation to it.

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Thu 05/28/09 02:17 PM

Never make someone your "everything"... you lose yourself in the process.
That is not a good statement. You see if you foster on the belief forever, then when you do find your potential "everything", you will absolutely dismiss the person on the basis of the fear that it is conceivably not true.

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Thu 05/28/09 01:48 PM
Most hard working men I know would willing to sacrifice their free time and money to keep their girl happy, safe, and secured; however, most women are either are willing to acknowledge the sacrifice of the their man and cherish it, while the other take advantage by doing things that would blantantly dishonour the treatment.

I am not going to sacrifice anything till I am convinced if indeed the chick is trustworthy and sincere about wanting my sacrifice in order to make our lives even better.

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Tue 05/26/09 02:22 PM


It seems to me that the "Grown Woman" is a single independant-minded individual who have either a college degree or a career that give her the freedom of no worries about her financial security. An adult.

The "Girl" is someone who is a dependant case and looking for some kind of a guy who will provide all the things she isn't capable of getting herself. A child who hasn't left high school in her mind.


I think that was the point of the thread :wink:.
I guess I was just being silly. I just wanted to let you lovely ladies to know and to keep thinking that there are guys that love strong women. And the very fact that it is not a intimidating thing.
:-)

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Tue 05/26/09 01:43 PM
It seems to me that the "Grown Woman" is a single independant-minded individual who have either a college degree or a career that give her the freedom of no worries about her financial security. An adult.

The "Girl" is someone who is a dependant case and looking for some kind of a guy who will provide all the things she isn't capable of getting herself. A child who hasn't left high school in her mind.

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Tue 05/26/09 01:33 PM

'Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of
sh!t.'

rofl rofl
I don't know. Maybe someday in the future we can simply grow babies in some kind of artificial womb in some laboratory. So there will be no need for the traditional way of how children will be created.

I own a home, and I made it out as a house. Really need no woman's touch where she can twinkle her nose and then all of the sudden I got every thing clean and properly arranged.

I love grocery shopping. I am agruably the fastest shopper. I can spend 100 dollars and be in the check out line in less than 20 minutes (just have to make sure I do it late at night). I can cook. Not very hard to do.

I smile to many people and it does not have to be a girlfriend. I need no girl's heart, since that is not what I am asking for. Just loyalty, friendship, and honesty.

Some women I've met are compulsive spenders. Finances are the least thing they think of.

If I do something wrong to her, and then she later does something even more wrong to me: then a vengeful girl is not my kind of a woman.

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Tue 05/26/09 01:20 PM
I don't hold any illusion that love is what I will find, but I do want to see my option of who is out there seeking for a date.

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Tue 05/26/09 01:18 PM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Tue 05/26/09 01:18 PM
That is a bad advice from Mom.

That message there defeat the whole purpose of recieving love and giving love back to the lover. I just can't believe people find it necessary to be loved more and giving it less back on the basis of having domination over a partner.

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Tue 05/26/09 01:02 PM
I don't know if there is a such a thing where one can be more in love than the other. It doesn't seem right that love can be something of a number on a 1 to 10 scale with one loving someone on a number 4 range and another loving the other on the number 8 range. Love is simply love. And that dedication and other things come to play for to keep the love afloat; or if not tended to and maintained, then it will surely sink to the bottomless depth of indifference - and then to the end of love altogether.

Funny, it usually rest on one person in the relationship doing all the dedication and maintenance while the other having one foot outside the door.

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Tue 05/26/09 12:04 AM
Grand Theft Auto IV of the PC. We are currently having problem with people cheating with modified files in multiplayer - since there is no 3rd party dedicated servers, but it is still an awesome game to kick out some stress you are having in your life. Especially competitive deathmatch modes.

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Mon 05/25/09 11:55 PM
I have a shoebox of pictures that consist of past flames and other memories that I'd liken to document before I may forget about it. So it is not about bragging rights, or some kind of a way of savoring the past out of the fear that she was only the one beautiful girl I will ever have a chance to be with.

So I never make comparison of one girl to another, nor do I think that every chance I get a new girlfriend, it is a tradedown of the one I place to be the best of them all.

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Mon 05/25/09 11:49 PM




Yep, sophomore.
Sorry. I thought I was speaking in your language.

Again: my apologies.


DUH! If she were the right one I would put her on a pedestal. how else do you treat a goddess? Hide her under the bed with the dirty magazines?
Can that work? That is tough to place someone under the bed for an indefinite amount of time. Hope maybe she will like the dirty magazine to occupy her time under there.

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