slowing down, is the only way, hun. I have forgiven the adultery, but will NOT have him back in my life. Trash is trash, I deserve better and now, with time on my side, I will have, lol.

That's exactly what my attny said, lol. Just want it over with now. Why does TX have a 60 day waiting period, lol. Should have gone to old Mexico and got a quickie divorce as well, lol. But I still have my sense of humor intact, praise be for that. Thanks

Thanks, lol. Think I will just stay to myself for a while, lol. Gosh, if I had heeded the advice I was given, boy howdy. But no one could have stopped me, I was so bullheaded about it.

Do what makes you feel right. Only you can decide that, chere.

A cautionary tale.....

I met someone on a particular dating site last March. We met, he moved down to TX last May. We married last July.(Just a lil background for all ya'll, ok)

Last Thurs. morning something woke me at 3 am. Husband(let's call him John) was not in bed. Thought maybe he couldn't sleep, or fell asleep on the couch. So, I got up, went to living room. TV was on, but no John. As we don't smoke in the house anymore, I thought he may be in the garage smoking, so I went out there. Didn't turn on the light and no John. Since the garage door was up, I walked outside and saw my red car, my truck and another vehicle. Didn;t have a clue who's car it was, so I went back inside and threw on some sweats, went back outside just in time to see my husband and some chick, I knew, having full on sex in her backseat. Needless to say, all hell broke loose then...

I have since kicked him out, filed for divorce, which will be final in April. As I said, a cautionary tale to all those internet daters and would be daters out there....be wary, learn from my mistake. Love is good, but sometimes when we follow our hearts and not our heads, we end up with a total and complete loser...

Looking for love in the wrong places, is an old Country and Western song. Let love find you and gosh all mighty, don't rush it or it is possible you could end up like me. Picking up the pieces, one shard at a time.

Blakjaq

Just want to tell everyone at JustSayHi, that I met my match on your
site. We plan to marry on July 07, 2007. He found me here, on this
site, only after I had been online with ya'll for 3 days. Never in my
wildist dreams, could I have thought to meet my love onlin. He and I
have since moved in together. And he and my son get along splendidly.
He is the sweetest, nicest, lovelyest person, I have ever met. Sounds
hokey, I know, but it is true.

Thank you all.
Blakjaq

Look, see I told you, that right there. I need my roots done. hehehehhe

It is ok. I understand. Went thru my own divorce last Dec. and it
always seemed that whenever I had plans, "something" would happen. So,
I now plan most of my "adult time activities" when my son is with his
Dad. And sometimes, like now, I plan those activities and make sure
whomever I am with, knows it will be kid friendly, whatever we do. It
is either that, or they can "hit the bricks." Ya know what I mean.

It is a balancing act. I truly do get the quandry your in. If the kids
are "acting out" maybe, counciling would help them understand that you
and "Daddy" are not gonna get back together. It took for my son to meet
his Dad's girlfriend for him to get that thru his head. It is hard on
everyone involved.
And kids, God bless em, get stuck in the middle.

You will be ok, just take it day by day, darlin'. It will work out.

just loved that car. Folded up into a suitcase. Then there's the hair
salon, how cool was that. But my favorite of all has to be the dog,
Astro. Purple to boot.Lol.

I must agree. Doesn't that kinda take away from the "mystique"? I
mean, come on. Who actually goes aroung measureing their "member" and
has the cojones to post it. One big delete waiting to happen, lmao.

I enjoy taking pics of just about anything. My favorite subject has to
be my son. Just looking thru old pics the other day, pics of him when
he was maybe three, in silhouet, just precious.

nervous

better bisquits than eggs.

Where are you looking

gotta be the eyes first. If they can make eye contact with me, and hold
it, that's a start. Then It's definetly the butt. Like a nice butt in
tight wranglers. It is embarrassing especially to my friends when we
are out.LOL

Capricorns do a good job, but for me, has to be TAurus. Was married to
one. So far, no other signs work well with me, a Scorpio.

For being alive. For seeing God everywhere I look. For my family. For
being able to get out of bed every morning and begin anew.

not the last time I checked(or is that czeked) LOL

got me dude. It would appear there may be a glitch?

hear hear, it is all about Karma, darlin. What goes around, comes
around. Don't do a thing, it will take care of itself.
That's been my experience. Just sit back and watch the show, LOL