A cautionary tale.....

I met someone on a particular dating site last March. We met, he moved down to TX last May. We married last July.(Just a lil background for all ya'll, ok)

Last Thurs. morning something woke me at 3 am. Husband(let's call him John) was not in bed. Thought maybe he couldn't sleep, or fell asleep on the couch. So, I got up, went to living room. TV was on, but no John. As we don't smoke in the house anymore, I thought he may be in the garage smoking, so I went out there. Didn't turn on the light and no John. Since the garage door was up, I walked outside and saw my red car, my truck and another vehicle. Didn;t have a clue who's car it was, so I went back inside and threw on some sweats, went back outside just in time to see my husband and some chick, I knew, having full on sex in her backseat. Needless to say, all hell broke loose then...

I have since kicked him out, filed for divorce, which will be final in April. As I said, a cautionary tale to all those internet daters and would be daters out there....be wary, learn from my mistake. Love is good, but sometimes when we follow our hearts and not our heads, we end up with a total and complete loser...

Looking for love in the wrong places, is an old Country and Western song. Let love find you and gosh all mighty, don't rush it or it is possible you could end up like me. Picking up the pieces, one shard at a time.

Blakjaq

Gosh, I'm really sorry to hear that. And thank you for the advice.

Never rush marriage!!!!!!!!!!

I know a guy, that knows another guy, that knows another guy that hurts people. If you're interested.

at least you had the strength to kick him out.dont give up love is worth having

Dang girl sorry to hear that...
some people can be such jerks...
Good luck towards your future.
(At least you didnt kill him)

Sorry ,taking it slow is good

I will take the advice into consideration.
Sorry about your heartbreak.

Not killing is a good thing

sorry to hear ur story.
but dont give up on love

Giant Ouch!!sorry that happened to you.God bless...

Thank you for the warning. Hope you find someone better than the man you married. I will take extra careful steps in finding someone...especially if he's on line.

Thanks, lol. Think I will just stay to myself for a while, lol. Gosh, if I had heeded the advice I was given, boy howdy. But no one could have stopped me, I was so bullheaded about it.

Very sorry to hear that happened to you, but not all guy's are like that, just like I know in my heart that not all women are like that.

That's exactly what my attny said, lol. Just want it over with now. Why does TX have a 60 day waiting period, lol. Should have gone to old Mexico and got a quickie divorce as well, lol. But I still have my sense of humor intact, praise be for that. Thanks

slowing down, is the only way, hun. I have forgiven the adultery, but will NOT have him back in my life. Trash is trash, I deserve better and now, with time on my side, I will have, lol.

u sound like a strong woman

Oh, I know that. At this point, just hanging out with my son and enjoying and appreciating every day, is a blessing. Keeping positive is my saving grace.

Sorry to hear what happen to you but can't always blame it on internet dating some just don't work out. Have known some that things turned out great for them.

Heck have only been married once myself only knew my ex for approx 3 months before we got married and it lasted 11 years. You never really know a person till you marry them and at times you never know them then. Its tough and sorry about what happen but don't let that put a black mark on all men you meet either by internet or in your town. One never knows it is a chance we all take.

you sound strong, but that could have happened anywhere. the internet just happened to be the catalyst for this relationship. you can't now gauge all internet relationships simply by one bad experience.