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Ok For All The Men
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My son would like to know if he did the right thing in letting this girl go.He felt she was to clingy and she seemed to like someone else but could never be honest in her answer.Every time he asked her about this she could not look him in the eyes and she would look off.Also she didn't seem as happy unless she was with the other guy.He only stayed in the relationship because he felt sorry for her.He needs a males perspective on this if he should stay or get out. Sounds to me like your son has lost interest in being Prince Charming to his girlfriend. Maybe for good reason, teenage girls are not the securest people. This one sounds a little intimidated by his demands about the loyalty of her feelings. Maybe she has had trouble talking to her parents or peers historically but a few words about communicateing rather than demanding and answer when you want the truth. He is smart to pick up on her body language but I would remind him not to jump to conclusions. Life is not NCIS. She might have just felt less pressure to be lovey dovey with the other guy around and actually does care about your son. Probably in everybodies best interest to attempt and amicable seperation by just "drifting apart" and trying to remain friends. Not saying they are but it is likely that they have been intimate and she maybe clingey because she is worried about a bad reputation or pregnancy. It is in your son's best interest to be reminded that it might seem macho to kiss and tell it is not a cool social move. This is a great teaching moment to talk about realestic expectations about High School relationships, personality types, and maybe the need to keep some women just friends and not FWB's be cause as practical as it might sound it rarely works out. Maybe asking if he sees some importance in not being so caught up in being a hero when just being a supportive friend will be easier to live with. This may be a lonely time for your son. Girlfriend's, weather desireable or not, give a position in the social pecking order in high school and he may be in need of moral support. You want to make sure he doesn't do anything rash like joining the military or dropping out of school. Keeping and eye out for signs of depression is not a bad idea. YMCA has a group for teens that give young people opportunities to have peer support with the input of quality mentors, activities to serve the community (very important on college applications), and fun activities that are a great relief for single parents and lonely teens. Membership is on sliding scale. |
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Ok For All The Men
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this is her son(if i misspell anything its cause of nc's schools lol) but thanks for the replies its really helped and if i have any other problems i know where to go. i just wish my ex would get the picture. oh wheres the beer and women. oh dont forget the moonshine lol haha
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Ok For All The Men
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How old is your son? There are plenty of girls. My advice is to let her go and find another girlfriend ASAP. |
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Ok For All The Men
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My son would like to know if he did the right thing in letting this girl go.He felt she was to clingy and she seemed to like someone else but could never be honest in her answer.Every time he asked her about this she could not look him in the eyes and she would look off.Also she didn't seem as happy unless she was with the other guy.He only stayed in the relationship because he felt sorry for her.He needs a males perspective on this if he should stay or get out.
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Birthday
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Happy Birthday and many more enjoy and relax.
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Romance
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Do woman still want romance, also what is everyone's idea of romance, as for myself I tend to stay with the standard giving out compliments, being a gentleman, intimate surroundings, most important in any relationship is passion. I smack that *** and tell em I love em....now get my beer. |
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY MICHIGANMAN3
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Happy Birthday and many more enjoy.It's your day to relax.
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Rise and Shine - part 6
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Good Morning,getting ready for today.Going to clean some in the house.I'm in a cleaning mood Lol. mornin..do you live near me..hahhah |
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Rise and Shine - part 6
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Good Morning,getting ready for today.Going to clean some in the house.I'm in a cleaning mood Lol.
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Skinny girls aren't bimbos. Its the person itself, not weight. Shoot, I'm a big girl and I LLLOOVVEEE it!! My confidence is awesome. What they see is what they get. Just be yourself, and for dang sure somebody will find ya and wouldn't want to let ya go. Don't let your weight stop ya from the dating game! (This is for everybody/anybody...) |
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Being Unloved Forever
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Do you fear being unloved forever,or that there might be no one out there for you? |
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A Teddy and something that is purple and fun to play with.
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Shoutin out to all the 46ers We rock! |
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lost more weight
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You look fine and hot to me I see nothing wrong.Your special in your own little way.
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Naughty
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Call him and write be there in his life because it will make a difference.My son's have not seen there father in 5 years going 6 and I know it hurts not having him in their lives and now they are 15 and 9 time is going by so fast and when it goes like that you can't get it back.Be there for him and support him just take it slow and talk with him in time he will understand.also he will be thankful you stepped back in his life.I know it will be hard but just take a deep breath and let him know you love him and yes grown ups do make mistakes and we learn from them.Just be straight and up front with him.I'm into education and I deal alot with kids in many different schools and I hear so much how kids want the other parent in there lives because it makes a difference to them.The kids tell me if they only had the chance to just hold them and just say I love you that would mean alot to them.Good Luck and My prayers are with you and I also have a son that is ADHD also.
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Need Understanding
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Update,I'm feeling alot better and getting my life in order and I have the power back haha.Ding Ding round one I may have been knocked down but I'm coming back better then ever got the gloves on and ready to rock and roll and ready for any challenge that comes my way.Anyone ready for round two ding ding lol.You guys have fun this week and enjoy.Smiling now and the attitude is different. Got the Mojo back lol haha.
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Have You Given Up?
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Yes I have given up right now.I feel there isn't anyone who wants to date a woman with kids.They think it's to much drama and stress for them.I'm not here for my kids I'm here for me.So I'm single and not looking anymore.Just here for friends right now. I know how you feel. It's very hard when you have kids. |
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Need Understanding
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I need understanding on this I don't why my oldest is acting the way he is in this.I meet a awesome guy on here and the last two days were wonderful.He treated me with respect and honor and like a lady.He made dinner for us Friday night then took us to the fair and spent alot time with the boys.He showed love to me and the boys but my oldest pushed away and showed him self now my youngest son is hurt and so am I.I have been crying and hurt by this.This guy wanted to be a part of our lives and wanted to be apart of my sons.My oldest lashed out at him and told him not to come around any more.This really hurt the guy and he probably want come around any more.Why is my oldest pushing away every guy that comes into my life?It's like he dosen't want me to find happiness.Please help!!!!! How long did you know this man when you introduced him to your children? That sounds reasonable to me. I'm a single parent. I know that it it's not easy. I do wish you the best. |
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