I do not think we know we are grieving in that moment until we have faced our loss, our fears, upfront and honestly.

I think to understand why we are so tearful and unbalanced at a loss of a life that is dear to us or close enough to be called a friend, is to know why we are crying/grieving, are we crying for them or for our-self. I have learned most times we are not crying for what is lost, but for what we no longer have.

I think in any relationship, where all was good, regrets always finds a way in to make it self known, things we said and should not have, things we did and should not have and most of all the regret that the shared dreams are now cut in half, becoming dissolved one half.

I too think, when we grieve for anothers loss, I feel we cry for us too, thanking it was not us, then the "us" start to count our blessings with more care and given notice.

I don't know you Jess, but from what I have read about you and what you have written, I think and feel you know your path already to travel, all it needs is for you to put that first foot on it, to start a new journey...

Death is the life partner of Life, we cant have the one without having respect for the other...

Is there a GOD, sometimes we think not, yet I feel all that happens does for a reason, just that many of us never ever get to see the clear picture of its purpose...

In the face of a tradigy, Acceptance gives us a less complicated road to travel forward.

this is a classic... lol

I was eating a boiled egg, g/son asked me,
what I was eating
I told him a boiled egg,
his reply was...***YUCK, you are eating hatching goooo**

Firstly, what is the true meaning of friendship, if there is no room to forgive, then it was never a true friendship.

To abandon a friendship in its true sense of its meaning, is like a parent telling their child, cause you did me wrong, I no longer care or love you.

If there was a breach of trust, for what ever the reason, one too needs to remember, not to cast the first stone, cause one might even themself one day slip up and breach the others trust.

Just thinking about this, it is a sad thing when we feel we need other to motivate us to be productive...

If living and life was all about others to get us off the couch
to be more than we are, then the world is screwed.

When we have no self motivation and are non-productive it shows how depended we are on others to push us along, sometimes others get tired of being the motivator because it becomes in the end a nil productive non paying job.

Many not all, if they see one as being a non self-motivator or nil productive they avoid them like a bad smell.

People who are self generated to being productive are the ones most other people prefer to associate with for the long run.

In a GOOD/HEALTHY relationship what happens all production is half by each being motivated to do their half of anything and everything.

You meantion EXES I take that more than 1 marriage, I feel when people divorce and marry more than 2 times, they are in most cases bring home the very same person but in a different dress of skin...

Advice given to my daughter from her dad, if you going to met and marry a man from the pub expect he may be an alcohlic, if you going to met and marry a man from the race course expect to marry a gambler...

A few not all who get rid of one partner, go back to the bar or race course to find another...

There are those people who always attract the same certain kind of people to them and dont know it until they are burnt again, like a moth to a candle....

first to E...... a shag is a shag, just put a paper bag over the head


to F....... have to find a goat that is willing not to buck ... lol

I would be hoping for a 3some....joking...

The person you are hitting on, may not be SO into you and you could very well be missing out knowing a genuine one who is...

All is fair in love and war, as long as the weapons used are of the same caliber

For all those who have come out
of a long relationship
and are
now either divorced
or very separated...

A......If what you know now, want them back again.

B......Look for another who is simular to the EX

are you more of a negative person
or
are you more of a positive person
or
are you well balanced in both...

How much of who you think you are

you really are not?

What are the best and worst pick up lines
you have either said to another to get their attention
or
what they have said to you to get your full attention.

A/ best....>

B/ worst....>

AT the end of the day, each one who is here,
is here for a reason, from seeking love to
being a con artist towards the vulnerable...

But the advantage here, one can be less committed
to any form of relationship, just exit and change name
and start all over again...

With better skills or with a new begining to conquer or decieve, fall in love or not, it is best to just stay balanced and ahead of all the flaws that came with being on line...

This is another world of its own, with trappings, sadly sometimes there are those, who think this is reality, and forget about the real world outside.

Agnes Waters is becoming the new gold coast...


Hahahahaa!! Nah, the chrome and glass Sydney set, tried to create a mini Noosa... but due to the current economic crisis...(phew!)... they all fell in a heap... Agnes is pretty much the same now as it was 10 years ago, a few more holiday homes, and YOUR council, trying to make us conform...otherwise, same sh*t different day...


I havent been there in years, but it is just the bits and pieces one hears. It is a growing place, as many are moving that way to retire, its property is near a gold mine now...

YOUR council lol lol... If you not nice I will have to vote again!!!

Really I dont follow that much the ins and out, but I hope they do not spoil what is already good and working well...

I like shaven *heads* lol

Really some men are very attractive
without a head of hair...

Clean shaven *headed* men are the best kind of men
to have
love affairs with, because they leave no hair in bed.

BUT! they do need to wear a hat or cap when out-doors
as blad heads have
been known to bring aeroplanes down from the glare...!!

JOKinG I love blad headed men...

Have to say you do have lovely hair...

Wow... HEllllllllloooooooooooo

Agnes Waters is becoming the new gold coast
as it is such a nice place to be...

yeah yeah just down the road some from you...

hi again!!

An Australian here...

When I have spoken to American males via cam
or
they send pictures of themself...

Why oh Why... do they have hats or caps on indoors..?

All cant be bald!

YYYYes your are

knit one purl one knit one purl one knit one purl one...
damn dropped a stitch...
knit one purl one knit one purl one knit one purl one...

knit one purl one knit one purl one knit one purl one...
purl one knit one purl one knit one purl one...

near the 7inch mark...

Can one be judged the person they are
by the type and size of shoe they wear?

come closer so I can measure you
as I am knitting yours...