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I'm sorry that you went through this. It can happen to anyone!! You are not stupid and it's NOT YOUR FAULT!!!Please go get counseling ASAP! You can get through it. 
************************************************************* Absolutely Right ************************************************************** thanks but when will i sleep again did you have trouble sleeping after i have not told my family should i i dont want them to worrie but then at the same time i am scared that they will say i should not have gone to this party i am a single mom i just wanted a night with my friends but now wish i had stayed home with my kids it getting harder every day i keep trying to forget it but i cant. i dont think forgetting would help you in any way. the fact that you are having trouble sleeping says a lot. much better to seek counseling asap,and it kinda depends on your parents as if to tell them or not. if they would support you,then by all means tell them what happened. question? did you tell the people in charge of that party what happened? you might not have been the only victim that nite,you know... i never told anyone i bagged my friends not to tell but then a little more than 24 hours later i had to go to the hospital. |
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thought by telling the truth i would feel better but i just feel more shame how did i let this happen i am so stupid  and even worse i don't remember it at all
It's not your fault. It happened to me but I was lucky because one of my brother's friends saw me getting escorted out of the bar by the bouncers because they thought I was drunk. I had ONE drink! I left it on the bar to dance, came back and don't remember anything after that. I'm sure whoever roofied me was waiting and I feel lucky to have escaped what you could not. I'm sorry that you went through this. It can happen to anyone!! You are not stupid and it's NOT YOUR FAULT!!!Please go get counseling ASAP! You can get through it.
thanks but when will i sleep again did you have trouble sleeping after i have not told my family should i i dont want them to worrie but then at the same time i am scared that they will say i should not have gone to this party i am a single mom i just wanted a night with my friends but now wish i had stayed home with my kids it getting harder every day i keep trying to for get it but i cant. |
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thought by telling the truth i would feel better but i just feel more shame how did i let this happen i am so stupid
and even worse i don't remember it at all
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Edited by
hottie2005
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Wed 01/27/10 09:27 PM
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okay so this friend was me i had 2 drinks was not feeling well wanted to go up to are room and sleep i don't remember anything after telling my friends i was going to the room
 
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Topic:
Who's into Photography?
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i love taking pics i am thinking of taking a photography course but am unsure if i should do this at home or go to a collage. i have been looking in to taking it through Stratford career institute but have been told that when done it may not be recognized the same as going to a collage. anyone have advice for me on this ? O_O i wanted to take photography as my major in college but my dad told me it doesnt make enough money.. we all know whats the most important thing in the world.. :( money.. so maybe..my only advice for you is to take another course and put photography as a hobby o__o.. hope my advice helps.. i been thinking that i know it wont pay my bills and i need some thing that can do that so i am right back to thinking what else i might want to do???????? confused
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The drug is a very strong sedative and is used when strong sedatives are needed. It gets on the street the same way any drug does. Do not go to parties with people you cannot trust. Your girlfriends friends should not have let her leave the party alone. true but she only had 2 drinks they never thought about her going to the hotel room she never had to go out side just up 5 floors to the room. so either he followed her or she knew him and let him go in the room with her |
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this is just wrong i mean why are there drugs like this anyway as far as i see they are not used to help people. seams they do more harm than anything
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watch the ,ovie "hangover" and you'll understand the drug fully.... how can you help your friend, be there for her emotionally, other than that there's not too much you can do accept tell her and others never top accept a drink from anyone and if you leave the table or bar, never come back and drink what was left unattended..... i have seen that movie and never thought thats what really happens i mean i don't believe everything i see on tv |
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i just want to know because a friend went out to a party over the weekend had a couple drinks told her friend she did not feel well wanted to go back to the hotel room some how was found raped and passed out but she dose not remember any of what happened to her???
she went to the hospital but was told she had been raped but there must have been a condom used they did blood test and said they found a common drug called Rohypnol in her blood. anyone know about this drug Rohypnol how can i help my friend ??? |
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Edited by
hottie2005
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Mon 01/25/10 06:09 PM
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sad to hear one of are home town RCMP officers was killed in Haiti
sorry for him and his family wish them well |
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my friend needs help
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what did their 15 month old baby die from? SID'S sudden infant death |
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my friend needs help
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what u r describing is DV. have her contact her local DV resource, and keep quiet about it. they do things you can't.
ok i am not shore what DV is but i talked to her and told her i am there for her with what ever choices she makes |
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trouble sleeping ??
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thanks this is true i have a lot going on and most times i just keep taking on new things maybe i am trying to do way to much ?????
thanks for the help and i am starting more therapy next week. |
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trouble sleeping ??
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thanks
it just got worse lately fore the past few years it was not much more than one a month but this past month its been every night. its been 3-4 hours sleep each night and i wake up i feel the pain as if it had just happened that min. if this help me get more advice april 6 2006 was the day my ex broke 3 of my ribs and badly beat my 6 month old daughter. i am going to a therapist. |
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trouble sleeping ??
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just wondering if anyone could relate to this ? i have been having trouble sleeping its been taking hours to fall a sleep then i keep having a dream about what happened to me on April 6 2006 . why do i relive this most offal day of my life over and over. what can i do to get some sleep ??
any suggestion plz ?
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wish you well.
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what would you do ???
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well my landlord never came here to day either to look at the light. looks like i'll be moving the F**k out cant live like this to make it worse the tap in the bathroom that they did just fix last week broke again the cold water has been running since late yesterday and its not just a drip its running full fores.
HOW DO THE GET OFF WITH LEAVING THING IN SUCH BAD SHAPE!! |
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my friend needs help
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thanks and i plane to do what ever i can for the kids but i can let her 2 year old son stay with me but shes pregnant i cant make her go to save that baby and thats what worries me. that baby may not be born yet but its still a child and like you all say i cant make her leave
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my friend needs help
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there isn't anything you can do to MAKE her do something. If she wants to stay for herself, then that is on her. But if the kids are seeing all of this or having it toward them then she needs to stop worrying about what people think of her and get her kids out. It's not just her. Her kids are involved and she is keeping them in that situation i tried to tell her that i have been in 3 different relationships like this i know its bad for the kids i cant say i was any better when it come to leaving it took him putting me in the hospital and i almost lost my daughter to a miscarriage and i still went back to him when my little girl was almost 2 months old then only 4 months later he broke my ribs and hurt are 6 month old daughter. |
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my friend needs help
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Like they said. She has to see it and care enough about herself and kids to get out. Even if it means moving to another state. I third CPS.!! Check the Law in your state. If you have knowledge of a criminal act and it's found out you didn't report it, you could be implicated as an accessory after the fact. this is Canada i know the cps systems and court system in are province suck i find the are always were they are not needed first but thats just what i see |
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