Do you have anybody in mind? If you do and really are confused then I might be inclined to stay single!

Cat, that wouldn't have been a problem for you if I'd been running interference for you!

I presume that this guy is about the same age as you are. If so, he's at his sexual zenith. So don't count on things getting better with time. From your photos I see that you're a drop dead sexy woman! If those legs of yours don't tell him that they lead all the way up to Heaven then I suggest that you check his pulse.

My dog does my flirting for me!

Then I'd be dangerous!

I'm a sucker for a woman who flirts with her eyes.

Great minds think alike!

Sorry, I'm late to the party here and didn't read the who string.

How do you mean?

How do you mean?

I know that this whole thread got started on the topic of breast size and physical stature, but there's one thing that I personally think is more significant than either of those ... the eyes. A person can convey so much more about themselves by how they use their eyes than any other part of their anatomy.

Am I the only one who thinks that way?

I could not agree more! I'm merely saying that there are evolutionary reason why some men do gauge a woman's worth by the physical dimensions of specific aspects of her body. I am not one of them and am attracted to a woman for her particular qualities that may or may not be physical in nature.

Ask yourself this: When did he ask you when your birthday was? And did he remember it the first time it came around?

At some point in their development men come to the point of appreciating intimacy as the best thing about sex. However, when I was in my teens and twenties there was more of an immediate need to sate those normally saturated urges. Intimacy some times got put on the back burner.

Mea culpa, Ladies!

We men are genetically hard wired to "appreciate" the size of a woman's breasts and shape of her hips. The end goal, of course, is child bearing and preservation of the species. Some of us have evolved a bit past that to appreciate women for other things. But there is still that reptilian brain at work that notices that "dog whistle" shape that has been long held up as the ideal in popular culture.

Point taken in regard to respecting women for their intellect and value as something besides a breeder. But cut us just a little bit of slack because we still are visual creatures.

Cat, we chatted a month or two ago. How are things in Salmon? Is the snow melting yet?

Posture is important for both men and women. Good posture is a sign of self confidence, which in and of itself is sexy.

If I could slip in here .... I'm over 6 feet and have a predilection for smaller women. Then, too, I also have a predilection for taller women. Height doesn't make a lot of difference to me. If the lady is shorter then I just ask if she'd like to sit on my lap.