A smile, a hug, a little love, like leaven goes a long ways

B6 has been proven to help and is found in comfort foods such as potatoes, also broccolli and thyme also and a hug is good too from the rigth person

prayers sent

cool, thanks

is to be a friend
take the time to share blessings
let in a smile and laughter
and you won't be lonely
ever after

when people tell me wise up and take back my ex
that all I am is a bad wife looking for another one to have sex

all the dates I have been on
none has been much different than any other
guys with hangups and anger issues looking for a mommy or someone to sleep with for a night or two
mydreams for mr. right may be just that
DREAMS
and if that is so then I pray for all of you that you have happiness somehow
and I will do my best ANYWAY
and try not to be
sad

thanks and may this year be a great year for you all and may all your days have rainbows with just the right amount of rain and sunshine in your lives!

of love and understanding
of happiness never ending
of someone to touch our mind and heart and to find
TRUE LOVE

yup, my told me he threw up in his girlfriend's mouth after drinking one too many and tonguing,and he wondered why she dumped him the next day!

Someone told me the other day they thought it very good that no matter what people I decide are not right for me, I keep trying. It is kind of like what I read about Thomas Edison inventing the light bulb and he did not think he failed all the times he did not invent it, just said those were the times it did not work. The right love happens for the right person at the right time if we have faith and keep trying and be patient.

Alive and don't let anyone get you down
with harshe words, I'm sorries or frowns
It is not our responsibility to make anyone be happy or right with life
all we can do is try to love and be right with ourselves
if we have children and friends
love and keep them strong
and keep liivng and loving and we will never be alone
so if I love you's come knocking at your door
but in them sometimes is some pain thrown in
up and downs
no matter how lonely you feel
it is plastic melting and not real
syphoning the life from the soul
the hopes and dreams that could be
so take the time to choose
carefully
do not be afraid to walk away if the relationship is wrong
take the first step to live and love and dream again
and heal
take a stand
and be strong

not stagnant in a pool
plugged and clogged by life;s gruel or things that are cruel
don't let bitterness suck out all that makes you whole
let go
and give to God what is too great to bear
upon His shoulders which are there to care
who knows your every tear and every dream
has heard every nightmare's silent scream
who can heal and love you so
rest in Him from Life's troubles like a storm around
in his arms know Love abounds
and no matter where your trail may go
embrace the love and let it flow!

The sun filtered through the flowers and the palms danced a rattle jag in a slow and gentle Hawaiian breeze
the sea rolled playfully in the distnace as the pastor told of bamboo and bending and forgiving and cherishing one another through our lives
when he said to kiss our friends clapped and we ate very good cake afterwards that they gace us and Italian cookies with almonds in them
afterwards we ate chicken too and my younger daughter took lots of pictures, smiling, as she did so
the stars above twinkled one by one and a light seemed to be about our property so light that we could even read, for days like a big night light from God
let everyday be a blessing and no day be one to let anger or bitterness in
but always sunshine with the gentle rains that sink to earth and birth the sleeping seeds like my baby inside me
that will one day be born
as I slept I heard an angel or someone say a name ot name it if it was a boy or girl
It is so exciting to have children to love and to be a family
caring for and charishing eachother and never being lonely
so imoportant to take the time TODAY to LOVE friends and family
for nothing is more important
no material thing can replace their arms about you or tears if they cry
so let EVERYDAY be special days!ALWAYS!

thanks guys, blesings to you all and may your life be happy always

Thanks for your imput. It helps alot, will be better when I move form here and do not see my ex around town to act nice to us and make me feel bad.

I am a member of two groupd against abuse. Still have had lots of flack from men when I wanted to move on, saying and soem women too that I needed to be a better wife to my ex and he woudl not have been mean to us and that I have no right to have anyone else. Its hard enough to be a single mom or dad without judging.

thank you

thanks. That is what I feel I should do, even though am pregnant. It seems safer raising and loving my kids alone than taking the chance of violence again. If I am meant to find someone, I will.

looking for friends and someday a permanent relationship that ads to all of us

I think it is because of the adage that people who feared God seemed more kind and moral. but those who say they follow God can also be very cruel. God is love and true love should have no unkindness in dates or marriage.