Do any of you think it may be good to put a list of couples, so non intetional flirting is done?


((I'm only aware of Captain And Eliena.))
Sure hope I got the spellings right.

Hopefully this can offset some hurt.

I don't know I think it's up to the couples to decide if flirting is ok or not... If their profile states they're in a relationship then someone should know better... jmho

I think it is up to them...Like princess said if thier profile says they are in a relationship then others need to leave well enough alone!!

I think couples should be forced to leave the site in a voting cerimony akin to the one on survivor.

And i get all their cookies.

Maybe it's a bad idea, but it was posted that some are looking or flirting with those taken. I don't want to have any part of that.

I've always considered flirting innocent fun, however there is a line that can be crossed...which creates dispute, so I stay away from dispute by remaining single.

my relationship is pretty new i met him on here..but ive been open and honest on here since i have started dating..if i get emails i let the guys know im dating..and on the forums too and i have inocent giggles on the forums which my new man reads about...so its all about honesty and been open

I agree. Unfortunately, some people aren't as respectful or considerate as you or me.

It is also a moot point if the other party in the relationship encourages or initiates the flirting, isn't it.

Me? Well, I'm taken by Someone on this site, yes. So, I don't flirt to come on to other males and I certainly don't flirt sexually with them. As for my partner and other females? He'll answer for Himself if He likes.

Posting a thread like this won't stop hurt feelings or dishonesty. Those that have the potential to be this way will be this way, come Hell or high water. I'm not so sure people are capable of this kind of change. I'd love to be proven wrong.

Love & Light~

there are people on here that are in a relationship but still flirt and they are ok with it. But there are some romances you need a score card to keep up with. but there are some that will last.

all you can do is get to know people first and watch how they interact with others. maybe send an email to them and ask them if it offends them

From what I've seen, a "Couples Thread" would be edited endlessly and be almost impossible to follow along with, anyway.

Insightful common sense might alleviate some "hurt", but...

It is disgusting, I agree. But, you know....it always takes two. The problem is just as much with the "taken" (unable to commit and deceitful) partner as it is with the person who has an agenda or poor morals and character to seek out someone who is supposedly monogamous and unavailable.

A person really has to evaluate if they want to spend the rest of their lives with a womanizer or ho, imho. Does a person really need the stress or agita? Do they need the grey hairs and grief? I think not.

As for the ones who are lacking in personal integrity, impulse control? Those who are compulsive sex addicts or liars? Well, oftentimes, they don't realize what they had or what they'll never have again till they've lost it.

Too bad for them. It is a shame they have to cause others grief in the process.

that was something different. it was someone being disrespectful. Many on here our in relationships but they flirt. there is nothing wrong with that. it's knowing the boundaries and if a guy isn't flirting with anyone...then probably a good idea that it's not his thing.

but the ones that flirt do so with the other knowing it an not feeling threatened.

now if a girl pushes to try to break them up or stalks or whatever...then yes that is a problem

harmless flirting isn't. and there is nothing wrong with emailing someone and asking if you offended them or if they are ok with it. i do it all the time, but i would never do it out of disrepect and if i thought it bothered anyone...i would certainly stop

I personally feel that if Karma gets a bug up his butt, and thinks I'm flirting, he will certainly tell me...

As to me encouraging others???

Yeah right... I alienate people.... not attract them!!!!

oh hush....you are a hottie. you don't alienate anyone dork

Yeah but never judge a book by it's cover, this one bites...

I just kick in the crotch

It certainly is. BUT, is the other party considerate enough - Man or Woman enough to correct it, stop it in its tracks.

Or, do they need the deception, false attention, and sexual compulsion to feel real and whole?

I tend to react one of two ways when crossed. Either I walk away, coldly - and never look back. Or - you don't wanna know....

Not really sure, cuz it seems when you do other people on that dating site try to ruin a good thing. It's weird.

Well I have stated on many occasions who my boyfriend is on here, hasn't stopped some females from messaging and flirting with my man. some people like to be homewreckers. Thankfully, my man is honest with me about this and I have no worries.