wtg hk - that's how I think it should be, we can only control our own behaviours not anyone else's. he is respectful of you and your feelings and is honest with you, it's really not to much to ask nor expect from a partner.

I think its up to the couple. It seems if they are still on the site they must enjoy the flirting. Besides everyone has the right to tell someone off if it is getting out of hand

You have? Ooooh I wanna know .. I think I live in a bubble. I'm so unobservant.

but that's cool sweetie

hellkitten, i knew you are taken but i don't know by whom. anyway thats why i usually will not flirt with you just talk to you because i respect the fact that you are taken.

It is a good thing when they are honest about it. It is almost CERTAIN to end the relationship when they are not.

Some people don't know a good thing when they have it - or how easy it is to lose a good thing because of dishonesty and lack of compassion.

There are men who are so stupid simply because they don't think with the right head - till it is too late. It is all about the temporary rush and false pleasure. (Yes, this applies to females, too.)

I used to think it was always wrong for the offended party to step in, to say anything to the party that was threatening their relationship. Afterall, wasn't the blame, fault, lacking, always in their own partner? Wasn't there a problem in the relationship? Well, I have learned over time - sometimes yes and sometimes no. You are probably going to lose either way, whether you say or do anything or not.

And, if your partner is a worm - most times, they aren't going to change their ways for anyone.

The truth always comes out in the end and light is shed to show people for who and what they really are. Eventually, the "bad eggs" stink enough to sink their own boats in communities - even "cyber" ones like these.

So - do what ya' gotta do to be true to yourself.

Thank you. Yes, we had a talk about this. Honesty is best policy. He knows and I know, when it's all said and done at the end of the day, we care about each other too much to let drama interfere in our lives.

It's ok. He is Erowid1.

Thanks sweetie. You are sweet.

oh ya I know who that is ... cool beans

I sent this out before. Any takers...........

There are some interesting and good opinions that were put on here and glad i had the chance to read them.

To me this is a trust thing and repect for the one your with. At the same time though when i see couple flirt and and not going to bring names up. but I did see this last week when the other was mad because of the one that was getting emails from others. So how can one say it's ok to flirt and be that way at the same time? I myself if i'm with someone. why put myself in a stiuation where it might get out of hand so i wouldn't flirt with anyone on here and if i did it shows otheres it's ok and invites unwanted flirts and emails. Yes it's up to the couple but mind you, this is the net and anything goes with alot of people on here.....

what if the color of the number of posts under their picture was different. If it's red - that means they are not looking.

Just a thought here If people don't read profiles, what makes you think they would pay any attention to that.

Some of us couples stay on here because we have made awesome friends and enjoy watching love blossom among others. My girlfriend and I occasionally still flirt with others, but only with friends who know we are taken. It's all in good fun. It's all about honesty and trust.

Oh Noooooooooooooo!! Another good one taken....

only because it appears under their picture when they post in the forums.

All of these sound good. I only posted this in response to Madam's posting. I and I'm aware of others don't want to hurt others, or offend in any way.

Nite.

But I like flirting!!!!!


And I let people know I am taken, hell most of the time my pic is the two of us.

I love to flirt. Those of you that I have kissed in the games thread know that. Eileen is the love of my life and she knows where my heart is. Everything else is just fluff.

OK - Eileena give us some Sugar